A piece of clothing for 300 yuan, I almost divorced

01.

The term "far away and near smell" is very familiar to everyone and basically recognizes it.

Everyone has their own living habits, even if the biological mother and daughter live together, for a long time, there will be awkwardness and contradictions, but the mother and daughter do not have an overnight vendetta.

Therefore, under the same roof of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there will be contradictions and normal, and there are conditions to live separately, and they are not far apart, and it is easy to take care of, which is the best.

But we also know that it is not so easy to live separately, which needs to be supported by economic conditions, there is no condition to buy a separate marriage house, and it is definitely necessary to live together.

There is also the fact that even if some people have this condition and buy a separate marriage house, but because of the birth of the child, or the parents' pension and other subjective and objective reasons, in the end, they still have to live under one roof, so some contradictions cannot be avoided.

Wang Juan encountered such a problem.

02.

Wang Juan and Zhou Hua are college classmates, and their relationship has always been good when they are in love.

But because Wang Juan's family did not agree, it was not until graduation that Wang Juan's family began to entrust her to introduce her to the blind date, and she took Zhou Hua home.

At this time, her parents knew that Wang Juan said that the breakup was only perfunctory.

Her parents do not agree, in fact, the reason is quite simple, one is because the family conditions are not good, now it belongs to a person working hard in the big city, no money, no car, no house, nothing.

Her parents do not ask their daughter to marry into the rich, but they also do not want to suffer after marriage, which is very understandable.

There is also a divorced family that Zhou Hua is a divorced family, when he was very young, his parents divorced, his father took his brother, and it is said that he later had a good life.

But because the couple divorced each person and a child, they said that they would not take care of the other one.

Therefore, Zhou Hua's father really did not care about him at all, but his mother could not let go of his eldest son, and would always go to see, but the other party was not rare, cold words.

Wang Juan's parents are worried that the children from such a family will have defects in their personality and will have an awkward life in the future.

But feelings such things are always not so rational, and how can she listen to her parents' analysis and insist on marrying.

Later, it was really difficult, plus during this time, her parents also found that Zhou Hua was good in character, and she was also sensible and self-motivated, the most important thing was that she was good to her daughter, and finally agreed.

I have also been telling Wang Juan that you have been pampered since you were a child, and when you get married and start a family, you are an adult, you must live a good life and restrain your temper.

When getting married, the wedding was paid by Wang Juan's parents, and there was no bride price, and even the wedding room was bought by Wang Juan's parents in full.

At the beginning, I prepared a down payment, but I thought that since I had the ability, I still didn't want to cause pressure to repay the loan to my child, and I had a daughter myself, and I would still give it to her in the future.

In this regard, Zhou Hua has always been grateful in his heart, and after getting married, he has always been filial and respectful to Wang Juan's parents.

But Zhou Hua's mother, who is far away in the countryside of her hometown, does not know all this, after all, she does not have much culture and thinks that her son graduated from a prestigious university.

Working in a big city, whether it is a wedding or a house, it is natural to earn it by virtue of his son's ability.

Thinking about it is harmless, but also to give Zhou Hua face, so Wang Juan and her parents have never denied anything when Zhou Hua's mother said so.

At the beginning of the marriage, the life of the little two was still relatively warm and happy, but then the mother-in-law came, and it changed.

The mother-in-law came over, more than half a year after the marriage, when Wang Juan was just pregnant.

The mother-in-law learned of this news, and clamored to take care of the eldest grandson, saying that the old family was the mother-in-law taking care of the daughter-in-law's pregnancy and childbirth, and she could not be gossiped by her neighbors.

Zhou Hua refused at first, after all, he knew that his mother and his wife's living habits were definitely different.

But after Wang Juan's parents knew, they told their daughter that anyway, the pension will definitely come over in the future, and it is better to come early now, and they can also cultivate and cultivate feelings.

The old man's heart will not be bad, may be nagging, since you chose this husband, naturally you also have to accept his family.

Wang Juan felt that this was also the truth, so she took the initiative to propose to her husband that her mother-in-law come to take care of herself, in fact, it was to provide for the elderly.

03.

After the mother-in-law came, she took on almost all the housework in the family, cooking, washing and mopping the floor, and there was no need for Wang Juan to worry about it.

Wang Juan is grateful to her mother-in-law, and feels that her mother-in-law is working hard to manage the housework, and she will also give her mother-in-law more living expenses and buy snacks for her mother-in-law that she is reluctant to eat.

At first, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got along very well, but soon, the contradiction came out.

