There are thousands of worlds, there are no wonders. Recently, some netizens broke the news that Ding Peng, chairman of the China Quantitative Investment Association, made surprising parenting remarks in the WeChat group. He said that his expectation for his son is to become a "scumbag", and once the remark was exposed, it shocked netizens and caused an uproar in public opinion.
According to the chat records, Ding Peng said, "Do not ask for wealth, only ask the son to have more than a few women, try to solve the problems that your generation can solve, and don't leave the problems to the next generation." "When his son was in elementary school, he bought him the best mobile phone, and WeChat also sent a lot of money into it, so that he invited the female classmates in the class to eat snacks. "I don't raise babies, I just let him go to the scum, give me a few more grandchildren, our generation is trying to make money, and I don't care about the rest." According to him, his son is now in the second year of junior high school, and he has saved tens of thousands of dollars in his mobile phone, "He already has two girlfriends now." ”
Ding Peng, as the chairman of the Quantitative Association, counted as the "big guy" in the quantitative circle, made such remarks, and he was actually not ashamed, painless, and itchy. Such a fragmented remark can even be echoed by some group friends, what a perverted and distorted psychology. In any case, Ding Peng's resume can also be seen that it is unimaginable for ordinary people to be regarded as a high-level intellectual, and to cultivate such children from an early age and put them into practice. Poor parents in the world, hope that the son into the dragon and the woman into the phoenix, the author is still lonely and unheard, the hope of the son into a scumbag is really unheard of, greatly shocked!
It is the fault of the Father not to teach. In the face of the continuous fermentation of public opinion, Ding Peng first said disapprovingly that "casual transmission, do not care", and then said that it was just bragging, and admitted that his "quality is not high" and that he did not really educate his children like that. In any case, Ding Peng, as a public figure, such remarks will definitely have a certain negative impact and bring great pressure to his children. Between the words, the disrespect for women revealed has also disgusted many people. Parents are the child's first teachers, and every word and deed will affect the child to a large extent.
In this incident, Ding Peng will eventually pay the price for his strange remarks, however, a phenomenon exposed from it has to be worrying: in the hearts of some people, why did they begin to "take pride in slag"? At present, many people treat their feelings as a joke and take pride in the sea king, and Ding Peng just says something that some people only dare to think about and dare not say! The author believes that establishing a reasonable outlook on life values and a concept of marriage and love is a compulsory course for everyone! I also hope that ding peng-style people with three views are broken, this kind of education method cannot cultivate a man with integrity and responsibility, if it causes any evil consequences in the future, in fact, it will eventually be his children and himself who will suffer in the future. The prodigal son will not change his gold, and he also hopes that this strange person can correct his mistakes in time and not go farther and farther on the wrong road. (Special Commentator: Pei Jincheng)