The Outsider (Thirty-Two) Continues to the previous part! I never wanted to marry him, and I never mentioned getting him a divorce. Everything has a first come, first come, first served. I remember the summer vacation of 18 years, he was because he was young

The Outsider (32)

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I never wanted to marry him, and I never mentioned getting him a divorce. Everything has a first come, first come, first served. I remember that during the summer vacation of 18 years, he kept looking for someone to take care of because of his children's school affairs, often invited people to drink, and once, he said that he was going to drink at night, and when he finished drinking, he returned to the unit and asked me if I could come over and drive. I said yes. On the drive back to work that night, he was a little drunk but still sober, and he said that maybe one day, he would divorce and marry me. I looked at him, drove again, and told him, if one day you get divorced, there must be a problem between you, it has nothing to do with me. I don't need you to do anything for me. If one day I can divorce, it will also be for myself, and it has nothing to do with you. Even if you're single and I'm single, I'm not going to marry you. I said, you live your life well, we are like this now, I am content. I don't interfere with you, I don't interfere with the family. Don't hurt others! He didn't speak. He was a little drunk, and he probably said something he wasn't sure about. I later thought that when he told me that it was possible to marry me, I believed he was sincere. We stayed in his dorm that night and he dropped me out early the next morning. He came back on Thursday, spent a weekend at home, and went back to work. However, more things followed, and it was caught off guard. First of all, he is faced with the choice of whether to change jobs or retire, he is old, or a deputy post, if he can not be promoted again, he must choose to change jobs or discharge. He has been hesitant, and I support his transfer on the grounds that he is still in the state unit after he has changed careers. In my consciousness, gongwuyuan is the most comfortable profession in the world, drought and flood protection, power, money and leisure, wherever he goes, he is superior, he can go to many units as deputy bureaus, he can also go to the county as a county magistrate. If he retired from the army, he would be a common man, and all the relationships he had painstakingly managed before would be dissipated because of his status as a civilian. I never wanted to dip his light. I just think that a person like him, who has been in the system for more than twenty years and has been accustomed to the officialdom, such as fish and water, if he leaves the officialdom, how can he get rid of this loneliness that has fallen from the clouds to the altar!

At this time, his father died unexpectedly, leaving his sick old mother in the family. In desperation, he chose to choose his own career and left the place where he had lived for more than twenty years. Like me, I became an ordinary citizen! Time has entered 2019. Since January, he has not had to go to work, waiting to be discharged from the army, without any turnaround. In 2019, three big things happened, first, I was in charge of the financial work of his company, starting from scratch. Second, with his help, I bought a house. Third, a routine physical examination of his child's mother's unit found pulmonary nodules, reaching as many as 13. In the order in which things happened. I'll just talk about it one by one.