My cousin said when I got married, my marriage to your cousin-in-law lasted only three months.
I didn't expect this sentence to become a proverb, and it also confirmed the horror of the sixth sense.
Point 1, the cousin's three-month marriage.
Unlike most people, other little girls were happy or jumping and jumping before they got married, but they all had accidents at their cousins.
Even when I asked my cousin why you were not happy when I got married, my cousin secretly pulled me aside and said I told you something, but this matter can only be known to you.
I have a hunch that I am definitely divorced if I have been married to your cousin-in-law for less than three months.
At that time, after I heard about this incident, the whole person was blindfolded, and even a little confused about the east, west, south and north, so that when my cousin and cousin-in-law gave each other red envelopes to each other's parents, my whole person was still a little vague.
I still can't understand, since my cousin has decided that her marriage with my cousin-in-law can't go on, why should I get married? 、
In fact, this matter should be started from the beginning, in the early years, my cousin's mother was also my aunt, in order to be able to marry my cousin out early, I directly offered a price.
My girlfriend is so excellent, at least she has to come up with a dowry of 300,000 yuan, and she also has to have a car and a house, in fact, this requirement is not too high.
In the first-tier big cities, it is like playing, but don't forget that my hometown is a small village, and the county where this small village is attached does not have much economic conditions.
According to my aunt's standards and requirements, I simply can't find a corresponding good match, it is difficult to find a young man who is also very concerned about his cousin, but the only problem is the age problem, this young man is older than his cousin, at least 10 years old.
But the brother-in-law did not know what was going on, that is, he looked at his cousin, and even he directly said to the outside world that he would not marry his cousin in this life.
Coupled with the fact that the brother-in-law is about 10 years older than his cousin, he has also accumulated some capital and contacts in the past period of time, and although 300,000 is a bit difficult, it is more or less taken out.
But the aunt didn't know what to think, after making a price for her daughter, she suddenly felt that the price was a little low.
So the aunt directly hinted that the cousin should not get off the car on the day of the wedding, as long as you do not get off the car, there is room for negotiation, this time the brother-in-law is in a hurry, circling the whole car back and forth.
The brother-in-law asked my cousin why don't you get off the bus, if you don't get off the car, we can't hold a wedding, and if you can't hold the wedding, you will be laughed at by people around you.
However, my cousin also showed her cowardice at this time, whispering on the side, my mother said that she would have to add another 200,000 bride price, if there is no additional 200,000 bride price, then this marriage will not be completed.
The brother-in-law heard this sentence like five thunderbolts, and then seized the time to call his future mother, so that he could say that he had finally reduced 200,000 yuan to 50,000 yuan.
But after getting married, my aunt came up with a bad idea on the side, as the saying goes, if you want to catch a man's heart, you must first grab a man's wallet.
And at this time, I wondered, no, didn't you say before that if you want to catch a man's heart, you have to grab a man's stomach, and you must make him a good meal?
Then the aunt listened to it and smiled and said that it was too difficult to make a good meal for them, and the stomach could not be satisfied, so we could simply grab the wallet for them.
After listening to the cousin, she felt that it was also reasonable, so after getting married, the cousin began to take charge of the financial power in the housekeeper, and the brother-in-law actually had no opinion at the beginning, after all, there must always be a person in the family who manages the money, who is not in charge.
But the brother-in-law slowly realized that something was wrong, and his daily expenses were compressed to a very low.
Before getting married, I was able to smoke a box of relatively high-grade cigarettes, but now when I smoke, I can only smoke from the root, and it is still the cheapest.
So that when my brother-in-law went out, he only had three or five dollars in his pocket, and later I often invited my brother-in-law to dinner, and the reason why I invited my brother-in-law to dinner was because if I didn't invite my brother-in-law to eat, my brother-in-law would have no money in his pocket.
Seeing this embarrassing state of my cousin-in-law, I hurried to call my cousin and told my cousin that I could no longer listen to my aunt, and that my aunt was sometimes unreliable, and if she continued like this, she might push you into a dead end.
After saying this, my cousin was also emotional on the side, and my mother was right, after getting married, I had a good life, and this day was exactly what I dreamed of.
The cousin wants to eat what to eat, what to drink, what day to live is called a cool, but this day is cool to a certain extent, the brother-in-law is miserable.
So much so that later, my brother-in-law and I drank late at night, and my brother-in-law always asked me, what do you say is the meaning of this marriage?
The meaning of marriage can not always be said to be that I bought a car and bought a house, took out a 300,000 bride price, and then gave me another 200,000 before my wife got off the car, and did not get off the car without giving money.
After getting married, I still have to hand over all the money, I sneaked into the private room money, it is only 130 yuan, this 130 yuan is still counting on as life-saving money, how can this marriage be so depressed?
Point 2, the final outcome of the event.
Sure enough, as my cousin said, in less than three months, my cousin and brother-in-law divorced directly.
After the divorce, the brother-in-law found a new good match, and got married again in just half a month, only this time the marriage was much better than the brother-in-law imagined.
In fact, to tell the truth, the brother-in-law itself is not bad money, the family is very rich, but the money in the family brother-in-law has basically not moved much, it is all the money he has earned from working hard outside over the years, but even so, the brother-in-law is also very good, very excellent.
Then someone asked my brother-in-law to find another good friend, what about your cousin? I'm sorry my cousin is still at home, because the price my aunt opened is too high.
We don't talk about the sixth sense, we don't talk about other so-called things that are so-called confused, we just talk about marriage.
Is marriage really the effort of either party, and is it a bottomless payment? No, absolutely not, here we are not only referring to the man's giving, but also the woman's giving.
Marriage refers to two people forming a new family together, and in the process of forming a new family, both parents of these two people should become assistants to help their children cross the threshold together, rather than becoming a stumbling block for their children.