In the human world, there are all kinds of couples.
For example, Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei, from school uniforms to wedding dresses, have respected and grown up with each other all their lives, and have not blushed;
For example, Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng, after going crazy for love, only the exhaustion of chicken and garlic skin was left, and finally Lao Yan flew apart;
For example, Zhou Zhigang and Li Suhua have been separated for a long time, one heart is only for home, and only one "old partner" is read in a lifetime;
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But in this many marriages that are either matched, or romantic, or insistent, or tired, what I am most touched by is the pair of Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan.
From the process of acquaintance and love to support each other to old age, most of the marital problems that have trapped us have been encountered. Seeing their lives clearly may be a step closer to happiness for you and me.
Meet and love each other, identify the right people
The first time he saw Zheng Juan, Zhou Bingkun was thrilled, and he was taken by the beautiful beauty of ChuChu.
Zhou Bingkun is not a person who has never seen the world, his sister is the most beautiful beauty of the light character piece, but Zheng Juan's beauty, unlike Zhou Rong, is the femininity that makes people feel protective.
Zhou Bingkun, who wants to become a man, his ideal is his father, and Zheng Juan let this stupid boy have the impulse to turn his ideal into reality for the first time.
He thought about Zheng Juan in his dreams, and what he saw in the ski resort was Zheng Juan, and the only woman he thought about all the time was Zheng Juan. But Zhou Bingkun is not a reckless man, not Luo Shibin, who is controlled by desire. His love at first sight, in restraint, precipitated for love, the most simple love for Zheng Juan.
Some people say that Zhou Bingkun is just a sight to behold. Everyone has the heart to love beauty, but different beauty also hides different souls. Just as I love the cicada, you love Thesaurus.
Zheng Juan's beauty, no arrogance, no contrivance, no nobility of knowledge and whitewashing, but in the weakness comes with a tenacious, gentle strength. In Yin Tao's words, Zheng Juan is the really powerful woman.
Zhou Bingkun saw Zheng Juan's soul. After Zhou Bingyi first met Zheng Juan, Zhou Bingkun's evaluation of Zheng Juan explained this point. And looking at Zhou Rong again, what she fell in love with was only Feng Huacheng's talent, that great love, and when the talent faded, it was nothing.
What about Zheng Juan?
She hadn't read many books, but she was extremely intelligent, and she could know the other person's mind with one look and one word. Such an aware Zheng Juan could not have been unaware that Zhou Bingkun had already fallen in love with her.
She can fully use the blood of the young lad to get rid of this chaotic life. But she didn't. Her most "clever" one was nothing more than pretending not to know the flow of water, Luo Shibin was arrested, and continued to collect 35 yuan per month from Zhou Bingkun's own pocket. She couldn't help it, it was the only money that the family of three had to live after her mother's death.
Zheng Juan said to Zhou Bingkun, "You are a good person and my nobleman. This "good" is what Zheng Juan judged step by step: he put 5 yuan of errands into the living expenses of 30 yuan; he would arrive on time on a fixed Saturday of every month; he sympathized with her elderly mother and blind brother.
This goodness also made Zheng Juan move from grace to love. What she loves is not Zhou Bingkun's skin bag, not Zhou Bingkun's family, not Zhou Bingkun's future appreciation space, but only Zhou Bingkun.
The love of Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan is the love of the true soul. This love, simple but high-class, simple but romantic. With such love, it is more likely to withstand the baking of time, break through the cage of the world, and withstand the erosion of the wind and snow.
Get to know each other and get the approval of your parents
Zheng Juan was sure that Zhou Bingkun was a person who could be entrusted for life, but she did not dare. She knew what situation she was in, and she could only repay Zhou Bingkun with kindness and then wish him happiness. Therefore, when Zhou Bingyi came to the door, she said: "Persuade Bingkun, I am not worth it." ”
Zhou Bingkun was sure that Zheng Juan was a good woman who could be married. Therefore, he tested his father, what if he married a widow with a child, Zhou Father kicked him to the edge of the kang, and the back of his head swelled. Even so, Zhou Bingkun, who regarded his father as the heaven, still did not give up Zheng Juan.
They love each other, miss each other, "people think of people, want to die", but they will not elope, and Zhou Bingkun will not be like Zhou Rong, saying harsh words that the family does not agree to break off the relationship.