The mother-in-law has saved a lifetime, eating leftovers is a very normal thing, when to finish, this dish is finished.

But for Wang Juan, this is unacceptable, and after each meal, she worries that her mother-in-law will leave leftovers.

They are all strong first, and they are directly down, which makes the mother-in-law feel pained.

She nagged with her son, saying that she had eaten leftovers for so many years, that she was not as healthy as ever, and that it was too wasteful to dump them.

Zhou Hua naturally helped his wife to persuade his mother, but Wang Juan's mother-in-law was still unhappy, and she usually spoke a little insinuatingly.

In fact, in the end, it is that the daughter-in-law is wasted, not to mention that the daughter-in-law still likes to buy things, and there is a courier every day, but Zhou Hua's mother is distressed.

But Wang Juan is also aggrieved, leftovers are really not good, and it is not without this condition, why eat leftovers?

If you feel wasteful, do less.

Buying things this, because she has children, she feels that buying things is a little more normal. Besides, a family, now basically buy things online, naturally more.

But grievances returned to grievances, she thought about her parents' previous words, and also thought that her mother-in-law was really hard, so she kept putting up with it.

He didn't even complain to Zhou Hua, and his attitude towards his mother-in-law was the same as always.

But in the end, the mother-in-law did not hold back, after Wang Juan gave birth to her son, she chose the confinement club, spent a lot of money, went out of the confinement, and also asked her aunt to help bring it for several months.

In the eyes of her mother-in-law, these behaviors are that the daughter-in-law is too able to spend money, and she is not at all distressed that her son is making money.

After this, the mother-in-law was not satisfied with the insinuation of speaking, and directly began to accuse the daughter-in-law, and the words were very unpleasant.

04.

At first, Wang Juan still endured and did not want to make a fuss, but later why couldn't she bear it.

It is because the neighbor came to visit the door, the mother-in-law knew that Wang Juan was in the bedroom, and could hear the living room talking, but the mother-in-law still told the neighbors how hard their sons worked, made money to support the family, the daughter-in-law did not feel sorry for her husband at all, spent money every day without blinking, and a coat actually cost 300 yuan.

And so on, said a lot, After Wang Juan heard it, she endured and endured, and finally when she said that she was not educated, she finally couldn't bear it.

When she came out with red eyes, the neighbor said hello awkwardly and went back, and she later quarreled with her mother-in-law, and finally said: I spent my own salary, and I didn't let you suffer losses and grievances.

The mother-in-law did not think so, saying that if I had known that you could waste money so much, such a daughter-in-law in the city, I would not have agreed to enter the door.

Wang Juan smiled angrily, and did not want to argue anymore, and directly said: Since you are so unaccustomed to me, then you should go back to your hometown and don't live here.

The mother-in-law shouted: This is my son's house, my son's home, and if you want to go, you will go.

Wang Juan took out the real estate certificate directly from the bedroom and said, you can see clearly, whose name is on it, this house was bought for me by my parents, and your son did not spend a penny. I'm the homeowner, and I'll let whoever I want to go. Also, you ask your son, if he weren't in my relative's company now, would he have such a high salary?

A word blocked the mouth of the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law directly, dead braced to wait until the son returned, a question, found that the daughter-in-law did not deceive herself, is the daughter-in-law has not demolished her own stage.

Under the persuasion of Zhou Hua at both ends, Wang Juan still softened her heart and did not continue to ask her mother-in-law to leave.

As for the mother-in-law, although she did not apologize, she took the initiative to make a table of dishes that the daughter-in-law liked to eat, and for the first time took the initiative to dump the leftovers, which was a step for each other.

Later, in getting along, they did not continue to make any statements about the lifestyle and habits of their daughter-in-law.

The days seemed to go back to before, but Wang Juan knew that this was the appearance, and she was very uncomfortable in her heart. I always feel that my mother-in-law will have a grudge in her heart, and she may not know when to trip herself up.

But in fact, the mother-in-law's side is also uneasy, and the son said that he is worried that his daughter-in-law will have an opinion on her, and when he is old, he will not be worn in small shoes.

Originally a very good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the result is like this, in fact, this mother-in-law is not clear, this daughter-in-law is too confident in her ability to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

To put it bluntly, at the beginning, I didn't need my mother-in-law to come over, the distance produced beauty, and now I am not old, I can take care of myself completely, and I can go home to see more.

Wait until the mother-in-law is old, and then take care of it, there may not be such a problem.

After all, one is old and can't move, and one of his own children is older and can better understand some of his mother-in-law's thoughts.

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