Seeing the old couple in the picture above, many people who do not know, must think that this is an old couple who have loved each other for many years, in fact, it is not, as early as 1995, they divorced, because the husband cheated, fell in love with his wife's good friend, tossed for two or three years, and then divorced.
In 1995, they were all very young, so they became their own families, so why did they come together again? Today, I want to tell the story of Liu Chaoying, the "bench mother-in-law".
Liu Chaoying, a native of Beibei District, Chongqing, was born in 1959 in a local working family, unfortunately, a little more than a year old, she suffered from polio, since then, the bench has become her leg, when walking, the right hand is propped on the right foot, the body is propped up, and the left hand quickly moves the bench under her body forward.
Only by repeating such steps, Liu Chaoying can walk forward, from her living room to the balcony is only 5 meters, ordinary people can walk in three or two steps, but Liu Chaoying, but to repeat such actions dozens of times.
When she was young, Liu Chaoying was very studious, because of illness, her parents also loved her very much, although her father's monthly salary was only 42 yuan, to support her and 4 brothers and sisters, it was already stretched, but when Liu Chaoying was nine years old, he still sent her to school.
Although her legs are disabled, Liu Chaoying is very intelligent in her mind, her academic performance is very good, and she often gets praise from teachers, but unfortunately, after primary school, junior high school is too far from her home, her parents still have to work, there is no way to take her to school every day, Liu Chaoying can only drop out of school.
After dropping out of school, Liu Chaoying first helped her mother clean the gloves of the utensil factory at home to earn a little money to subsidize the family, and later, she set up a small tobacco stall near the utensil factory, and when she was not busy, she knitted sweaters to kill time.
Because of the good craftsmanship, many people have asked for her to knit sweaters, at the beginning, the enthusiastic Liu Chaoying helped people knit for free, after word of mouth spread, someone paid for her to knit sweaters, and she had another income.
With a small tobacco stand and knitting sweaters, Liu Chaoying, who is physically disabled, not only supports herself, but also has spare money to subsidize her family, which makes her very proud and gradually becomes cheerful.
When he was young, Liu Chaoying had a beautiful face and a good look, coupled with a bright smile, many people were willing to be close to her, but unfortunately, the disability of his legs made a group of young people discouraged him.
Until the age of 27, he was introduced to his first husband, the man in the picture at the beginning of the article, Lao Hu, who was 12 years older than her, but the "old husband and young wife" did not get along harmoniously after marriage.
Old Hu is sincere and industrious, but his temper is not good, even if he grasps the financial power with one hand after marriage, there is also a not very good problem, that is, smoking, which makes Liu Chaoying very distressed, and the husband and wife have a big fight every three to five.
The misfortune of the family made the husband and wife look like they were separated, and after seven or eight years of marriage, Lao Hu cheated on him, and the object of the cheating was still Liu Chaoying's friend.
This matter made Liu Chaoying extremely sad, but he was a disabled person, he could not compare with his friend, and he could not save his husband's heart, in 1995, Liu Chaoying ended this 10-year marriage.
After the divorce, Liu Chaoying wanted to pass the custody of her daughter, and the mother and daughter depended on each other.
Later, Liu Chaoying met Lao He, who was also divorced, and after getting married, Lao He brought a 5-year-old son, which made Liu Chaoying happy, because in this way, she was "full of children and daughters".
However, after the marriage, Liu Chaoying found that this old He was also not a good match, he smoked, gambled, and was too lazy to die, and even his son was left to Liu Chaoying to take care of.
Even so, Liu Chaoying lived with Lao He for ten years, until his adopted son grew up and divorced.
At the time of the divorce, Liu Chaoying's daughter had already grown up and married, and well-wishers were afraid that Liu Chaoying was lonely and lonely in his old age, so he introduced her third wife, and in 2007, she began her third marriage.
Liu Chaoying's third wife is a good person, Liu Chaoying lives a very happy life, she thought that she would end up happily in this family, however, in 2011, she suddenly heard about the old Hu cerebral hemorrhage, paralysis in bed, no one to take care of things.
It turned out that after Lao Hu and Liu Chaoying divorced, the second wife he married could not stand Lao Hu's temper, and the two divorced for a few years, they parted ways, and Lao Hu became a lonely man, and as he grew older, there were no other relatives except his daughter and her.
With a sigh, Liu Chaoying, who was soft-hearted, took the initiative to take care of Lao Hu, after all, if he did not take care of himself, this responsibility would fall on his daughter's head, and at this time, Liu Chaoying had been divorced from Lao Hu for 16 years.
Your own old partner, to take care of your ex-husband? Liu Chaoying's third husband and his family were naturally unhappy, so the two sides broke up.
After the divorce, in addition to taking care of the old Hu who was paralyzed in bed, Liu Chaoying also took over the responsibility of taking care of his father who was suffering from cerebral hemorrhage and paralyzed in bed.
Of course, she did not do this "complete obligation", the old father's retirement salary, a part of it to her, this, her brothers and sisters know, everyone has no opinion.
Taking care of two people who are sick in bed at the same time makes Liu Chaoying, who is not good at "walking", work hard.
Every morning, she got up at half past six, boiled water for her father and ex-husband to wash their faces, waited for breakfast to be ready, and fed them again, and after eating, she had to wash and wash the two people, cook their "Lasa", massage their bodies, and when they were busy, it was noon again, and it was time to cook again...
Throughout the day, Liu Chaoying was basically busy in the kitchen, bedroom, and bathroom.
Fortunately, Liu Chaoying and Lao Hu both have low insurance, although they are poor, but their lives are still going on.
When asked if she still had any hatred for what she had done to Lao Hu, Liu Chaoying sighed and said, "He can't say, can't move, what is there to hate?" ”。
Soon, Liu Chaoying did not care about the previous suspicions, once took care of the abandonment of her ex-husband, it came, many people were moved, and it is also for this reason, in 2017, she was selected into the "China Good People List".
I have to say that Liu Chaoying's generosity is really admirable, and the reason why she is willing to do this is only one reason, she believes that "those who have a good heart will be blessed."
In Liu Chaoying's case, the example of doing good deeds regardless of return is not one or two.
For example, after she divorced her second husband Lao He, she still took care of his son He Ying like a mother, and he Ying was extremely grateful for Liu Chaoying's love, even after the divorce, she always called her mother, and when she grew up, she wanted to kiss her son as filial piety.
Because of the inconvenience of legs and feet, Liu Chaoying has always wanted to buy an electric wheelchair, He Ying knew, immediately wanted to give her one, but Liu Chaoying refused, because she knew that the child was not easy, and could not bear to spend his money.
To be able to call an unrelated person Mom, she thinks, is a blessing.
For example, in 1998, Liu Chaoying took in a penniless student, not only let him live at home for three or four days, but also gave him 20 yuan when he left.
Soon, Liu Chaoying forgot about this matter, who knew that a few years later, she suddenly received a package from the army, opened it, and saw that it was a moon cake.
It turned out that the student she had taken in that year had gone to become a soldier, and the Mid-Autumn Festival troops had issued mooncakes, remembering her life-saving benefactor, and sent it to her.
After the student changed careers and retired from the army, he would come to visit Liu Chaoying almost every year, and every time he came, it was a big bag.
Liu Chaoying believes that this is also a kind of blessing.
Another time, Liu Chaoying accidentally sat on the treasurer of the cigarette, the glass shattered into slag, but she was unharmed, she believes that this is also a blessing.
Unfortunately, the "blessing" in Liu Chaoying's mouth was not repaid to her only daughter, and she, like Liu Chaoying, was divorced for various reasons, which was really sad and lamentable...