In order to protect the child's desire for knowledge and exploration, in the face of children's various problems, most of the situations parents will carefully and patiently answer.
But sometimes in the face of some sensitive questions, parents often can't feel the head and don't know how to answer them. Recently, Xiao Xia encountered such an embarrassing situation.
Xiao Xia's family house is relatively small, and her daughter and mother-in-law live in the same room. One night the child had to argue about sleeping with his parents, and the grandmother did not pull it for a while, and the child ran out. The couple was making out in the room that day when they heard a knock at the door and hurriedly stopped.
The next day the child cried and said, "Last night my father beat my mother, and my mother cried out in pain." After reacting for a while, the baby's words made Grandma shy, but she didn't know how to explain it to her.
Sex education in the mainland has always been a relatively missing part, the society generally lacks the importance of sex education, and parents do not know how to correctly educate their children.
Sex education for children at the right age is essential, and it is necessary to start small.
Generally, babies will be aware of the difference between men and women around the age of three, when they will be interested in the differences between each other, so it is necessary to carry out sex education.
To do a good job in children's sex education, we must pay attention to these 3 points
Correctly guide children to understand the human body parts
When the baby reaches the age of 3, parents can start to buy some pictorial newspapers or books to accompany the child to understand the body structure of the human body.
Correctly guide children to understand the gender differences between boys and girls, understand their own private parts, pay attention to protecting themselves from being violated by others, and also learn to respect others and not offend others.
In order to facilitate children's understanding of cognition, parents can buy some simple and easy-to-understand pictorials, or they can find some animated short films of sex education to explain how to distinguish between men and women for children, and tell babies how they came into the world.
Parents must first set an example, respect the privacy of the child, pay attention to the gender boundary with the child, change clothes to know how to avoid, and help the child establish the correct gender awareness from an early age.
Patiently explain the physiological knowledge of adolescence
Regardless of boys and girls in adolescence began to appear normal physiological and psychological changes, parents should explain the relevant knowledge for their children in advance, so that children have a correct understanding, correctly look at physiological changes, especially girls should strengthen their own protection.
Due to the changes in adolescent hormones during this period, children may have early love, and parents should learn to guide correctly, correctly look at the germination of puberty, and learn to protect themselves correctly.
Parents who are ashamed to bring up such topics do not mean that they are good for their children, nor do they prevent them from developing normal sexual consciousness and adolescent ignorance.
Establish a correct view of marriage and love from an early age
Parents should set a good example for their children, guide their children to develop a healthy and good concept of marriage and love, learn to correctly deal with problems in love and marriage, properly handle complex problems between the two sexes, establish a sense of responsibility, and correctly treat intimate behaviors in love.
Especially for girls in adulthood, their parents should teach them to learn self-love in the relationship between the sexes.
Parents are the child's first teacher, many things need to be correctly guided by parents from an early age, and parents can cooperate with teachers.
Conduct sex education for children as soon as possible, understand the necessary sexual safety knowledge, correctly protect themselves and learn to respect others, so as to form a benign and healthy social atmosphere.