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You may have seen recently that Dr. Ding Peng, a big man in the quantitative investment industry, talked about his son's education concept in the chat, mainly the "gender education concept", to put it bluntly, it is sex education, and then the white point is his sex education out of YY.
If Dr. Ding's remarks that he thought were a good reflection of his "successful personality" in a book, then you can roughly write about the banned books that circulate on the black market:
"Don't ask you to get rich, only ask you to have more women, give your father a few more grandchildren"
"The eldest son already has two girlfriends in the second year of junior high school, stronger than me"
"I'm ready to take my little son to see a little yellow film"
"Educate him personally, high school should be able to sleep with girls"
"When I'm in college, give me a baby, Lao Tzu's life is too bitter"
"Train him to be a scumbag from childhood"
Dr. Ding's sons can later hold their father's writings everywhere to show off their growth marks.
What is this persona, the high-end version of Dong Moumin, the low-matching version of Wu Moufan. But he thought he was a successful person, and he had reached a realm of freedom that could fill his mind with lust and even drag his family to think about lust together.
In fact, this Dr. Ding represents a part of the people's misunderstanding of contemporary views of marriage and love and gender relations.
What age is this, they still think that the boys who can fall in love are the victors, the boys who can scummy girls are gods, and the men who can sleep more girls are worth bragging about in the WeChat group.
Such people, represented by Dr. Ding, may not have been a scumbag, or they may not be able to reach the level of being a scumbag, so they always think that the happiness of scumbags is unimaginable. But in fact, the scumbag is not only a high-risk persona, but also a high-cost persona.
In other words, scumbags also have thresholds.
Other thresholds aside, the minimum appearance, knowledge, experience, charm, talent, five choices and three bottoms, do you have it?
If not, first examine the peak of the "slag" that you can reach from the genetic point of view, it is just a "slag".
What is dirt slag, just like those who have engaged in a set of washing, cutting and blowing and thinking that they have the whole universe of Killing Matt, will only understand the unspeakable commotion shape in two moves, and dare to charm the girls in the city from the countryside to the combination of urban and rural areas, and become the prodigal son of a happy life.
Many women will be very incomprehensible and do not understand why these statements can be said in a dignified manner.
In fact, this is not surprising, this kind of remark is often in many WeChat groups and dinner bureaus dominated by greasy men, and some men can even show off how many "simple silly sisters" they have made in front of women. The other men cheered for him, living in an environment where they were killed by their kind, like frogs at the bottom of a well.
Now it's just that the gang is a little older and has begun to pin their hopes on their son. But there is nothing to panic about, their overconfidence is still stuck in the last century, even the scum does not know how to keep up with the times, his problem is not his ancestral scum and dare to say such things, but that he did not find his own stupidity and slow half-beat.
Man, leave a trail at all times, whether for yourself or for the next generation.
And how miserable Dr. Ding's next generation is, others look at it, wow, you are Ding Peng's son, well, even if he has a hundred skills that are higher than others, he has been said to be "social death" by his father in 2022 AD.
After Dr. Ding's sex education theory of Zhen Sanguan caught fire, he also confidently said:
But soon, in an interview with reporters, he said: "A few old men are privately talking and bragging in small groups, mouthing hilarious points, rude points, are you media so interesting?" ”
It is conceivable that similar remarks that have accumulated to be recognized, recognized, and applauded by the hands should not be in the minority, which is why it is so inappropriate.
In fact, I can also believe that he may not really take his younger son to watch yellow films, and he may not really guide the eldest son how to go to the scum girl, but the nature of daring to do it and not saying it is different.
It is precisely because his underlying logic and gender concept determine his background, so he will confide his true thoughts with the same kind of people (fox friends) in the relaxed state of chat, perhaps in his circle, think that everyone is half a pound, to be able to play with women in the palm of the hand as a pride.
But the cow X he thought, the mouth he thought was harmless, the normal things he thought men understood, were all what he thought.
But he forgot one thing: times are changing, women are no longer the women they were before, and men are not the men they were before, otherwise who posted screenshots of your chats online?
It is the men who used to hold you high, who always pampered you, who always echoed your self-righteous pretense.
