I am 53 years old, my wife died a year ago, single for a long time inevitably lonely so I remarried. Married to 48-year-old Plum. Shortly after getting married, she suddenly said to me to let me give him one for his son

I am 53 years old, my wife died a year ago, single for a long time inevitably lonely so I remarried. Married to 48-year-old Plum. Shortly after getting married, she suddenly said to me to let me give his son a suite. I really have a hard time accepting it.

My ex-wife died of cancer two years ago. At my wife's funeral, I met Meizi, Meizi and my wife grew up together, the two people had a very good relationship, and later both of them formed a family, neither lived in the same city, and the contact was relatively small. She had come to the funeral when she learned of my wife's death. After she came to help me, I could see that her relationship with my ex-wife was very good. That's how I sent my wife away. At this time, Meizi said that she did not want to leave and wanted to stay here to work.

It turned out that Umeko's marriage was unfortunate, she divorced as early as 5 years ago, and now she is older, has lost her job, and is alone to support her children. She wanted me to help him find a job, she said that she was not afraid of hard work, as long as she could earn more money, she learned that her son graduated from college and faced marriage, and she also wanted to earn more money for her children and marry her daughter-in-law.

I thought that Plum and my wife had such a good relationship, and after my wife died and helped me, I agreed to her request. In order to help her, I deliberately introduced her to work in a restaurant owned by one of my comrades-in-arms, and in order to reduce her expenses, I deliberately let her live in my home, so as to save her the cost of renting a house, not to mention that I was a little lonely to live alone.

Suddenly one day, I went to walk around and accidentally fell, my leg was broken, fortunately Plum sent me to the hospital in time, and in the hospital was also doing my best to take care of me, making me feel very warm, and it was really thanks to Plum. Looking at her busy look, a thought flashed through my mind, how nice it would be if she were my wife.

As the saying goes, it hurts a hundred days, during which time it is Meizi who takes care of me, and she does not go to work. Later, when I was discharged from the hospital, she cooked for me every day and pushed me out for a walk. It was a matter of taking good care of me. In this way, the thoughts in my heart became stronger and stronger.

So I expressed my thoughts to Umeko, who also had a crush on me, and I had done my best to help her before. He was also grateful that our ideas coincided. In this way, we received the certificate and began our happy life.

I also know that Meizi is very hard for her son to get married, desperately saving money, after we got married, I took the initiative to buy a car for Meizi's son of more than 100,000 yuan.

What I thought in my heart was to live well with Meizi, and her son could help if he could. What happened recently makes me unacceptable.

I was taking a nap that day, and Plum pulled me up and said, "Honey, I tell you the good news, my son has an object,

I said it was a good thing, and then she said, "Honey, don't you still have a house, or you can give it to my son to live in, and we will buy it in the province." ”

I was a little angry after listening, I took 150,000 yuan before buying a car, and I said it was very good to return it to me. Now there is nothing, this time directly want my house? I said with a straight face, "Plum, that house was earned by working hard with my ex-wife, this can't be given."

Meizi burst into tears and said, "Do you really not love me?" Now with me so outside, my son is not your son, ah, in the future she will not give us a pension ah? What's wrong with giving him a set? ”

The more I listened, the more uncomfortable I felt, feeling that when Meizi married me, she came for my money, and she just looked at my family property. Bought him a car and now want a house? Is it right or wrong?

What should I do now?

@ Occasional Little Emotions 4 I do understand your current mood, this house really can't be said to give.

You've been married for too short a time to see what both parties really think, and it's possible that you're just being too spoiled for your children, as you say, or maybe Umeko is simply too spoiled for her children. Such a thing can only be left to time to decide.

It is recommended that you can let the plum make an IOU, see how life is in the future, as the saying goes, see people's hearts for a long time!

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