The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart
It seems that in everyone's thinking and understanding, as a parent, who does not love their children, in the same way, love Wu and Wu, for their own grandchildren or grandchildren, should also be very loving.
However, in some cases, there will be some exceptions, due to some reasons, resulting in the feelings between the grandparents and grandchildren do not seem to be as close as imagined, as the parents of the child, will fall into a dilemma, one is their own parents, the other is the child, where to go?
01 When you get married, you are not welcomed by your in-laws
Xiao Wu married when he was 25 years old, and his married girlfriend was his first love.
What can a man have at the age of 25? At a useless age, he met a girl who wanted to take care of her life, but fortunately, Xiao Wu finally did not miss this reason with the support of her family and the joint efforts of her wife.
Recalling that at the beginning, the biggest obstacle between Xiao Wu and his wife came from his wife's parents.
The reason is also very simple, the wife's parents hate the poor conditions in Xiao Wu's family, and hope that the daughter can find a family with good conditions, so that when the son gets married, the sister can help some.
Therefore, over the years, even if Xiao Wu has done well, he has never been appreciated by his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Thus the wife is also involved, and the wife gradually begins to be unpopular in front of her parents-in-law.
His wife has persuaded Xiao Wu more than once that she hopes that the relationship with her parents can go with the flow and not to do more seemingly "flattering" things.
However, Xiao Wu did not think so, although he understood that his wife was thinking of himself, but from his wife's eyes, he found that her original intention did not seem to be like this, and she was also eager to repair her feelings with her parents.
02 After developing, let the parents-in-law move into the home
Xiao Wu understood that if he wanted his in-laws to look up to him, there was no other way but to improve his own economic conditions.
Therefore, Xiao Wu could only redouble his efforts and go home late into the night every day.
Fortunately, all the efforts will usher in a day of return, and Xiao Wu finally bought a house in the city through his own efforts.
After the house was renovated, Xiao Wu invited his parents-in-law to visit his new home, and it was at that time that, because the brother-in-law got married, the house of the parents-in-law was given to the brother-in-law to get married.
In order to talk about filial piety, Xiao Wu offered to let his in-laws move into his home.
Since there were no extra beds in the house at that time, Xiao Wu planned to see the new bed this weekend, and these days, he planned to let his parents-in-law sleep on the sofa to survive this period of time.
In fact, the sofa in Xiao Wu's home is not small, and it is the kind that can be folded, and the space is enough for two people to rest, so Xiao Wu also made this decision after all kinds of thinking.
After all, the master bedroom, my wife and children have to rest, and I can't always give my bedroom to my parents-in-law to live.
In this way, the parents-in-law went home and simply packed their clothes and moved into the house of the cottage.
Since his parents-in-law moved into the house, Xiao Wu can be described as a foreign care for their second elder, and behind the great dedication, he wants to improve the relationship between his wife and them.
03 Came home at night and saw my son sleeping on the couch
Since Xiao Wu had been busy, he had not had time to see the new bed for a long time.
One day, his wife temporarily called Xiao Wu and said that he could not go home today, the company has a project, need to be carried out overnight, it just so happens that Xiao Wu is also in trouble that day, not sure whether to go home at night, so he called his father-in-law who lives at home: Mom and Dad, we will not go home tonight, your grandson entrusted you to take care of it.
In this way, after Xiao Wu hurriedly hung up the phone, he was busy with his own affairs.
However, just after midnight, Xiao Wu received a call from the group leader, saying that the plan was not urgent for the time being, and they went home to rest.
So, Xiao Wu dragged his tired body back home.
It was late when he got home, but as soon as he opened the door, he saw his son sleeping on the couch in the dim light.
Xiao Wu woke up his son and asked him: What about your grandfather and grandmother?
The son rubbed his sleepy eyes and said: They are resting in the bedroom.
At this moment, even if Xiao Wu was stupid, he also found the clue, it must be that the parents-in-law took advantage of their and his wife's failure to go home, let their son sleep on the sofa, but he lived in the bedroom.
Thinking of this, Xiao Wu was furious, and he directly pushed open the bedroom door and turned on the light in the room.
The parents-in-law were woken up by a strong light, and when they saw that Xiao Wu had returned, for a while, there was some language jamming.
Xiao Wu looked at their helpless look, and couldn't help but feel a burst of laughter, Xiao Wu laughed at himself, in the face of such a virtuous parent-in-law, he would even think of having a good relationship with them, perhaps from the beginning, he and his wife and son were just a dispensable substitute in their eyes.
Xiao Wu did not have a trace of emotion on his face: Please leave my room, and tomorrow, please move out, this is my home.
That night, his wife also heard about this incident, and she was also very angry with her parents, and since then, there has been no contact between Xiao Wu and her parents-in-law.
Conclusion: Even if the parents have prejudices against their children, they should not continue this prejudice to the next generation, as children, they may be able to tolerate the misdeeds of their parents, but once they are involved in their children, then the actions of their parents are likely to become a fuse, and eventually cause irreconcilable family conflicts.