In the concept of Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan, love is not the first, the family is. Marriages that parents oppose, unblessed marriages, they dare not think about.
Zhou Mu suddenly had a cerebral hemorrhage and turned into a vegetative person, and when she was embarrassed, Zheng Juan stood up and took care of Zhou Mu and Zhou Rong's daughter Yue Yue. This pushed their reluctance to think behind them, and the responsibility was placed in front of them.
To make matters worse, soon after, Zhou Bingkun took full responsibility for a poem and squatted for more than half a year. Zheng Juan became the nameless hostess of the Zhou family, not listening to the gossip in one place, the dirty work of a stall was tightly dried, and a pair of delicate jade hands became full of holes.
After holding umbrellas for each other, this love becomes thicker and thicker. Zhou Bingkun was even more convinced that he would not marry zheng juan in this life. A good daughter-in-law who has been tested in practice, which parent will oppose it? Zheng Juan's goodness is never verbal, she is always on the front line of action, her kindness and diligence are seen, and it is only a matter of time before she is accepted.
Stay together and put the relationship between husband and wife first
Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan, who cherish the family so much, naturally put the relationship between husband and wife in the first place after entering the marriage.
For the sake of Zheng Juan, Zhou Bingkun regarded Zhou Nan as his own, and never thought that this was not his own son. In his opinion, Zheng Juan's son is his son. For example, in Zheng Juan's eyes, Zhou Bingkun's parents are her parents. Therefore, the care of their parents and the upbringing of their children have never been disputed.
After marriage, Zhou Bingkun rarely expressed love directly. But he will be afraid of his daughter-in-law's hard work, spend eighty yuan to buy an electric fan; he will teach Zheng Juan to ride a bicycle by hand to facilitate her travel; after the bicycle is stolen, he does not have an eye contact with the daughter-in-law who forgot to lock it. He even got angry with his son, saying, "I don't allow anyone to hurt my daughter-in-law."
In Zhou Bingkun's eyes, Zheng Juan was a treasure given to him by heaven. And Zhou Bingkun in Zheng Juan's eyes is not her greatest luck.
Zheng Juan helped sell tobacco and alcohol, earning 39.2 yuan. She spent 31.9 yuan to buy a hat for Zhou Bingkun, a bib for her mother-in-law, and then bought one thing for each of her two children. In the end, there were eight cents left. From the perspective of the proportion of spending money, Zhou Bingkun's position in Zheng Juan's mind is obvious.
When she learned that Yue Yue liked Zhou Nan, what Zheng Juan thought of was not that she was afraid that her past would be revealed, but that she was afraid that Zhou Bingkun would be seen as a joke.
In the hearts of Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan, the relationship between husband and wife is greater than that of parent-child relationship. Always putting each other in the first place is also the reason why they can understand each other, tolerate each other, and go on.
Like most people's married life, the marriage of Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan is also chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, and the romance of those wind and snow has little to do with them.
But when the work encounters difficulties, the house is deceived, the love enemy appears, the son is going to be robbed, and other big things happen, their lives have not become like Qiao Chunyan's.
One outside the Lord, one inside the Lord, they trust each other and become the one who dares to give their backs to each other.
Although Zheng Juan has no culture, she is not a person with no opinions and no ideas, on the contrary, she has a mirror in her heart and also has an idea. She can't become an intellectual woman like Hao Dongmei and Zhou Rong, but according to Zheng Juan's nature, it is not impossible for her to become Luo Yuzhu when she walks out of this family.
For example, when she went to sell tobacco and alcohol, she sold more than forty yuan and gave ten yuan to the eldest bride who helped her with her peers. After this sale, the net profit was 39.2 yuan. With the money, she finished buying something for her family, smiled and said, "It feels good to spend the money she earns myself." ”
Zheng Juan has a yearning for professional women, but reality makes her make a choice. Becoming a housewife, she did not regret it, nor did she complain. She knows that life cannot be perfect, everything cannot go smoothly, and she and Zhou Bingkun are already happy.
In the play, the marriage of Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan may never be envied by others, but they are a husband and wife who really live their lives. Although this world is a little cool and a little pickled, they make people feel warmth, strength and happiness. This is the biggest romance!