Some people can become aristocrats, and some people are just an upstart, and virtue is very important.
Recently, Ding Peng, a well-known quantitative investor, let his son's "slag a little" strange education view spread all over the Internet. People who have undergone the baptism of traditional culture are not accustomed to this. In particular, Ding Peng showed off that his son was only in junior high school and already had two girlfriends, which caused a fierce quarrel among netizens.
No matter when, Lide should be the foundation of the body, no matter when, excellent quality will not be outdated. As a public figure, irresponsible speech will only harm others and harm oneself. Ultimately there is a price to pay. Spurned by the world, there is nothing worth emulating.
Chat records flowed out, and the parenting theory of well-known people caused controversy
Recently, the well-known person Ding Peng's parenting remarks quickly spread all over the Internet, this kind of educational concept, mainly a chat record flowed out, the content is that he said "do not educate the son, let him go to the scum, have more babies", in addition, also claimed to transfer tens of thousands of yuan to the son, let the child go to invite female classmates to dinner.
So far, the child is in junior high school and has two girlfriends. From Ding Peng's remarks, it can be felt that he is a little proud. It's just that such remarks and concepts just run counter to traditional ideas. As soon as the chat records flowed out, they were complained about by many netizens.
Although he is a well-known investor, after the remarks, many peers said: And we are not a circle, his circle is a training fee.
The parenting concept of well-known people is indeed different from that of ordinary people, but such a concept is despised by the public, and it has become the target of public criticism.
This is the mentality of an upstart, poor in heart
Obviously, as a well-known investor, there are three main reasons why there are three reasons for such remarks:
Reason one: Suffering from childhood, because of too much suffering, 30 years old is still studying, so I hope that the child's generation will no longer suffer hardships, and want to give children the best life, in addition to money, but also free-range.
Perhaps influenced by certain thoughts, I feel that I want to release the nature of my child. Stocking is sometimes equated with indulgence. Especially the attitude of supporting children's early love is really not a good thing. After all, if morality is not worthy, there will be residual disasters, even if there is money in the future, without virtue, it is difficult to hold the money in hand.
Reason two: the typical nouveau riche mentality, feeling that when you make money, it is a bit floaty, so you will be speechless. Feel like a well-known person and have to be different from others. To be a maverick public figure, as everyone knows, is also their own mouth, may make their popularity greatly reduced.
Reason three: a slip of the tongue, after all, is a statement published in their own small circle. I thought that the space was closed and there would be no problems, but the result was still exposed. All this was unexpected. If this is the case, it means that Ding Peng is a person with different appearances, one set before and one set after people.
Such remarks are not terrible, what is terrible is the spread of people
There are too many such remarks in our village. It's just that we all think of him as a braggart, I believe everyone has heard such a thing, and no one has been on the platform. It's not terrible to say something like that, it's terrible to be the one who spread it.
After the remarks were exposed, Ding Peng admitted that he was a "braggart" and admitted that he spoke roughly and was of low quality. We all all hope that he really doesn't educate his son that way. After all, parents are the best teachers for children, and as parents, we must pay attention to words and deeds.
If you are a parent, you will change your face as soon as you are wide, go crazy when you are rich, and forget your roots when you are rich. It's a mental distortion and imbalance. When you encounter children and grandchildren who have a similar kind of learning, they will often embark on the road of failure.
After all, it is a public figure, and we must also pay attention to words, some words are casually said, but they are spread by people with hearts, and then add oil and vinegar, which will definitely cause unnecessary negative effects.
Write at the end
Many people, once they have money or status, will be a little drifty. However, they are all ordinary people, and no one can avoid being open-mouthed, especially in their own small circles. We don't have to go on the line, after all, it is people's own business, we have basic judgment.
After all, education is its own business, and every family has a different way of educating. We can't interfere, as long as we do ourselves well and let our children have the right three views.
No matter how famous a person is, he can still adhere to valuable qualities and beliefs, which is the real strong, and the "scum-style" education will destroy the three views, this kind of joke can not be easily opened!