Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with, when a girl is alone, come to a family that she is not familiar with at all, all she sees is the man who is good to herself, and there is only one person who can rely on her, that is, her husband, every woman hopes that she can be treated well by her in-laws, on the contrary, after being treated well, she will also treat everyone in the family with her heart.
Now, people choose marriage no longer only consider whether the man is good enough for themselves, but gradually focus on the man's family, especially the future mother-in-law, many people have said that once they feel that the future mother-in-law's personality is very strong, they will be wronged when they marry, then even if the man is good, do not want it.
Recently, a woman in Anqing, Anhui Province, posted a video on her social platform, and the words are all praising her mother-in-law, but from the perspective of what her mother-in-law has done, it is not difficult for us to guess that the woman has said a negative word to express her dissatisfaction.
It is reported that the woman's husband divorced his ex-wife, and then he was with himself, and his mother-in-law is also a very honest person on weekdays, but he did not know what was going on this day, and even pasted the photo of her husband's ex-wife on her wardrobe, and the woman was very angry and helpless to see it.
In desperation, the woman recorded the matter into a video, and the caption said: Is my belly very large? My mother-in-law also pasted a picture of her husband's ex on the closet in my room, which was really a good mother-in-law, and finally came with a thumbs up expression.
The reason why the divorce rate is getting higher and higher now, in addition to the reasons of the two people themselves, there is also a large part because the mother-in-law is mixed in the middle, in the eyes of the daughter-in-law, since the husband has married himself, then the two belong to a new family, no matter what should be the focus on their own family, sometimes a small thing between two people, in the eyes of the mother-in-law is like a big thing.
However, in the eyes of the mother-in-law, the son who was hard to raise himself became someone else overnight, only paying attention to his daughter-in-law, but not caring about himself, and not as obedient as before, so even the vision of his daughter-in-law is biased, do you say that such a family relationship is good?
In the video, we can see that on the woman's wardrobe, there are photos of the husband's ex-wife everywhere, dozens of large and small photos, and not only the photos of the ex-wife, but also the photos of the husband and the woman, and we don't know where the mother-in-law found the photos of the ex-wife, in order to make herself uncomfortable, she actually did such a thing.
As for what the mother-in-law thinks in her heart, whether she sincerely likes her ex-wife and hopes that her ex-wife can change her mind, or whether she just uses this to make the woman uncomfortable and thus achieve some purpose of her own, then we don't know.
Lao Yu wanted to say
Although I don't know the specific purpose of the mother-in-law, from the point of view of the matter, there is no doubt that the mother-in-law is dissatisfied with the woman, and if the mother-in-law really treats the woman as a daughter, then she will not do such a thing.
Some people are very selfish, never think about other people, when their daughters get married, they hope that the in-laws will value their daughters, and they are eager to let the in-laws raise their daughters as princesses, but in turn, when they come to themselves, they do not take themselves and their daughters-in-law seriously, only think that others are good to themselves, but do not want to think about why others should be good to you.
And there are many real good mothers-in-law, they treat their daughters-in-law as daughters in their hearts, they are very loving on weekdays, and they never complain about the daughter-in-law's badness, and they praise their daughters-in-law when they go out. However, when the son and daughter-in-law do not do well, they will seriously bring it up and teach it seriously, and the final intention is only to hope that the husband and wife can go on satisfactorily.