"The kinder the person, the safer it is to drive," a friend who was a traffic policeman told me. At first I didn't quite believe that kindness had anything to do with driving safety. It wasn't until I heard his careful analysis later that I suddenly realized.
Listening to this friend, their traffic police department will organize people every year to deliberately analyze the laws of various traffic accidents. Of course, they also track some large truck drivers for many years, the rules of daily life and work, and gradually find that those who have a high driving safety factor and have not even had a traffic accident in their lives have a kind heart.
This traffic police friend told me about an old driver who has been running a big truck for many years. As we all know, running a large truck all year round is the hardest, and the boring and monotonous life on the road often makes these drivers crazy. But the big truck driver he said drove from the age of 18 until retirement, and it didn't have a single traffic accident. When people asked about him, he always smiled and said, what do you want to do in front, what to think for each other, your heart will be smooth. The old driver told a simplest example, that is, when the speed of the car is fast on a rainy day, the pedestrians will often collapse and scatter a sludge of the pedestrians, if we drive, if we see two people walking in front of us from a distance, then click a foot on the brakes and slow down, don't hurt each other? If you say that you are not fast to go through, you must be a sludge, the pedestrians must not be willing to scold you, maybe these two pedestrians in the front of a section of the road may encounter you, if you encounter, there will definitely be a tearing and insulting dispute, so the heart will not be strong, why do you want to do it? I made myself panic all day.
The old driver also told me an example, once he was driving on the highway, because the cab of the large truck he drove had a wide field of view, he saw from a distance that there was a cargo scattered by the front car on the road in front of him, just at this time there was a small car on the left rear of him, which gave him a turn signal instruction, which meant that he wanted to overtake and asked him to cooperate with some, the old driver analyzed in the car, if now this car accelerates on the left side of the car and waits for more than to go, it just crashes on the goods on the road in front, if this is definitely a car crash. Therefore, this big truck driver is particularly kind, that is, he does not give way to the car on the left rear side, that is, he deliberately blocks the car, and at the same time deliberately honks the horn, which gives the car behind him a honking horn and flashing the flash! Until after passing the dangerous section, the old driver naturally created an opportunity for him to overtake. Of course, the driver of the car will understand after the pass that the old driver of the truck has behaved in good faith. When the two cars met in the service area, the driver of the car specially ran over and sent a large bag of fruit to the old driver of the big truck to express special thanks.
In the words of the old driver, if a person drives, with good intentions, always thinking about the other party, naturally his speed will not be fast, the analysis of the road conditions will be quite clear, if you encounter an emergency, he will also deal with it particularly perfectly.
Therefore, the more often people who drive, the more they must put their minds at ease, and kindness is not only saving the lives of others, but also encouraging your own lives.
Therefore, our ancestors often told us that there will be rain in the sky and there will be disasters in the madness of man.
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