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Now the times have been progressing, in order to make the times progress, the policy has also been changing, from the beginning of the birth of a bunch of great mothers, to the later birth of fewer eugenics, the only child is the king of the world, and then later, the opening of the two-child policy, the birth of two to accompany each other to grow, until now the three-child policy is also open.
Policies are changing, people's minds are also changing, having children is not an easy thing, not pressing the button, the child will fall to the ground. What he needs is his mother to conceive in October, and he also needs the companionship and care of his family, so for the matter of giving birth to a child, it is directly related to the mother, and only the mother can decide how many to have.
Gorky once said this:
"All the glory and pride in the world comes from the mother."
Indeed, maternal love is great. Today we want to talk about the story from netizens who have become mothers of little apples.
01. Pregnancy is not taken care of.
Little Apple is a post-90s girl, although she is not very old. But the thinking is still more traditional. She felt that anyone should get married and have children to be complete, so Little Apple began such a dogmatic life plan soon after graduation.
Married at the age of 23 and born a year later. Pregnant in October, she knew the greatness of her mother, and only then did she know that giving birth to a child could not be born at once, and that she needed a woman's strong heart, and she needed the company of her husband and the care of others. And the little apple is the child who gave birth to none of these things.
In the early stages of pregnancy, the small apple can not smell greasy, and the morning sickness reaction is extremely large. Every time she smelled stir-fried vegetables, she felt sick, and her mother-in-law, who was a woman, did not understand her, but when she left the table because of vomiting, her mother-in-law said: "Is this disgusting the food I made?"
Her husband would explain, "Mom, she doesn't mean that." But the mother-in-law will still say in a yin and yang weird way: "My son will make excuses for her." Sometimes, Little Apple will also feel that her mother-in-law is deliberately rectifying her, because the most unaccustomed thing about Little Apple is the smell of fried potato shreds, and she told her husband that he also successfully conveyed it to his mother-in-law. But since then, her mother-in-law has often fried shredded potatoes, and said: "This is my son's favorite food, the more he has morning sickness, the more he can't get used to you, you have to overcome, you have to get used to it."
Little Apple was also helpless, but she felt that this might be the kindness of her mother-in-law, but what she did not expect was that in the end, when she needed to be taken care of, her mother-in-law disappeared.
Later, when the stomach was getting bigger and bigger, the little apple's leg was still swollen, although the little apple knew that pregnant women still needed to move around more, but sometimes, it was really inadequate. On this day, the little apple was anxious to go to the toilet, but the toilet paper in her hand suddenly fell to the ground, the little apple's stomach was huge, bending down to pick it up was really a little difficult, the husband was not there, she had to ask for help from her mother-in-law.
"Mom, can you help me?" Little Apple said very carefully, but the mother-in-law was impatient, and her mouth was still fragmented: "What's wrong, what's wrong, everything has to rely on me, I don't know if I'm cooking for my son." What's the matter? ”
"Can you pick it up for me?"
The mother-in-law looked at the roll of paper on the ground, looked helpless, and began to count the small apples: "You called me to come, that is, let me help you pick paper?" Can't you pick it up? I don't know if I'm busy right now, net to add to my mess. ”
After the mother-in-law said it, she did not pick the little apple, but directly left.
The little apple was helpless to finally pick it up by himself, but unexpectedly, he was incontinent. She felt very ashamed, but instead of being comforted, she was counted by her mother-in-law and couldn't do anything well!
02. Give birth to a daughter.
When the little apple has a big belly, her sister-in-law is also pregnant, the sister-in-law is different from herself, no matter when she is, her husband and mother-in-law are with her. Her mother-in-law treated her like her own daughter, and occasionally when the sister-in-law returned to her mother-in-law's house for a moment, her mother-in-law would call her and ask what she wanted to eat at noon. She also said that in the early stages of pregnancy, we must pay more attention, be careful and careful, and if there is any problem, we must contact her in time, she will help the sister-in-law to do a good job, do not let the sister-in-law move more, so as not to slip the tire.
