#Bride price # #Rural # A few years ago, my cousin died suddenly, and the son's marriage that originally had eyebrows became confusing, and the woman changed her mouth to ask for a dowry of 400,000 yuan, saying that she wanted to come with the house money. You must know that the dowry in the countryside of Pingdingshan is generally only 50,000 or 60,000 yuan, and 400,000 can indeed buy a full-fledged house in the city. The cousin was particularly worried, bluntly saying that this woman was either living a life or a pit.
The eldest son of his cousin's family is 23 years old, because he has not read for several years, he has reached the age of talking about marriage in the countryside. After being introduced, there were also several talks, and one of the girls hesitated for a while and then was willing to marry. It can be that a few years ago, on the twenty-first day of the lunar month, my cousin died suddenly, and my cousin wanted to promote this family affair as soon as possible, because of our custom there, there are elders who die or the younger generations are married within 90 days, or they can do a happy event after 2 years. But this mouth costs 400,000, which can be difficult to spoil the cousin's family. In fact, the cousin's family conditions are not bad, in addition to the younger son's teenage years old, the original three other people can go out to make money, the eldest son in the urban area of a unit has stabilized, the family is a two-story small building, the village has been assigned to the high-tech zone, but also facing demolition. But this to 400,000 is really excessive, dare not let the man have a car and a house, but to buy a car for the woman to buy a house! In the rural marriage market, are the men passive to this extent?
The cousin's response is that the family has a house to live in, and it is really not okay for the second uncle's family in the city to temporarily give them a marriage to live, but the woman does not agree. I really wanted to tell her to solve the problem in a different way, but looking at my cousin's face and tone full of complaints every day, and the inner state of self-righteousness, I held back. Hey, why bother with other people's business, people may not think that you are right or take your affection, this is human nature.
Most of today's young people are reluctant to live with their parents, so the second floor of the hometown is not convincing, and as for the house of relatives in the urban area, it is still not attractive to the woman at all. Therefore, the woman wants a house of her own, the reason why she wants to pay in full is that she is worried that his family still has a young son, and there are many places to spend money in the future, especially the death of her cousin, losing a major source of income for labor. Therefore, the woman's idea is understandable, and the only problem is the ownership of the house. The woman asked for 400,000 yuan, assuming that there was this money for her, but the property rights became the woman's, and it is not known whether this person will sincerely live with him, if it is okay, the property of the husband and wife does not matter. If not, then it will be very troublesome after the marriage change. So the best way is to spend a down payment of more than 100,000 yuan to buy an off-plan house in the city, which is not only premarital property, but also has a car and a house, and can also be repaid in advance after demolition. In this state, the marriage market has changed, the initiative has become a high-quality man, the choice space has expanded from the countryside to the city, the city can have more women and fewer men, and now it is still young, and it will certainly not worry about finding a partner in the future.
Hey, this is just my analysis, just think for yourself, I hope they take fewer detours! Now it is really too difficult to find an object to marry in the countryside, especially those taken on vibrato, which look sad.
