Xiaolong Spring Festival took his girlfriend Xiaojie home to meet his parents for the New Year, which was originally a good thing to add people to import, but Xiaolong said that he must break up with his girlfriend immediately, and if he did not break up, Xiaojie would make his family ruined. All this began with a sentence from Xiao Jie at the time of Chinese New Year's Eve meal.
Xiao Jie arrived at Xiao Long's house not long ago, by chance, she found xiaolong brother-in-law on the street with a beautiful beautiful woman to go to the hotel, the big mouth of Xiao Jie in the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, in front of everyone in the family, regardless of the disregard said out, sister and brother-in-law can not step down, the first month went to divorce.
Xiaolong said that the marriage of her sister and brother-in-law has long been in trouble, but taking care of the elderly and children, the two maintain a superficial harmony, and Xiao Jie ruthlessly exposes all this, accelerating the disintegration of the marriage between the two.
Grandma Xiaolong lives in Xiaolong's house and has a good relationship with Xiaolong's mother. Xiao Jie heard that her aunt was looking for her grandmother to borrow money to buy a house, she thought that the grandmother took the pension money given by her sons to help her daughter buy a house, and she thought that she was just, and she told Xiaolong's mother in indignation, so that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a gap and had a big fight.
Not only that, Xiao Jie also likes to spread the privacy of her friends, so that Xiaolong has lost several friends. She learned that Xiaolong's roommate had hemorrhoids, so she told the other classmates with a big mouth to let them take care of their roommate and not to pull him to eat spicy dishes, which embarrassed the roommate and cut off friendship with Xiaolong in public.
@ Dajie love feelings
Whether you can find a suitable partner and relate to the happiness of a person in the second half of your life, you must not take it lightly and make things up.
Girls behave like this, saying that they are small is disregarding the privacy of others, doing bad things with good intentions, saying that they are disrespectful to others and schadenfreude when they are old.
Everyone has their own privacy, they have pains that they don't want others to know, and exposing other people's secrets without their permission is itself a moral issue.
There are only three things in the world, your own business, other people's business, and God's business. Managing one's own affairs and not interfering in other people's affairs is respect for others, and it is also a person's moral bottom line.
If you are really good for your friends, silently pay attention, privately persuade, and quietly send warmth is the right way.
In fact, such a person, in the final analysis, still can not do "heart to heart", empathetic thinking, if replaced by yourself, are you willing to make it public?
Pay attention to considering the feelings of others which is the greatest emotional intelligence. #情感点评大赏 #
