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Uncle Chen, 62 years old, has a monthly pension of 5,000 yuan, and the insurance that should be bought has been bought, and his later life is very secure.
He has two houses, one for himself and one for his son and daughter-in-law.
After his wife died in a car accident five years ago, he felt more and more that his son and daughter-in-law were unreliable, so he germinated the idea of finding a wife to take care of each other and spend the rest of his life together.
Although his son was in his thirties, he did not have the slightest sense of enterprise.
Keep a stable job with a salary of 3,000 yuan, never ask for a promotion and a raise, as long as you commute to work on time.
His daughter-in-law works at home as a stay-at-home mom with grandchildren.
Now that his grandson is in the fourth grade of elementary school, he goes to and from school by himself and eats in the school cafeteria at noon.
His daughter-in-law spends a lot of time, but she is lazy and lazy, and she has never thought of going out to work and earn money.
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The car in the house they lived in, and all the insurance for the family, was bought by Uncle Chen.
Before Uncle Chen retired, his and his wife's salaries were quite high, and he saved a lot of money in order to have the capital to nibble on his son's family for so long.
But this is not the way to go.
Uncle Chen knew that his son's family could not count on him, and he also knew that if he had been subsidizing him, he would only become more and more lazy without pressure.
So he cut off his son's living allowance last year.
He wants to keep money for his pension, and it is better to rely on others than on himself!
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His requirements for blind dates are not high, as long as the other party has financial resources and is not completely dependent on him.
Soon, the Red Lady introduced him to the 60-year-old Aunt Ju.
Aunt Ju divorced a lot due to her husband's domestic violence, and her monthly pension is 2500 yuan.
Her ex-husband's financial conditions were relatively good, and her daughter chose her father's side and went to live in his city.
Aunt Ju's daughter had less contact with her and her relationship was relatively flat.
Although Aunt Ju's pension is not high, she has opened an elderly clothing store by herself, and there are many repeat customers, and the business has been good.
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She also does not have high requirements for blind dates, and she can close her eyes.
After the two met, they first introduced themselves.
Aunt Ju did not look at Uncle Chen at first.
Only because he is not tall and somewhat obese, and he still has a half-bald head.
Uncle Chen took a fancy to Aunt Ju at a glance.
Because she is dressed young and fashionable, it is very suitable for his eyes.
Aunt Ju's expression of dissatisfaction with him was written all over his face, and it was clearly seen by Uncle Chen.
He didn't want to miss this opportunity, so he did everything he could to show himself in front of Aunt Ju.
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His "self-blackness" of his appearance and his humorous conversation made Aunt Ju, who was originally calm,laugh.
Aunt Ju's impression of him was slightly better.
Unexpectedly, his ordinary skin bag hid an interesting soul.
On weekdays, she has to do everything in her power to make customers happy and tired.
Nowadays, there is someone who can try to make herself happy, and this feeling makes her feel very warm.
The more the two of them talked, the more speculative they became, and Aunt Ju's good feelings for him gradually deepened, and she had the idea of trying everywhere.
Just when the two were chatting and gossiping, Uncle Chen suddenly raised a question, which instantly shattered Aunt Ju's good feelings for her.
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Uncle Chen asked her: "Can you accept the husband and wife AA system of life?" ”
Aunt Ju shook her head without even thinking about it, "No! Since ancient times, men have supported their families, and it is natural. ”
Uncle Chen: "But I have come into contact with many couples who remarry in their later years, and they all think that the life concept of AA is the most appropriate at the moment." AA system life can not only better enhance the feelings of husband and wife, but also reduce conflicts of interest and contradictions. ”
Aunt Ju skimmed her lips in disapproval: "I don't know about others, anyway, I don't approve." My idea of remarriage is to be good to the man and to raise me. If neither can be achieved, I will not marry. ”
Uncle Chen: "If you marry me, I will definitely be good to you." ”
"How do you guarantee that?" You won't even raise me, and you still talk about how good it is for me. A man who wants to be nice to a woman shouldn't start by raising her? Aunt Ju didn't understand Uncle Chen's thoughts.
Uncle Chen: "Men raise women, including many kinds!" We treasure the taste of the sea every day, and we also raise it. We bun buns every day, that is also raised. My income is so little, I am afraid that if I raise you, you will suffer with me, I can't bear it! We can be financially independent and do housework together, which avoids ninety percent of the contradictions in remarried families..."
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Uncle Chen gushed incessantly, trying to convince Aunt Ju with a three-inch tongue.
But Aunt Ke Ju is used to business and has dealt with guests of different personalities, how can she be fooled by Uncle Chen with three words and two words?
"If you don't raise me, what will I marry you for?" Figure you old or figure you don't bathe? ”
After Aunt Ju finished speaking, she did not wait for Uncle Chen to speak, and then took the initiative to terminate the blind date.
summary
As the saying goes: marry a man, dress and eat.
If a man can't provide a woman with the most basic life security, who will marry him?
Uncle Chen's pension is quite large, and there are insurance subsidies, which is more than enough to feed two people.
However, he chose to be self-sufficient and unwilling to show sincerity to support each other, which led to the failure of the blind date.
When the elderly remarry, it is nothing more than finding someone who can take care of each other and keep each other warm.
If the man can take the initiative to take the initiative to take the responsibility financially, it is still easy to find an old partner.
If the economy is not pulled out, the housework is not actionable, the man may have to die alone.
After all, no "stupid woman" will post money to do free babysitting, you say?
Couples who remarry in their later years, do you think they should implement the AA system of life philosophy?
![The parents-in-law paid to take the baby for 6 years, and after the mother-in-law came, the son let the parents-in-law go, and the daughter-in-law: divorce[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)