"The ex-husband and the third party are married, I wish them happiness" This divorced woman is really fierce on this train of life, some people accompany us forward, some people leave halfway. When I was young

"The ex-husband and the third party are married, I wish them happiness" This divorced woman is really cruel

On this train of life, there are people who accompany us forward, and some people who leave halfway. When I was young, everyone thought that a vow was forever, and as the years passed, they began to gradually understand what is the yellow flower of tomorrow and what is the changeable heart.

Friendship or love, as long as it does not go to the end, there is a possibility of mutation at any time.

Therefore, I always feel that when I am young, it is good to experience a little more, at least, to be able to turn and turn back when everything is still too late, and not to fall deeper and deeper.

When a friend who grew up together drifts away, don't be too sad, because each of us is carrying a bag forward, always learning to throw away those people and things that are not worth it, otherwise, carrying too much, the more you can't move.

When the man who says he loves himself changes his heart one day, don't be too sad, since he can cheat once in the relationship, it is likely that there will be countless times, so the sooner you see him, the less trouble there will be.

Some people are accustomed to indulging in the vortex of emotions, always feel that any change is an unfortunate, in fact, it is not, real friends will not be easily separated, and sincere lovers are reluctant to let each other be hurt.

Those who have been separated, changed their hearts, and betrayed those who do not need to be put in their hearts in the first place, not because each other's feelings are too shallow, but they are not worth it.

Moreover, having witnessed the cruelty of the adult world once, you should understand that after feeling the coldness of the emotional world once, you should be sober: born as a human being, no one is really inseparable from anyone, and life itself has always been a person's cultivation.

Yi Shu's Luo Zijun is a microcosm of the real world.

In the novel "The First Half of My Life", the heroine Luo Zijun holds her husband in the palm of her hand, and in the family life, everything is in detail, just to play the role of a housewife.

However, when she was preoccupied with marriage, the other half quietly cheated.

After more than ten years of marriage, she never doubted this feeling, even if there is no passion between the two, she can also cut out her husband's love for herself from the details of life.

Different from the role interpreted by Ma Yili in the TV series, Luo Zijun in the original work is 100% trusting of her husband, will not engage in any temporary investigation, nor will she tangle with some of the opposite sex around him, she always firmly believes that the other party loves herself, just like she can't do without each other.

Unfortunately, she was wrong, and the man could say he loved her, or he could fall under the pomegranate skirt of another woman, and in the marriage she was bent on maintaining, there was a risk of collapse at any time because of the factor of infidelity.

In the end, the man showed cards with Luo Zijun for the so-called love, and before that, everyone around him discovered the fact that he was cheating, only Luo Zijun, the wife, was always in the dark.

This is the price of Luo Zijun's love for one person, listening to his advice and resigning after marriage, accompanying him at the best age to endure hardships, shouldering all the burdens of childcare, in exchange for a divorce request.

The man broke Luo Zijun's wings with his own hands and used love to compile a beautiful dream, and as a result, it was he who made the dream, and it was he who destroyed all this.

Turning love into a cage, and turning love into a sword, is the greatest harm to a woman.

Zhang Ailing has also been hurt so much, she has loved a man at the best age, but she can give everything and get a heart full of holes.

Thankfully, she wrestled in love, and in the days that followed, she did not repeat the same mistakes. Because she has been hurt, she knows better what she wants, because she has loved deeply, so she knows better what is really suitable.

Sometimes, we have to thank the people who have hurt us, and without them, we can successfully avoid such risks in the future of our lives.

When injured, it will leave scars, but at the same time, it will also form a conditioned reflex and strengthen the immune system.

Just like Luo Zijun, who has experienced the failure of marriage, he no longer indulges in the comfort that marriage provides for him, but understands the importance of independence and self-improvement.

After the divorce, she was no longer willing to be a weak person in the marriage, and began to earn her own money, spend her own salary, and enjoy her own life like a good girlfriend Tang Jing.

She first worked as a clerk in a small company, then came into contact with ceramics by chance, and then, because of her artistic talent, was invited to join a studio.

The betrayal of her ex-husband, for her at that time, was a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and looking at her later, I have to say that the change in marriage made her gain much more than what she lost.

In the place of misfortune and blessing, those past wounds, on her body, blossomed into blooming flowers. The storm of marriage has extinguished Luo Zijun's fantasies about feelings, and also created a sober and rational heart for her.

She has a successful career, emotionally, there is also a new improvement, this time, she is looking for no longer a man who promises to support herself, but another half who can bear responsibility and support the future.

In her ex-husband, she fell into a big pit, then, here in The New Joy, she will not take another risk. Finally, she is no longer willing to be a housewife, but to be a career woman.

At the same time, the ex-husband who moved to live with a third party is also about to start another marriage of his own, and before making a formal decision, he also came to test Luo Zijun's attitude.

Without him, I just want to see if there is a possibility of reunion with each other. After all, today is different from the past, Luo Zijun's charm is enough to make countless men of the same age fall in love, of course, including this ex-husband.

Luo Zijun naturally did not look back, and she was very calm in the face of her ex-husband's repentance. Looking back on the divorce for more than a year, her biggest gain is to win this battle in her feelings, and it is the other party who betrays the marriage, but it is Luo Zijun herself who is finally reborn.

She didn't want to climb over to him again, and she didn't have to go back to him, but her life was already getting better and better anyway.