Speaking is a very simple thing, but being able to speak is a test of emotional intelligence and ability. The most obvious feature of a person with low emotional intelligence is that when communicating with others, he does not feel the feelings of others and talks to himself, no matter what others think. In some special occasions, people with low emotional intelligence will always "add blockage" to others and annoy people.
Yang Yang is a parent of the kindergarten class, and his father is a famous "thorn head" in the parent group. The teacher posted some photos of the children's activities in the parent group, and he was always able to pick out many faults.
For example, "In this photo, how to only take half of the child's body, the teacher your photographic skills should be improved!" When the children had eaten, the teacher would send a picture, and he would say, "This meal is another meal that my son doesn't like to eat." ”
The teacher organized the children to read ancient poems, and he said: "We have taught these things at home, and my son is the best!" "Even if you eat a good meal at home and buy a brand-name dress, you have to show off to the teacher."
Children's education requires parents and children to work together, cooperate and help each other, and it is best for children. However, some parents with too low emotional intelligence, their self-righteous behavior, make the teacher very disgusted, leave a bad impression on the teacher, make other parents also disgusted, and set a bad example for the child.
Parents of these kinds of low emotional intelligence behavior, see if there is any around you.
Pick faults with schools and teachers, and don't save face for teachers.
There is a kind of parent is a "bar" type of person, for some things in the school, he can always find a variety of spit "groove points", say it in public, and give the teacher a problem. Sometimes, in front of the child, I don't save face for the teacher, which makes the teacher embarrassed.
This type of parent, generally more irritable, does not know how to control their own language and behavior, and does not consider the feelings of others. People's interactions rely on mutual respect, and the arrogant attitude of parents will also affect the relationship between teachers and children, which is not conducive to the harmonious interpersonal relationship of children.
Show off wealth, show off children, so that teachers and parents are disgusted.
Everyone has their own living conditions, poor, rich, and economic conditions are different. Some parents like to show off, as if they are superior.
Their own children are also stronger than other people's children everywhere, often showing off their children's achievements and talents, hoping to get recognition and praise from others. However, often the more such behavior is not respected by others, it will also be disgusting.
Selfish, parents who think only for themselves.
Children are unique at home, but discipline and rules are observed at school. Some parents give the teacher the feeling that you are the one who brings him this child full-time, and everything is only for your own child.
For example, in a row of seats, obviously the child is tall, he is not willing to sit in the back. Others participate in group activities, are unwilling to contribute money, and only want to take advantage. On the surface, it is not a loss, but the habit of selfishness and greed will make everyone hate you, including the teacher, which is the biggest loss.
As parents of children, our words and deeds actually have the greatest impact on children. If your child also learns this way of dealing with the world, he will become an undesirable person in the future, and his happiness and career development will be affected.
The correct communication between parents and teachers is conducive to efficient communication and problem solving, and can also better cultivate children's emotional intelligence and wisdom, and teachers should pay attention to these matters.
Communicating with teachers and respecting each other is the foundation.
There is a saying that the most inappropriate thing we do in front of a child is to slander his teacher. When parents denigrate teachers, children's learning and growth will also be affected.
Therefore, even if there is something wrong with the teacher's work, as long as it is not a matter of principle, parents respect each other when communicating with the teacher is the most fundamental requirement.
You respect the teacher, you will also get the respect of the teacher, communication can effectively solve the problem, the child's education can also play a good effect.
Problems that can be solved privately, do not solve them in public.
Parents and teachers communicate, their children's affairs, it is best to chat privately with the teacher, or face to face with the teacher, so that the efficiency of solving the problem privately is higher, and it will not occupy public resources to affect everyone.
Communicate with the teacher and pay attention to the time.
Communication between teachers and parents can be conducive to educating children well, but parents and teachers should also pay attention to the concept of time. In addition to working hours, teachers also need to have life chores to deal with, but also to accompany children and families, but also to rest appropriately. Therefore, we should not take too much time of the teacher's break to communicate with the teacher, which is also something that the teacher does not like very much.
The child's teacher and parents' mood is the same, he also hopes that the child can get better and better, and family education and school education form a synergy, which is the best education.