Water can carry boats or overturn boats. Today can make you indulge in the fantasy of thinking you are a successful person, tomorrow can make you strip your bottoms and bask in the sun, dark, obscene, unscrupulous.
Oh, isn't that exactly the kind of "scumbag" you want to cultivate?
In retrospect, we still have to seriously analyze why Dr. Ding made these remarks, there are several possibilities:
1. Fill up or get water in your brain.
Most of these people are not up and down, and there is no great achievement, but they will not be reduced to a generation of inaction, hanging in the middle of the half of high or low and being hanged by a waveless life.
At this time, it is easy for such people not to align with high standards, but only want to reduce the dimensionality to hit some losers. For example, making some erotic remarks similar to loser, discussing some out-of-the-ordinary topics of gender relations, can make the loser feel: Wow, he is so accomplished, and so grounded, and then a hug, so the two sides have achieved group warmth...
2. Conceal inferiority in relationships between the sexes.
We can basically be very sure, affirmed, and concluded that such people can say "sexual expectations" for the next generation, not without physical or psychological problems. Generally speaking, how inferior you are in front of girls from childhood, you will grow up to have a deformed way of looking at women, and you can even be deformed to hope for the next generation.
3. To get out of the loop.
This is very easy to understand: why not, the first place to cause trouble. I am not targeting anyone, but some industries themselves are highly close to a certain type of lace story, and many people rely on this out of the circle, giving people the illusion that "he really dares to say, really thorough, looking for him to invest will be very rewarding".
4. Ideological version of the nouveau riche mentality.
There is no opposite sex, lack of opportunities to experience the life of a scumbag, but may have achieved a relatively large wealth in career or material. Therefore, it will be like an upstart who has been short of meat since childhood, and has to nibble on his elbow every day after getting rich, using material advantages to make up for spiritual scarcity, such as kou hi is a typical symptom.
Knowing these starting points, it is easy for us to carefully avoid the above possibilities when educating our children.
Ding Peng's appearance was actually a timely rain.
In this era of rampant materialism and rapid change, in this era of ever-changing relationships between the sexes and the ease of self-perception, it is still necessary to recognize oneself, recognize the situation, respect others, and learn to win-win. Especially in educating the next generation, it is even more important to think and deal with it seriously, so as not to pass on his incorrect values to the next generation and avoid him becoming a person who is annoying to women.
First: If you have a son, the first demonstration of gender education is the words and deeds of parents. A very simple bottom line standard: whatever your father can't do to your mother, and what you can do to hurt the other party after doing it, you can't do it to other girls, such as violence, cheating, and online nonsense.
Second: Tell your son that he must know that men and women are different—to cultivate a gentlemanly spirit;and that men and women are essentially the same—that they are all human. Respecting each other, respecting each other is equivalent to respecting oneself, rather than treating each other as part of one's own "achievements".
Third: emotional education and empathy education for the son. There are many concepts that men and women cannot integrate, and the root cause is that both parties do not have empathy, which requires our children to learn to understand and listen. Once you understand, you understand more, you understand more, and when you understand, you respect less likely to produce distorted ideas.
Third: Teach your son to choose the right circle and have the ability to judge right from wrong. The purpose of education is to align oneself with the higher, not to linger on those who are stuck in their instinctive comfort zone and need to achieve self-worth by venting and playing with others.
Fourth: the choice and cherishing of intimate relationships. Whether it's love or friendship, it's a process of enjoyment, not about winning. I talked to my little cousin about this Ding Peng the other day, and I asked him if there would be such a trend among boys now, and he sent me this:
So you see, learning to judge the essence of things is the embodiment of a person's maturity, the disguised life is very tired, can not enjoy the real happiness in the process, a little happiness on the fur is just a little illusion that you instilled into the cerebral cortex, in the end, the rest is still empty, in fact, the loss is very undignified.
Therefore, our education for the next generation includes all aspects, and parents are not so good.
People who have sons may not be able to guarantee that their son will be a natural talent, and there is no guarantee of how popular he will become, but our faces and basic qualities determine that he will at least not be a disgusting person for women.
I also hope that the parents and girls of the majority of girls will polish their eyes, recognize those self-righteous scum men, and cherish excellent boys, and do not want to produce gender antagonisms in a partial way. Only when we all educate our children well will the world be better.
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