Well-known investors encourage their sons to be scumbags, and sons want to be "adulterous"?

Ph.D., well-known investor, can you imagine such a Kochi father's educational philosophy for his son is "scum, make more girlfriends, give me more babies"? Recently, the chat records of Ding Peng, a well-known investor, were exposed, and many of them broke out amazing words, the father taught his son to be scummy, make more girlfriends, have more babies, and even take him to watch small yellow films, netizens watched the "three views of the shock", is the daughter to be rich, the son to be "obscene"?

The strange concept of education is indiscriminate. Ding Peng's chat record revealed that he did not cultivate his son, so he let him go to the scum, and his son now has two girlfriends in the second year of junior high school, stronger than himself, and he is still studying at the age of thirty. I don't know if everyone has a complex, what they have never got, are eager to let the next generation be satisfied, I don't know if Ding Peng said more than himself is that the child made two girlfriends in junior high school, and he himself may not have fallen in love earlier, thirty years old is still studying, regret?

Ding Peng's own true thoughts, we do not know. But this phenomenon is worth pondering, when children enter adolescence, most parents in China are preventing their children from falling in love early, but Ding Peng not only does not educate but even encourages them to be scumbags. Some people may say that Ding Peng, as a well-known investor, can imagine the economic strength, it does not matter whether the child learns or not, it does not matter if the child learns or not, the early love is born early, and then go home to inherit the family business is actually quite good, but I want to say that encouraging the child to be a scumbag is not just an educational concept that the rich have.

As a middle school teacher and class teacher, I have also dealt with the problem of early love in different situations, of course, most of the parents of students do not agree with their children's early love. However, there are also some parents like Ding Peng, I once had a student, a boy, the academic performance is very good, one day I found that he has a tendency to early love, so I look for his mother to communicate, do not communicate do not know, a communication is also quite shocking my three views. The child's mother graduated from college, full-time to take care of the child, for my reaction to the child's early love tendency, the mother has long known, and even revealed that the child also talked about one in the hometown, there is also one in the original school, I asked her is still talking about it now? The child's mother said yes, anyway, he has this ability, and does not interfere with his learning. From the tone of the child's mother, I did not hear the worry but felt a little flaunted.

When I was a child, I went to school in my hometown, the people in my hometown were not highly educated, and I got married very early, if I was over 30 years old and didn't get married, I was almost going to be said to be wasted, so sometimes a family, if my son took my female classmates home, some parents would silently leave home that night. At that time, I thought that maybe the people in my hometown were relatively uneducated and did not attach importance to education, but now look at the doctor's father Ding Peng, the undergraduate mother of the children in my class, the education is also high, but for the child's emotional education, the concept of love is strange when it is not divided.

The daughter should be rich, and this sentence is really correct. Think about the two "girlfriends" parents of Ding Peng's son now are the most afraid of it, from Ding Peng's chat records also mentioned that now give the child a lot of money, let him invite more girls to dinner, we don't know if these two female classmates are confused by money. But many people say that it is reasonable to raise a daughter richly, to prevent the daughter from growing up to be cheated away by a little material, so it is necessary to be rich.

So on the other hand, it is now said that boys are very sad to fall in love, and the word dog licking is basically used to describe men, licking dogs to the end of nothing. So in order to prevent his son from becoming a licking dog and being hurt, it is better to let him find a few more spare tires, and who has more spare tires is not necessarily the spare tire, so boys should "fornicate" and train them to be scumbags?

If there are parents who think this way, I would like to ask, what if your family has a daughter? Would you like your daughter to be scum? Raise your son to be a scumbag, what about the distortion of the child's concept of love and family in the future, or even the distortion of the sexual relationship between the sexes? Marrying just to have children? Can sexual relations be messed up? So will this lead to illegal crimes? What about domestic violence, rape, and erosion of life? Maybe none of this will happen, so is the risk? Can the consequences be borne? This is not alarmist.

Morally speaking, scumbags are inherently immoral. In the end, if a person is not moral, for selfishness, are these consequences that they are willing to bear? For me, the first word I teach my students is: responsibility! The education in this world is strange, but at least there must be a principle, whether you are highly qualified or not, but do not harm the lives of others, so it is not advisable for sons to "fornicate".

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