Little Apple was envious, but she felt that her mother-in-law was only uncomfortable for a moment and a half, and when she gave birth to a child, after her mother-in-law became a grandmother, she might be careful to her.
On an ordinary night, the husband was working overtime at the unit, Xiao Apple suddenly had stomach pain, and her due date was exactly these few days, but the mother-in-law was not by her side, but played mahjong outside, and Xiao Apple had to endure severe pain to dial 120, this move did not exchange for the mother-in-law's guilt, but only in exchange for her perfunctory expression: "The daughter-in-law is still quite powerful, presumably there is no big problem, you can also play 120 by yourself."
Little Apple gave birth to a daughter, and her husband and she were very happy, after all, it was a sweet little cotton jacket, and it was also the meat that Little Apple fell out of her pregnancy in October. But the mother-in-law was not very happy, she preferred sons to daughters, and also counted down the small apples: "I have been summoned for so long, and the delicate ones have been made for such a long time, and then they gave birth to a girl, and it is really not to continue the incense for our family."
03. No second child.
At the time of confinement, the older generation of people pay attention to pregnant women to cover, but the mother-in-law feels that the smell of the home is unpleasant, directly open all the doors and windows, the husband and sister-in-law have told the mother-in-law, the confinement of the pregnant women must pay attention to eating, to eat some light things, her mother-in-law is very angry, she said:
"Co-authoring is to ask me to serve her, I will cook you a meal, but also to make a light thing for her, how did you give birth?" I'm from here, but I'm not as squeamish as she is. This can't work, that can't work, how can she do so many things? Really think of yourself as a princess? I also gave birth to a daughter, what is the spirit? ”
Little Apple is completely cold to her mother-in-law, Little Apple knows that she can only rely on herself, so she pays great attention to her own maintenance, less oil and less salt to cook for herself, and slowly begin to work out. Later, the sister-in-law also gave birth to a child, the same daughter, the difference is that her mother-in-law did not dislike the child, but sincerely said to the sister-in-law, the daughter-in-law is hard.
Little Apple saw the gap between the mother-in-law, so in the mother-in-law and the little apple said, our family has a generation of single transmission, you give birth to a daughter to hurry up and regenerate a big fat boy.
Little Apple only smiled and said that her husband did not have this idea and plan, and her mother-in-law could not say anything about her husband, so she had to annoy Little Apple again and again.
On this day, the mother-in-law suddenly said to the little apple: "It is good for us women to have a son, my son is just confused for a while, if you want to get pregnant, it is not up to us to say?" Daughter-in-law, you see that your sister-in-law has given birth to a second child, you were still pregnant earlier than the first child, do you not grasp it? ”
"I don't give birth." The little apple directly broke the mother-in-law's fantasy.
"Why? You are filial piety! ”
"People have mothers-in-law, do I have them, where were you when I gave birth?" Where are you during confinement? ”
The mother-in-law knew that she was wrong and did not squeak.
Later, Xiao Apple asked her husband and told her mother-in-law directly that she had no idea of having a second child, and her mother-in-law had to give up.
04. Pregnant women need care.
Mother is very great, every child at birth, will let the mother experience a thousand kinds of pain, but the mother has no regrets, because the woman is weak, for the mother is just, this is a kind of nature, but also we must admit that when a mother is pregnant, giving birth, and even confinement, are very weak, they are weak, need the protection and care of the people around them, in addition to physical pain, there will be some sadness in the psychology, I can't understand my figure suddenly out of shape, my hair begins to fall wildly, Even when pregnant, life is still unable to take care of itself, which brings a huge shadow to every girl, and this time needs to be accompanied.
Many mothers-in-law hope to be able to hold their grandchildren, but they only use their daughters-in-law as a production machine, do not know how to care or take care of them, which will make every woman chill.
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