The music of love you approve, the shackles of love I break free. May you not be confused in your heart, not confused by emotions, and prefer to be lacking rather than indiscriminate. If you are confused from the extreme, you will wake up everywhere, and if you let go of the difficulty, then the world will be wide. Hello everyone, welcome to the Min Min Emotional Classroom.
From Ms. Chen's statement:
My father-in-law is in his 50s, married a 40-year-old woman last year, and this year he actually gave birth to a son. The neighbors were pointing behind their backs, but our whole family was very happy, and my husband and I didn't feel embarrassed.
My sons are almost in elementary school, and inexplicably there is an extra uncle, and I have an extra "little uncle" for no reason, although the neighbors are talking about it in the back, and our whole family does not care.
Five years ago, my mother-in-law found out that she had cancer, and when she was found out, it was already advanced, and people left for more than half a month, this matter was very sudden, and our whole family did not relax for a long time. Especially the father-in-law, all day long depressed, no spirit, all day at home do not go out, do not visit the door or walk, eat is also casual to deal with a bite, do not talk to people much.
My husband and I advised him every time to relax his mind and go out more to relax. The father-in-law is very young, only in his early 50s, the older generation marries early, and it is early to have children, and the father-in-law has a son of my husband, and there are no other children. Two months after the mother-in-law, the father-in-law went out to work as usual, and the father-in-law said that he was still young and could not wait at home all day for the pension, so he went out with his co-workers to work and earn money. My husband and I said every time we called him that it was okay and that we were used to it, but we could hear that his mother-in-law's death had not eased up in his heart.
Last winter, my father-in-law had no work, idle at home all day, sullen all day, my husband and I discussed that we should pay for my father-in-law to travel, when I was distracted. We reported a few elderly tour groups to the father-in-law, and a few of his companions were in our community, and we were also very relieved.
When he came back from a trip, his father-in-law's mood was much better, last year he went out three times in total, we wanted to give him money, but he didn't want it, saying that he had money. Later, the father-in-law met a 40-year-old woman during a trip, and her husband and son died in a car accident, leaving her alone, a poor woman. Since my father-in-law knew this woman, he was in a particularly good mood every day.
Suddenly one day my father-in-law came to us to discuss, wanted to marry the woman, thinking that I had a companion in the second half of my life, my husband and I understood my father-in-law, felt that it was okay, and agreed. Some time ago, my husband received a call from my father-in-law, saying that I was going to the hospital, and it turned out that this woman had been pregnant for a long time and had given birth.
No wonder before my husband and I want to go home to see them, they all kinds of resignation, do not let us go back, the original two people married only a year and have children, my husband and I were suddenly confused, my children are about to go to primary school, suddenly there is an uncle, I have no reason to come out of an extra "little uncle", but what follows is excitement.
Neighbors are pointing behind their backs, thinking that the elderly should not have children when they are older, my husband and I also felt very embarrassed at first, but then I thought that I was happy for my father-in-law, after all, they are not so old, my father-in-law can go out to work and earn money, we can help again, life can always get by, and my husband also has a companion.
My husband and I consulted with my father-in-law, the father-in-law is now older, there is no energy to take care of the children, we both go home for a period of time to help take care of it, or give them a sister-in-law, when the children are older, we will bear the cost of schooling, the father-in-law said that he did not agree with anything, saying that it could not increase the burden on us.
Gently I went, just as I came softly, I waved my sleeve and said goodbye next time. Time is like a reverse journey, gone forever, sighing the past leisurely, it is better to stride forward, but the love thread, cut off the feelings, Min Min will move forward with you, hand in hand, goodbye to the past, to the future.