Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Why some couples get along for a long time and are particularly harmonious, why some newlyweds quarrel for two or three days, in fact, there is a secret to getting along between husband and wife. In marriage, a woman cannot leave many things, the most important of which is trust and support.
If a man does not give enough security and trust to a woman in marriage, then sooner or later the woman will feel the loneliness and lack of security, which will eventually lead to the failure of the marriage.
And where does this trust and security come from? In fact, it is a kind of dependence on men and a kind of positioning and pursuit of their own marriage.
particularity
In marriage, women cannot leave "sex" to talk about happiness, why do they say so? Because women value their own particularity in marriage.
This particularity will make people happy, and when you experience this happiness, you will feel that no matter how many difficulties you encounter in marriage, it is worth it. You will also be more willing to give, thus entering a cycle of happiness.
If you don't have a particular difference between how men treat you and how they treat others in your marriage, you will feel lost, you will feel that you are no different from others, and over time you will bring this emotion into your marriage as some behavior. And these behaviors can also lead to contradictions.
Therefore, women in marriage are inseparable from the particularity given to them by men, and this particularity allows you to experience your own importance. Let you know your place in a man's heart. Although this is only a feeling, it can bring happiness to your marriage and improve the quality of your marriage.
Men must understand women's needs in marriage, and then pay according to women's needs, so that they can achieve two-way giving and two-way returns.
importance
Women feel the particularity in marriage and then understand their importance. No one doesn't want to be at the top of the list in a man's mind. When a woman feels very important on her own, she becomes confident, optimistic and tolerant.
Think about whether an optimistic, confident and tolerant woman can bring a lot of positive energy to the marriage in marriage. She will also have a special trust and understanding of this man, then the marriage will become happy and harmonious.
Men don't always feel that women's needs are unreasonable. As a man, you should let women feel the importance of themselves, because when a woman feels that she is needed, she is affirmed, and this kind of being is definitely full of positive energy, full of enthusiasm, which will become a warming agent in marriage.
Scarcity
A woman feels her importance in marriage, which can help her build confidence, but also make her understand marriage better, and pay more attention to the other half of the effort.
Sometimes the effort is invisible, you have to let the other party feel her to be able to see, to see to be able to respond. So don't pay silently, be sure to use details to move each other, let the other party feel your love is the best way to express love.
If you just love the other person in your own way, and the other person doesn't feel it at all, then she doesn't feel the importance of herself.
In addition to the particularity and importance of marriage, women are inseparable from scarcity. That is, women cannot be juxtaposed with other women. If she finds that she is as important as everyone else, then she has nothing special to speak of, no scarcity to speak of.
Women want to be the only presence in the man's mind, you love her the most, she is the most special, this is scarcity. It is only when importance and scarcity coexist that your feelings will be at their best.
Uncle Epilogue:
Marriage can not be sloppy, as a man should pay more attention to the needs of women in marriage. When you put the details in place, when you put your feelings into practice, then women will not let you down.