As the saying goes: children are not by the mother. As children grow older, they gradually have their own ideas, and their parents will gradually have different views, how to deal with it correctly, it is very important.
Men and women should be married, especially young men and women at this age, the love sinus is just beginning, that is, it is possible to meet their favorite people, how to correctly guide this emotion, has become particularly important.
For example, Xiao She, a classmate in Jinhua, Zhejiang Province, who usually never gets up early, actually gets up abnormally to cook, and carefully packs a love bento, which makes his mother cry and laugh.
Event review: Lazy son got up in the morning to prepare a love bento, the mother was secretly happy, this little wife does not have to worry!
Recently, a netizen in Jinhua, Zhejiang Province, uploaded a video, she said that her son is usually a very lazy child, can not cook and wash clothes, the size of the family affairs are handled by themselves, and the son also likes to sleep lazily, usually less than 9 o'clock in the morning do not get up, no matter how you shout, people just can't get up.
Recently, however, my son's behavior has been a bit abnormal, not only actively getting up in the morning, but also coming back every night and starting to study the recipe, with a happy smile on his face, which is unpredictable.
This morning, before dawn, the kitchen lights came on, and my mother felt very strange, so she walked into the kitchen lightly, only to see her son wearing a long-sleeved shirt with pink flowers, a hat on his head, and was carefully preparing a bento, two eggs on the stove board, and other meat, and there were already two well-made fragrant pies, lying peacefully in the bento box.
The son did not find his mother standing behind him at first, he quickly packed up the bento box, put it in his backpack, and then prepared to leave with a smile, when he turned back, he found that his mother was standing behind him, the child immediately blushed with embarrassment, he smiled, and quickly ran outside the gate.
This scene, let the mother see and sad and happy, sad is that their son who has been raised for more than ten years, never made a meal for himself, do not know which lucky girl prepared for the delicious; happy is that the son is so diligent, high emotional intelligence, it seems that the daughter-in-law does not have to worry!
Netizen Comments:
Netizens saw the scene of their son and his mother interacting, and they were happy!
A netizen said that looking at this kid's faceless smile, you know that this must be a delicious meal for which girl.
Netizen Mu Mu said that he finally understood where the mother-in-law's natural malice towards her daughter-in-law came from!
As the saying goes, there are natural enemies between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which makes sense, and when the mother sees this scene, she will definitely worry that her son's love for herself will be robbed by the future daughter-in-law!
Netizen Su Su suggested that smart mothers start learning to swim now! Isn't there a classic joke that someone asked a man, if your mother and your wife fell into the river at the same time, who would you go to save first?
Therefore, a smart mother will not embarrass her son, but will first learn to swim, save herself, and give the opportunity to be saved to her daughter-in-law.
Mu Zi said:
Poor parents in the world, the love of parents for their children, especially the love of mothers for their sons, is invincible, unrequited, and demanding.
The son grows up, with a beloved crush, for the mother, her mood is very complicated, happy is that the son will have a wife to love in the future, can find a life partner to live a lifetime, worried that in the future, the son will not gradually separate from himself, the son's dependence on himself is less and less, and the feelings for the daughter-in-law are becoming more and more intimate.
In fact, such a worry is not necessary, there is no meaning, the child has raised an adult, the parents have completed our responsibilities, the rest of the life, it will depend on himself and his lover to operate with his heart, the mother can not accompany the children for a lifetime, they will have their own different lives.
Therefore, the mother with high emotional intelligence will be very relieved to see her son's performance, and when the son grows up, he has learned how to pursue and please the little girl, which is a happy thing, indicating that the child's emotional intelligence is also very high, and the daughter-in-law will not have to worry in the future.
The mother will always be good to the son, as long as he is happy, the mother will be very satisfied