29-year-old Mr. Yang, married to 4 years older than him and has a history of marriage Ms. Chen, who wants the two to get married for only 41 days, Ms. Chen has returned to her mother's house for more than 20 days 3 times, Mr. Yang is very dissatisfied with the divorce, Ms. Chen said that she also has bitterness, what is wrong with the newlywed couple?
Before marriage, 29-year-old Yang Hua was introverted and did not speak well of words, never fell in love, and his mother was very anxious to see that the boys in the village who were similar to him were married.
On this day, a relative introduced the divorced Chen Qian to Yang Hua, not only 4 years older than Yang Hua but also an 8-year-old daughter, Yang Hua was a hundred unhappy in his heart, he had not even talked about love, how could he marry a second-married woman?
But the mother said: "If you pick and choose again, you can only beat a single stick for a lifetime, I heard that this girl is hardworking and honest, and is a good woman who can live a good life." ”
In this way, Yang Hua, under the persuasion of his mother, officially met with Chen Qian, and was quite satisfied with her, and her mother was afraid that the cooked duck would fly, and the two had only known each other for a month and had hastily held a wedding for them.
Before marriage, Yang Hua and Chen Qian signed an agreement that her daughter and her ex-husband would not need Yang Hua to be responsible for support, and would not receive him to live at home, and would always be taken by her grandparents.
But what made Yang Hua depressed was that before Chen Qian promised to be good, but after marriage, she repented, the two newlywed honeymoon has not yet passed, she openly took her daughter to his home for a few days, because they lived with their parents, there is no extra room at home, Yang Hua can only sleep in the living room on the first floor, he is still uncomfortable.
The most important thing is that he feels that he has no face when he is seen by his neighbors, he is afraid of other people's jokes, he has just married and has one more child at home, and the neighbors will definitely laugh at him privately, he hopes that when the two have their own children, Chen Qian will bring the children over.
And Chen Qian explained that the parents at home were sick, there was no way, and they couldn't let their daughters go!
Yang Hua did not understand his wife's difficulties, the two were unhappy because of this matter, chen Qian had no choice but to go back to her mother's home, during that time her mother was ill and was hospitalized, she not only had to return to the hospital, but also had to go back to her mother's house to take care of her daughter's diet and living.
So he could only move back in for a few days, at first Yang Hua was just angry, he felt that Chen Qian did not have this home in his heart, nor did he have this husband, only cared about his daughter and mother's family, and did not pay attention to him.
Chen Qian, who has been married once, has long lost passion for love, and for her, as long as she can find someone to live in peace, the others do not need to worry too much, say too much, and have not considered Yang Hua's feelings.
Yang Hua did not expect that she had a hard time marrying a wife, but she ran out of the house for three days and two ends, so what is the point of this wife marrying home?
Therefore, he was very angry, directly to Yang Hua's mother's house to take her back, but he could not rest assured that her daughter and mother's she, stayed for two days and left, even his own cosmetics were taken away, Yang Hua originally had no emotional basis with her, and now he only recognized a dead reason, that is, before marriage, the two said that Yang Hua did not care about her daughter, but she rebelled, is this not cheating marriage?
There is another thing that makes Yang Hua feel wrong, the two have only been married for a month, Yang Hua said that he wants to do IVF, hoping to have a child early, is there any hidden feeling behind this? Had she lost her fertility?
This marriage of only 41 days made Yang Hua feel physically and mentally exhausted, he indignantly found a reporter, hoping to get an explanation for himself, in the face of her husband's questioning, Chen Qian said that she was speechless, as a mother and daughter, can I stand by and watch something at home now?
I really want to live with him, now this situation is only temporary, and after I marry into her house, I often clean up, I really don't want to toss anymore, and we are like this, is the lack of communication.
Yang Hua accused Chen Qian of being reluctant to do housework, and also compared herself to a nanny, with many complaints. Chen Qian said that she is a person who loves cleanliness, while Yang Hua does not pay attention to personal hygiene at all, the soot is all over the house, the computer desk is a lot of garbage, every time she just cleans up and gets dirty, she will naturally nag a few words.
Yang Hua said angrily: "This is my computer desk, I love to get it as much as I want, I don't need you to take care of it." From this incident, we can see that the living habits of the two people are also very different.
The son and the daughter-in-law made such a quarrel, Yang Hua's mother lost her voice and cried bitterly, saying that all this was her own fault, she should not let her son marry a woman with a child, her mind was not placed in this family at all, in order to marry the daughter-in-law's family also borrowed tens of thousands, what to do now?
Yang Hua insisted on going his own way and proposed a divorce, saying that he could not stand such a marriage, and even more could not accept Chen Qian's daughter, and only hoped that Chen Qian could return half of the dowry money.
Chen Qian said that this is just some small things, as long as the two can continue to live after good communication, there is no need to make a divorce, she clearly said that she did not want to divorce, she could not afford to lose this person, only married less than 2 months to divorce.
However, Yang Hua was still reluctant to give Chen Qian a chance, and finally said that he would go to the court to sue for divorce.
The above material source "Search for Love"
This marriage is a mistake from the beginning, people have to learn to think differently, as a mother to remarry themselves, leave the daughter to the mother's care, this is obviously not appropriate, if a man can not even tolerate a child, then it is obvious that he is not a generous person, the plan is not as fast as the change, in the face of some unexpected situations, the contradiction will come out.
People have their own ambitions, Mr. Yang chose to end this marriage is beyond reproach, the same woman I want to advise Ms. Chen: "Don't just think about what face, if you continue to live with this man reluctantly, there will be no happiness to speak of, life will only be a chicken feather, quarrels, a person's pattern is doomed to everything, this can not be changed." ”
If a man can't even accept a child, he is definitely not the good person you are looking for, and he will turn back to the shore as soon as possible.
Marriage is mutual understanding and respect, not selfish possession, the so-called love house and U.
