introduction
Everyone is very yearning for a sweet love, going to marriage, marriage is an affirmation of a love, but also a beginning for two young people to start a happy life, especially those love stories from school uniforms to wedding dresses, so that many people are very envious, but there are also many people who say that marriage is the graveyard of love.
Now, however, for modern people, it is not only marriage, but even when they have not entered marriage, they have entered the grave. All over the country there is a custom that the man should give the woman a bride price before marriage, especially in Jiangxi, they have more rules for the bride price, because the bride price can ruthlessly break up many people who are in love, and everyone is troubled and distressed by the bride price.
And because of the dowry fall out of many reasons, not only because of the sky-high dowry in individual regions, some areas actually ask for the dowry is not high, but it still can't prevent the occurrence of contradictions. In fact, in the final analysis, the bride price is not a qualitative requirement, but both parents are considering being able to help the two young people after marriage.
If there is a contradiction, the important solution is actually in the boy, if the boy can handle it properly at this time, in fact, can save back a lot of love. And not long ago, something happened in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, which made many people very angry, two young people are ready to get married, in order to sympathize with boys, the woman will reduce the bride price to 20,000, and the boyfriend wants to save money to buy 18,000 mobile phones, what do you think?
Originally, the woman knew that her boyfriend's income was not much, so she wanted to reduce his burden by reducing the bride price, and the girl's parents were more reasonable, they thought that nothing was more important than the happiness of the daughter, and the amount of the bride price was nothing at all, so she also agreed to the daughter's request and reduced the bride price from the original 66,000 to 20,000.
Although the boy was also very excited when he heard about this matter, he was very grateful for his girlfriend's approach, but the boy turned around and made the girl completely disappointed. The boy's mobile phone is slow to use, although it can still be used normally, but it cannot resist the temptation of the new mobile phone.
However, his salary income is not high, and he is about to prepare for marriage, and preparing for the wedding is also a big expense, plus the bride price, so the boy has not changed it for a long time, but now that he hears the girl say that the money for the bride price has been reduced, the boy's idea of changing a new mobile phone is even stronger.
He felt that he had some money on hand now, so he took his girlfriend to the mobile phone store and said that he had a mobile phone worth eighteen thousand, and he was even happier to show off the high-end function of the mobile phone in front of his girlfriend, but the girlfriend felt that there was no need to change the mobile phone to change such an expensive one.
After all, two people are about to get married, the cost of marriage is not small, and the life after marriage needs to be constantly injected with money, with the current income level of two people, can not afford such an expensive mobile phone, you can first choose a cheaper mobile phone to wait until the married life is rich, in the consideration of changing a better mobile phone is not too late.
No matter how the woman persuades, the boy is very resolute, must be replaced, and the reason given is that the people around him are using this mobile phone, if they do not use it, they feel very faceless, will be looked down upon by others, and do not use the same mobile phone, feel that there is no topic and friends and relatives to communicate, if you do not buy this mobile phone today, he feels that he is very embarrassed. Hearing this, the woman left angrily.
In fact, many people in real life use mobile phones that are three or five thousand, and even some people use mobile phones that are only worth one or two thousand, are such people without friends? Don't they have a common topic with friends and family? Moreover, what kind of mobile phone to use, what price of the mobile phone, completely rely on personal ability and personal income level, if you choose to buy a mobile phone that you can't afford to pay for the sake of face, then such a life is meaningless.
What's more, the money that the man wants to buy a mobile phone is a girlfriend, in order to hurt him and negotiate with his parents to negotiate and intercede in exchange for a reduced bride price, such a girlfriend, how many people want to find, but have been struggling to pursue, this boy not only did not cherish his girlfriend so sensible, but also insisted on buying an expensive mobile phone, and had conflicts with his girlfriend.
Such a man is really disgraceful, for this girl, you should also calm down, think about the necessity of marrying a boy, after all, if your efforts can be rewarded, it is the beginning of a happy life for two people, if you blindly pay, and the boy does not appreciate it, such a marriage is also doomed to be unhappy.
However, girls should also be glad that this happened before marriage, through a mobile phone can recognize the true face of the boy, if even the wife and mobile phone can not distinguish between the weight of which is more important, then the boy should indeed carefully consider whether it is a qualified marriage partner.
epilogue
But in any case, the final choice and decision-making power are in the hands of the girl, or maybe one thing can not decide anything, nor can it negate the boy's past behavior, as long as the girl feels that she can be happy, then everything is worth it.
Today's topic: The bride price of the woman's distressed boyfriend dropped to 20,000, but the boyfriend still wants to buy 18,000 mobile phones? Is he worthy of trust