People will encounter countless people in this life, some of them just pass by, some of them can go forward with themselves, and very few will make them remember for a lifetime.
The two words of goodbye may be read out for less than a second, but many people really do not want to say it, and sometimes when a goodbye ends, it becomes the last meeting in this life, and every time I recall it, it is particularly sentimental.
The world is so big, among the people you meet, you want to find a person who is completely compatible with your soul, and the two people from meeting, knowing, knowing each other, and then falling in love and falling in love, so as to spend the rest of their lives together, the probability of this kind of thing happening is not much more than finding a needle in a haystack.
Careful observation of the people around them will find that some women live very happily after marriage, and some women live a life of chicken flying and dog jumping after marriage, gradually boiling themselves into yellow-faced women, and will also be accused by their husbands of being bitter melon faces.
So what kind of husbands are women who live unhappy after marriage? There are mainly 3 kinds, do not want to shed tears after marriage, it is best to stay away from such men, once married, the chance of regret is very large.
1, a man with a paranoid personality
Friends who often go online recently must have seen such a hot search, Ms. Huang received suicide threats from the other party because she refused to marry her boyfriend, and in desperation, Ms. Huang had to get a marriage license with the other party.
After the marriage, Ms. Huang regretted it, so she sued her husband to the court. Because the two had never lived together, let alone had any feelings, Ms. Huang was still threatened, and the court finally ruled to revoke the marriage between Ms. Huang and her husband.
There are not many examples like this in life, and some men will also use the woman's private photos or the safety of their families to force the other party to agree to their own requirements.
It has to be said that this kind of behavior is very shameful, and marriage laws do not protect such men. As long as the woman has evidence and sues the other party in time, then she can return to singlehood, and it is useless to get a marriage license.
Men with a paranoid personality are terrible, and they are easy to drill the horns and find a way to the end.
Being with such a man is tantamount to living in the depths of the water, because you don't know when you will provoke each other.
They don't know what respect is at all, so serious that they can't even allow their girlfriends to have different thoughts from themselves, otherwise they will become very grumpy.
Some women also experience domestic violence after marrying a paranoid husband.
Therefore, any woman who has some sense and knows how to love herself will not easily marry such a "dangerous person". If you really like it, see if you can take the other party to cure the disease, so as to avoid being injured after marriage.
2, men who ask you for money under various pretexts
In a certain emotional program, there is a couple, the woman is a small rich woman, her parents are doing good jobs in the city, the man is from the countryside, and the parents make a living from farming.
After the two fell in love, the living expenses were basically paid by women. She bought her boyfriend a dress, and the price was almost as good as the other party's salary for a month.
Sometimes when it's late from work, women will buy gifts for their boyfriends or give them bank cards as a form of compensation.
Such a life woman does not feel anything, what makes her angry is that the boyfriend cheats on himself.
The woman gave her boyfriend some money to decorate the house, and finally it was not right, and soon the woman found that the boyfriend was behind her back to pay her ex-girlfriend.
There was also a boyfriend who said that she wanted to start a company with her brother, and finally the woman asked her boyfriend's brother and learned that there was no such thing.
In addition, eating forgot to bring a card, buy clothes forgot to bring a card, such a situation has happened too many times, the woman finally can't stand it, she decided to let her boyfriend return her money, this love does not talk about it.
True love is not something that one party can give unilaterally.
It's like a tug-of-war, only one side to contribute, the other side to do nothing, the last side of the force is doomed to lose.
Everyone is not stupid, and when their efforts are not rewarded, they will think of stopping losses in time.
Love someone, do not let the other party work hard, you will enjoy it.
If you find that your boyfriend always asks for money from himself under various pretexts, and never pays it back after that, or even mentions it, he should pay attention.
He's probably just thinking of you as a "cash machine" or it's impossible not to care about your feelings.
Marrying such a man may be very tired after marriage, and it is no more than raising a son.
If you don't pay attention, the other party may really bring back a "daughter-in-law" for yourself.
3, delicious lazy to do, giant baby this baby
There is a friend Xiao Wen, she married such a man, after marriage, Xiao Wen has become a "grandfather", every day in addition to going to work to earn money, go home to do housework, with children.
Xiao Wen's in-laws lived with them, and during the day, the old couple would help take care of the children, and at night it became Xiao Wen's business.
As for her husband, like a hand-throwing treasurer, when Xiao Wen cooks, he asks him to help watch the children for a while, but he will be rejected.
Xiao Wen often thinks that why he married such a man in the first place may be deceived by the rhetoric of the other party, and after marriage, he lived a nanny-like life without a salary.
In addition to watching live broadcasts and playing games, the husband basically has nothing to do, and the in-laws are very doting on their husbands, and they can't say anything. Xiao Wen often felt that there were two babies in the family.
Xiao Wen is ready to wait for the children to be older and consider the relationship with her husband.
Nowadays, many post-90s and post-00s are only children, and the growth environment is very good, especially boys, who are often used to being like a little young master at home, and they can't eat any bitterness.
Some people say that looking for a man cannot find someone with a brother. In fact, only children are not necessarily very good.
Like Xiao Wen, looking for a "giant baby" boyfriend, the other party will not understand how tired the wife is, the time is long, the psychological pressure can not be alleviated, it is easy to collapse.
If the boyfriend is such a person, no matter how much he likes it, it is not recommended to marry him, life is not only love, but also chai rice oil and salt.
Especially after having a child, women have to think about more things, and often have a feeling of involuntariness.
Since you can strangle the damage in the cradle in advance, why should you break through the south wall, not marrying can avoid a lot of trouble.
epilogue:
Getting married is a lifelong affair and finding a good man is crucial.
Now that there are obviously more men and women in flash marriage than in previous years, it can be seen that more and more women are beginning to love themselves.
If during the relationship with a lover, find that his personality is paranoid, or always ask for money with himself, and from time to time expose the mentality of "giant baby", do not think that the other party is cute, take off your filter, and suddenly it will be clear in front of you.
If you want to live happily after marriage, it is best to stay away from the above three kinds of men.
The world is so big, there are always people who are suitable for you to appear in your life, people can live without anyone, you don't have to be worthy of people, too deep affection, will hurt.
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