One day, I was reading a book, and my daughter suddenly looked up and asked me, "Mom, you are reading books every day, what is the use of reading so many books?" Looking at her innocent and doubtful expression, I smiled and replied to her, of course it was useful!
After that, I thought about it again and again, what is the meaning of reading?
When it comes to the meaning of reading, it is bound to let the reader answer this question.
Parents who love to read will educate their children
It seems that adults after work rarely read, and the parents of many of the students I contact almost never read. Therefore, they only use their own life experience and experience to educate their children, and ignore the characteristics of this adolescent student, resulting in parents' prejudgments and expectations and children's ideas are in opposite directions, and the pain of parents is that this child has reached the rebellious period, and the parents' words do not like to listen? The child's idea is, you don't understand anything, you still want to educate me, can I listen?
Maybe some parents will ask, I support my family every day, it is not easy to earn money hard, where do I have time to read? Besides, reading is a child's business, not mine!
In fact, parents who love to read will educate their children even more. They use their fragmented time to read a short essay about parenting or educating their children, which seems to be only a few hundred words, but can gain a lot.
Because this short few hundred words are an educator or parent who knows the method of education and writes some experience and methods, it may not be 100% effective, but if you insist on reading for a long time, you will one day realize that in the process of communicating with your child, the tone has become much milder, nor is it a reprimand that splits your head and covers your face, and it is not an arbitrary judgment on the child's learning, but calmly helps the child sort out her recent ideas, find the confusion and frustration encountered, and thus give the child some useful suggestions pertinently.
For parents who love to read, the greatest significance of reading is to let themselves learn how to communicate and communicate with their children, and to teach themselves how to educate their children.
I believe that learning how to educate their children is the greatest expectation of every ordinary and ordinary parent in China. No matter how hard you work, as long as you can make your child's future brighter, even if you go to the soup, it is incumbent on you. Moreover, reading is the best shortcut to educating children.
Parents who love to read are often of high quality
Teachers engaged in the front line of teaching will find such a law, parents are a mirror of children, what children are like, parents are also what they are.
Students who have excellent grades, discipline, and progress often reveal good tutors in their speech and behavior. Their way of dealing with the world is often in accordance with social norms. And their parents are also solid employees in their respective industries.
Students who pride themselves on breaking school discipline and school rules, if you dig deeper, will silence the teacher. Because of such a child, his original ecological family is not harmonious and unhealthy.
It is often said that a person should be physically healthy and mentally healthy at the same time, but I think family health is the basic condition for children's physical and mental health.
Most of these children live in a family that is on the verge of being broken, broken or reorganized, and some of the children's parents, although alive, are almost "parents" who travel in all directions and do not see the end of the dragon. Parents' meetings never participate, and when parents are present, it is always the seven aunts and eight aunts who support them, and some even do not.
Living in such a family, what about education?
The child begins to adapt to the small society of school alone early, and if he adapts well, he will be able to complete his studies step by step, not to cause trouble or provoke others, and to spend puberty without self-confidence and so inferiority. However, a large proportion of children have the practical and invisible "lack of parental education" that causes them to judge how to deal with them based on their own age when faced with some problems.
The final result can be imagined! The child becomes a problem child, and the parents can only be in a hurry. They always said to me, "Teacher, I don't really know when so-and-so became like this." He has been very well-behaved since he was a child, and I really can't do anything about it now, you are teachers, you know education, help me educate my children.
As everyone knows, no one can do for the education of parents!
Parents pushed the child to the teacher because of distress, they seemed pitiful and confused, but when the teacher really took out the thunderous power to rectify the problem students, the parents began to hurt the child and blame the teacher.
What parent doesn't lose his temper when his child is misbehaving? Which parent can guarantee that he will always be gentle? Its own education does not have so much aura and color, it is a simple word and deed, it is the child to do the wrong thing, parents should be extremely strict and serious attitude to tell the child, the consequences are very serious, absolutely can not do so in the future.
However, if the teacher does this, the teacher's degree is not easy to grasp, after all, the teacher is the teacher, he is an educator, not a parent. Many words come out of the mouths of parents, and the meaning of saying them from the mouths of teachers is not the same.
For example, the teacher loves the students like children, sees the students make mistakes, hates the iron and steel scolding a child, and the message received by the child is that the teacher scolded me. And the parent scolds the child, he receives the message the parent is really angry, this thing is my fault.
Therefore, the parent has not read for a long time, nor has he read some basic educational knowledge, and he does not even perceive when the child begins to become "bad". Because they do not read, the parents' emotions, temper, language, and expressions are natural, and they have not been carved, and the children have heard about it for a long time, and they have learned how their parents behave in the world.
What is the greatest significance of reading? What I understand is that parents have a high level of content, and the benefit is still the children! Parents are shallow, and the child's vision can only stay in the place where they can try to reach.
What is the greatest significance of reading? Leave your answers behind, right?
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