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At present, women are becoming more and more independent, and they are no longer dependent on men for survival.
There are a lot of women who have the ability and the willingness to buy their own house before marriage. Different people have different views on this, should a woman buy a house in marriage?
Li Ying, 29 years old this year, single.
After years of struggle, she used her own provident fund loan to purchase a house of more than 100 square meters with a down payment.
As an elderly single young woman, many people advised Li Ying to solve her life event marriage first, and then consider buying a house.
However, Li Ying feels that the house is more reliable than men, whether she can get married in this life is unknown, and when she buys a house after marriage, she does not know how long to wait, so she gritted her teeth and bought her own house.
"The moment you see your name on the property deed, it's not too cool," Li Ying said happily.
Since Li Ying paid a down payment to buy a house, she found it more and more difficult to find a blind date, but at the same time helped her filter out many bad and inappropriate men.
Regarding the situation that Li Ying has a house and a loan, when she goes on a blind date, many men show a little disgust, as if there is a house with a loan that has become a deduction for Li Ying.
Those men who do not have a house hope that Li Ying will provide a house belonging to both husband and wife with him after marriage; those men who have a house and a loan feel that they also have to pay the mortgage, and life after marriage will be more tense and inappropriate.
What makes Li Ying even more crying and laughing is that a blind date man actually said to Li Ying: "What house do you buy as a girl's family, and it is not good to accompany more money as a dowry?" Since you want to buy a house, if you have the ability, you can buy it in full, and you are too much to buy a house with a down payment! ”
This blind date man, who also has a house and a loan, later he conceded and said: "I hope that after marriage, your income will be used for living expenses, and my income will pay off the mortgage." ”
After Li Ying heard it, she replied directly: "Thank you, we are not suitable." ”
Li Ying understands in her heart that the woman lives on a salary, the man pays back the loan, and the divorced house has a relationship with the woman? The man clearly wanted to be counting on her, which was too much.
Seriously, no one is stupid enough to buy a house before marriage, it is to take advantage. However, Li Ying doesn't care, anyway, she has a house, and the house is her biggest confidence.
Regarding love and marriage, Li Ying said that she still believes in love and will not give up looking for the right person, but she will not be anxious because of her age. On the way to slowly getting better, just wait slowly.
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This whole passage of Vobova goes something like this:
The great fortune of a man is that he must embark on an extremely arduous path, whether as an adult or a child, but it is the most reliable path;
The misfortune of a woman lies in being surrounded by almost irresistible temptations, and she is not asked to work hard, but is only encouraged to slide down to reach bliss. It's usually too late when she realizes she's been fooled by a mirage, and her strength has been exhausted in a failed adventure.
In the act of buying a house before marriage, men are always taught to buy a house no matter how hard it is. Women are educated, and what house a woman buys, give it to a good husband.
Boys are fortunate that they suffer what is considered deserved and have higher rewards; the misfortune of girls is that they suffer from things that are considered undesirable by the outside world and have low returns.
This will make the woman choose a path that seems easy to walk but is actually the least secure, and her strength is slowly exhausted.
Regarding buying a house before marriage, both men and women can sell if they have the right one. If you have money, you buy a house, and if you don't have money, you borrow money or earn enough down payment to buy it.
Buying a house is an investment behavior, and there is more room for upgrading than girls buying luxury goods, bags and other products.
Buying a house before marriage makes women more selective, independent and more secure.