Female colleagues gave me a movie ticket, my wife was on a business trip, I was bored when I went home, I went to see it, I found a seat to sit well, the woman next to me turned out to be my wife, I was wearing a mask, the light was relatively dark, wife

Female colleagues gave me a movie ticket, my wife was on a business trip, I was bored when I went home, I went to see it, I found a seat and sat down, the woman next to me turned out to be my wife, I was wearing a mask, the light was relatively dark, my wife did not recognize me, and asked me: How did you come? Why didn't I answer your call?

I just wanted to ask her, when did you call me and didn't you go on a business trip? Before I could say anything, I suddenly realized that this matter did not seem to be simple.

Just then my wife said: I have been waiting for you for so long, my mouth is thirsty, you go and buy me a bottle of water. I got up and walked out of the movie hall, went outside, pulled out my phone and called my female colleague.

When a female colleague answered the phone, she wouldn't allow me to speak, so she asked me: Is the movie wonderful? Look patiently, the wonderful is still to come.

I said: What the hell is going on? Can you tell me what you mean by sending me a movie ticket? Did you already know that my wife was not on a business trip, and did you also know that my wife would definitely come to the movie tonight?

The female colleague said: Tonight with your wife to watch the movie should not be you, but my husband, the movie ticket I found in my husband's bag, so I gave it to you, I am now facing the same problem as you, the difference is that you are watching a movie with your wife, and I am arguing with my husband.

The female colleague put the words here, and I understood that it turned out that my wife was only on the pretext of going on a business trip, and watching a movie with the husband of my female colleague was something she had arranged long ago.

No wonder, my wife has always been cold and indifferent to me in the past year, and she is often angry with me for my namelessness, and I always look for reasons in myself, and it turns out that the problem is not in me, but in my wife' body.

I bought a bottle of water and walked back to the viewing hall, quietly back to my wife's side, I pulled the mask on it again, I handed the water to my wife, and her wife rested her head on my shoulder.

I know that my wife does not yet know that the person next to her is her husband, and has mistaken me for the husband of my female colleague, and at this moment, my heart is full of mixed feelings.

I also know that the female colleague's family must also be chicken and dog restless, of course, I am not in the mood to accompany my wife to watch a movie here, and my wife's head is resting on my shoulder, and I feel not happiness, but a shame.

I took off my mask and patted my wife, and the moment my wife looked up and saw me, she was stunned and blurted out: How are you?

I asked her: Who do you want to be? The wife said: I thought it was my female colleague, I made an appointment with her to watch the movie, how did you come?

I said: Let's go home and talk, and when we get home, I'll tell you why I'm with you.

When my wife and I got home, I first asked her: Didn't you say you were on a business trip today? Do you go to the cinema for business?

My wife was still lying, and she still wanted to argue, she said: Because the business trip was postponed, I had to leave tomorrow, so I made an appointment with my female colleague to go to the movies. I said: It's not your female colleague who's going to watch a movie with you, it's a man, right?

The wife said: No, it is a female colleague, how can I deceive you? I pulled out my cell phone and called my female colleague, who, after answering, did not speak, and there was a fierce argument between the female colleague and her husband on the phone.

On the phone, the husband of the female colleague apologized to the female colleague, saying that his wife took the initiative to approach him first, he actually did not like my wife at all, and was with my wife, but it was just a fresh, to dispel loneliness.

I hung up the phone, looked at my wife and said, "Now, what do you have to say to me?" We've been husband and wife for so many years, where am I bad for you?

In the face of the facts, my wife bowed her head, and my wife could hear the words of my female colleague's husband just now. I don't know what kind of mood she is in now, but I have a very painful feeling, like the husband of my female colleague, punched my wife for me.

My wife quickly explained to me, she said: In fact, I have not been with him for long, and I am not with him because of feelings.

I asked: What's the reason for that? My wife said in a huff: I don't know why, I also know that you have nothing to be sorry for me, I can only say that I was confused for doing something to hurt you.

I said: It doesn't matter if you hurt me or not, what matters is that I want to know, how are you going to deal with this, and if you don't get me found out tonight, how long will you cheat on me?

The wife said: I will not give up the family because of him, I will not leave you because of him, in fact, I am tired of being with him, even if I am not discovered by you tonight, I have long wanted to break up with him.

I repeat: What are you going to do with this? The wife shook her head and said: I don't know, I listen to me, no matter what decision you make, I accept it.

Divorce is the first thought that pops up in my head, I just wanted to say these two words, I hesitated again, my wife's behavior really made me unforgivable, but divorce is not a simple thing.

A lot of our property, are jointly purchased by our husband and wife after marriage, building cars and some deposits, if these things are still easy to deal with, the most headache for me is that we have a child, just five years old this year, fortunately tonight she is at her grandmother's house, otherwise I don't know how to explain it to her.

Let me forgive my wife, I can't give myself an explanation, now I am very entangled, do not know how to properly deal with this matter?

@ Not with dreams

Marriage without feelings is immoral, and I want to ask you, after this incident, do you still have feelings for your wife? Don't think about the problem of children first, if you have no feelings for your wife, you are barely living together for the sake of your children, your family atmosphere will not be too harmonious, and people who grow up under the bad conditions of the family environment will have some problems in their personality.

Reluctantly maintaining a marriage for the children is the practice of many couples, this kind of reluctant marriage, but also test the ability of both husband and wife to deal with problems, the requirements for both husband and wife are also higher, if once handled badly, not only is not the protection of the child, but may hurt the child.

Ask yourself, how much affection do you still have for your wife right now? If the relationship can still maintain your husband and wife relationship, you may wish to give up the divorce plan first, and give your wife a chance to see the after-effects.