After 95, Liu Hui had a dispute with his daughter-in-law Wang Juan during the New Year, and as a result, the two left home without leaving any words, and Liu Hui even severed contact with his mother Fu Yan for more than ten days. However, this matter is not as simple as it seems, Fu Yan believes that this is an agreement between his son Liu Hui and Wang Juan, why did the two treat Fu Yan like this? What's behind this?
Bizarre Disappearance:
Fu Yan, who lives in Shangrao, said that on the third day of the first year, her daughter-in-law did not eat, even slept in bed and cried, and smashed the fruit bowl, which made Fu Yan feel very surprised, because she did not do anything to her daughter-in-law Wang Juan. Just called Wang Juan to a meal.
Wang Juan has been coming to this home for two years, and nothing like this has ever happened. Now the daughter-in-law Wang Juan ran directly back to her mother's house, and what surprised Fu Yan even more was that her son Liu Hui was also missing that day. For more than ten days, his son Liu Hui did not explain anything to Fu Yan, and the act of too coincidental made Fu Yan think that the two were colluding.
Is it true that as Fu Yan said, the two colluded to deceive Fu Yan? If so, for what reason?
Each holding party:
When they came to Liu Hui and Wang Juan's home, they found that their home was empty, the living room had no sofa, only a plastic stool, and their lives were very poor. When Fu Yan saw her daughter-in-law Wang Juan, she was very angry: "Children don't need you to bring, food and shelter depend on our supply, what is it that you cry and make trouble during the New Year?" ”
Wang Juan said that at that time, she was pregnant (the second child), and her emotions were relatively large during pregnancy, so she had this big fuss, and she didn't know it at the time until she miscarried.
"I know the purpose of her coming now, and she wants me to leave with her husband Liu Hui." Wang Juan collected the flowers on the ground and did not look at her mother-in-law Fu Yan at all.
"I treat you like my own daughter, what I want to buy, eat and wear and never treat you badly." Fu Yan said angrily.
Wang Juan stopped what she was doing: "I don't need your money, I don't need anything from you, I just need to integrate into this family, not treat me as an outsider." As she spoke, Wang Juan hugged her head and cried.
Wang Juan said while crying: "Now my father has kicked me out, our relatives have also persuaded us to leave, and my current children are not taken with me, and I still have to repay what I borrowed from my friends. ”
Wang Juan said that her mother-in-law Fu Yan was very dissatisfied with this marriage, and she had to be pointed out when she got up late, and she had to be involved in conflicts with her husband Liu Hui.
But the mother-in-law Fu Yan said: "I don't have a daughter, when she first entered the door, she was wearing more than a dozen pieces of land stalls, I took her to buy hundreds of pieces of clothes, directly take it, really dig out the heart and lungs." I was really angry. ”
Successful people in business:
Fu Yan opened an anti-theft door business in Shangrao, renting five stores and two houses. In business, it can be regarded as a great success, saving millions of family properties for this family. But in the marriage of his son Liu Hui, Liu Hui rarely communicated with Fu Yan and rarely opened his heart.
Seeing the environment in which Liu Hui now lives, Fu Yan said that this was caused by Liu Hui himself. She thinks that the place where her son Liu Hui lives is not treated by people, it is so dirty that she does not want to stay for a moment.
Fu Yan even said that she hoped that her son Liu Hui would leave Wang Juan, and she thought that Liu Hui had her own grievances.
So, how does Liu Hui think about it?
A Constrained Life:
Liu Hui was very unfamiliar with Fu Yan's arrival, he said: "There is no contact, because I am an adult, there is nothing necessary." Moreover, my mother often interfered in my life, always urging me to leave my wife quickly, but the relationship between the two of me did not reach this point. ”
"Even if my parents own a million possessions, it has nothing to do with me." Liu Hui said.
Unexpectedly, Fu Yan said: "You have to make a choice, if you choose the current day, you will write an agreement to show that you have broken off your relationship with me." "Son, I'm doing this for your own good, you're not at my age and don't know the pain." Fu Yan said that his son Liu Hui's life is very poor now, the two people are still young, think that there is nothing now, can still survive, but wait until the age of their parents to know the material importance.
But Liu Hui said: "Hmm, she didn't treat me as a son, from childhood to adulthood, she always helped me arrange it, but I don't know what I need, even if the life is hard, it is also my choice." ”
In Liu Hui's childhood, his parents were very strict, controlled the social circle, and did not let Liu Hui go out to play, so that Liu Hui hated Fu Yan from childhood to adulthood, but Fu Yan did not understand that he was obviously for his own good.
Tortuous experiences:
Why did Fu Yan behave in this way? Fu Yan said that when her grandmother was alive, Fu Yan's father died, because at that time, the family had a bit of a patriarchal concept, and he had not received a good education since he was a child, which made Fu Yan think that the many controls on his son Liu Hui from childhood were hoping that he would have a good education and a good life start.
And Fu Yan and her husband have worked hard for 20 years, worked in cement factories, set up stalls, know that life is not easy, she does not want her son to follow his own old path.
After persuasion, Fu Yan said that she would no longer care about her son Liu Hui,and she also discovered her own fault.
Subsequently, Liu Hui and Wang Juan also returned to this home, and Wang Juan admitted her mistake to her face, saying that she should not have made a big fuss at home at that time. In this way, the family came to a beautiful end.
The puppet thinks: This case is really too appropriate. My father is also in a similar situation, from childhood to adulthood has always believed that the only way out of life is to study, every semester to go to make-up classes, I have to ask what friends I have made, every time I go to play, I have to ask, sometimes I also say, don't go, study at home!
Now think about it, when I was a child, I really felt funny, every time I secretly watched TV at home, I always had to use it for two purposes, and I had to stare at the door outside the window, whether my father came back, and when I came back, I immediately turned off the TV and pretended to study.
Seriously, when I grow up, I must also understand the idea of parents, parents are initially good for their children, but children are not marionettes, they need freedom more. Parents should give opinions, not orders. In this way, the relationship between parents and children is more harmonious.
Whether it is a parent or a child, you can try to think from the other person's point of view.
