My name is Wang Ying, I have been married for three years, and I am recently in the process of divorce. The mother-in-law, who has always been kind and kind, strongly persuaded and drew a large cake, and when she saw that I was not moved, she suddenly changed her face: "Since you are bent on going your own way, you will."

My name is Wang Ying, I have been married for three years, and I am recently in the process of divorce.

The mother-in-law, who has always been kind and kind, strongly persuaded and drew a big cake, and when she saw that I was not moved, she suddenly changed her face: "Since you are bent on going your own way, pay the rent and utilities for these three years!" ”

"What?" I couldn't believe my ears.

"In the past three years, you have lived in my house, used my family's water and electricity, and now you want to pat your ass and leave, where is it so easy?"

I was laughed at by my mother-in-law's words: "I live in your house, use your water and electricity, and also serve as a daughter-in-law for your family for three years!" ”

"Then I don't care! Now the person who wants to divorce is you! The mother-in-law played Lai: "If my son asks for a divorce, I will definitely not want you for a penny!" ”

"Go sue!" If the court orders me to pay the rent and utilities, I will give it to you! I replied.

My mother-in-law cursed me viciously, saying that I must have had an affair!

I shot back, "You're saying this unfounded thing again!" Since you think I'm having an affair, go investigate."

In fact, she had never investigated, she launched the seven aunts to inquire about me everywhere, and instigated the eight aunts to follow me, the purpose was to grab my pigtails, but unfortunately found nothing.

In her mind, if I'm not having an affair, why divorce her son? "My son does not gamble two, does not prostitute three, does not abuse, such a good man, but you have an iron heart to divorce him." 」

Yes, her son is so nice! So lazy, so hungry, so selfish! The only bad thing is that the temper is not good!

But these shortcomings, not only her son can't see, she can't see this mother! I didn't give him a chance, but he didn't want to change, what can I do?!

My mother-in-law asked me to touch my conscience and say, in the past three years, what has she done to me?

I touched my conscience and said: As a mother-in-law, you have treated me well in the past three years. But I am not married to my mother-in-law, and I will spend the rest of my life with my husband, and if your son is not qualified for the role of husband, I will not be able to continue to live with him.

The mother-in-law scornfully said: Today's young daughter-in-law is a flirtatious! In our time, which daughter-in-law did not serve the in-laws and men, but also managed all aspects of the child, living like a spinning top, how did we not complain for half a year! Now the young daughter-in-law has really high requirements for men, and she has to be able to do housework and make a lot of money, why don't you ask him to go to heaven!

My husband and I met at the driving school, he looked sunny and handsome, and he was good at telling jokes, which made the students who learned to drive together laugh.

I had a crush on him and found that the look in his eyes was different. At the instigation of others, I decided to try to get involved with him.

I have to say that my mother-in-law is a social master, since she knew that her son and I were in love, in order to promote the marriage between the two of us, she has been behind the scenes for her son.

Where to date, where to play, where to eat, it is the mother-in-law who helps him make a good strategy. He even wrote love letters for him and designed a marriage proposal.

The mother-in-law packaged her son as a confident, cheerful and positive high-quality warm man, and finally deceived me, a little girl who did not understand the world.

After marriage, I found that my husband was different from before marriage, and my mood was a little lost. People around me told me: "Men are like this, and they are not willing to spend their minds before marriage."

If that's the case, that's it, but I find that the difference between him before and after marriage is really heaven and earth! He wasn't the man I knew before marriage at all.

At this time, I learned that I had been in love with my mother-in-law, and my husband was just a tool man!

He was not enterprising at work, working as a dispensable clerk in a relative's company, filling out simple forms every day, receiving a monthly salary that was barely enough to feed himself, and living freely and loosely.

Our new house and my mother-in-law's house are two units adjacent to each other in the same neighborhood, and as long as I am not at home, he will eat at my mother-in-law's house three times a day.

He went to work every day to play mobile phones and games, and his relatives did not intend to take care of him at all. Want to take leave immediately to get approval, anyway, the company has him and he is the same.

Because the father-in-law went to work in a relative's company after retirement, he was seriously injured and did not rescue him. Therefore, my relatives recruited him into the company, and I did not intend to let him do any results, and I had the right to raise him as compensation, which I only knew after marriage.

I advised him not to be so confused: "Even if you and your mother think that it is right to mix wages in a relative's company." But time is your own, even if you don't want to quit, you can use this time to learn other skills or develop side jobs. ”

My husband snorted and laughed at me for being superfluous.

The widow's mother-in-law regarded her son as the only one, and everything was in his favor.

Man has no far-sighted worries, but will have near-term worries.

When the epidemic began last year, relatives' companies gradually became unable to make ends meet, and then completely closed down. Relatives sold their assets back to their hometown, and their husbands were completely unemployed.

I asked my husband to go out and find a job, and he was ostensibly very active, checking his resume online every day. But in fact, he never went out for an interview.

For two years, I didn't find a new job. I couldn't help but count him down, and he lost his temper with me, saying that I only recognized money and didn't recognize people, and I was bent on drilling into the eyes of money.

My husband complained to his mother-in-law, saying that I looked down on him.

The mother-in-law was very unhappy, and she was telling me inside and outside: She raised her son with a pension, her son did not spend a penny on me, and I had no right to give her son a face.

Husband inaction, mother-in-law selective blindness, such a day can not see hope, I really can't live!

I filed for divorce from my husband, who at first disagreed, arguing that even if he didn't earn money, it didn't affect the quality of life at home.

My mother-in-law also questioned me: Is it because I have been promoted and raised my salary, and I can't look up to her son?

My husband said that I am Chen Shimei of the new era, and when I am developed, I can't look at my own chaff husband.

I smiled bitterly: Is this also called development? If you are in a supervisor position and manage less than 20 people under your command, which is also called development, then your life realm is really too small.

The future world is wonderful, life after divorce, I am looking forward to it!