Author/Childlike Leaf
Text/Original
The book says:
Your 20-year-old choice will be written on your 40-year-old's face and in every sentence you blurt out. What kind of life attitude and life course you choose will determine your future temperament and appearance, and will determine what kind of person you are in your life.
I also believe that anyone who has confidence has light in their hearts and a smile on their faces.
Since I started really joining the headlines and learning to operate a few years ago, although in less than two months, I have changed my previous thinking, about life, about ideals, about confidence.
In the past, I didn't like to read, I rarely went to the library during college, and I didn't see books when I graduated.
Two months ago, because of unemployment, because of children, I had to re-examine my career planning, from a full head of family children still have to work, to later embark on the road of self-media, I found a neutral point.
Life should not only have length, but should increase width and dimension.
Not wanting to be just a housewife, not wanting to be just a mechanical office worker, I spent two months finding my future direction: reading, saving money and exercising.
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Reading is a kind of wisdom
I like this passage of Dong Qing:
"I always believe that all the books I have read will not be read in vain, it will always help me perform better on some occasion in the future, reading can give people strength, it can give people happiness." 」
I now read a book for an hour a day, and even if I don't read it every day, I am always uneasy, which was completely absent before.
I not only read books, but also copy books and write them on my own notebooks, if I read an electronic version of a book, I will record beautiful sentences on my mobile phone memo.
There is a particularly good sentence in "Life Inspiration":
The most worthwhile thing in this world is investing your time and energy in investing in yourself.
Reading can enrich my spiritual world, reading is wisdom and connotation.
Reading "Calm down, everything will get better", I learned to relax myself and replace anxiety with meditation;
Reading "Breaking Away", I gave up some meaningless people and things, and understood the wisdom of "addition and subtraction" in life;
Reading "There is no road in vain in life, every step counts", I know that the wealth that cannot be robbed by people is knowledge.
All this, seen in my eyes and imprinted in my heart, has also become a kind of confidence, a vision and an ability of mine.
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Saving money is a kind of confidence
When I returned home during the Spring Festival this year, I suddenly understood a very important thing: make money fiercely and save money carefully!
My sister divorced with a child, always think that she is not easy, want to take more care of her in life, but during the Spring Festival, overheard my father talking to her about lifelong events, my sister's words made me feel shocked.
She said, I don't want to find someone who can only farm or live in a partnership because I am older, it is better for me to raise a forest alone (my niece), I have savings.
My sister is a very frugal person, she makes money very hard, and saves money very carefully.
And she can say such a capable word because she has confidence and self-confidence.
As the saying goes: money is not omnipotent, but without money it is impossible.
If you have money in your pocket and a balance in your bank card, it is not nonsense to be able to maintain an elegant posture in the face of things that need money to solve, but reality.
At the beginning of the new year of 2022, this year I said to myself: make money fiercely, save money carefully, do not buy unnecessary things, and do not spend unnecessary consumption.
This is not a door-knocking, but a way to save money.
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Exercise is a healthy body
Gradually, I fell in love with sports, not only to maintain body shape, but also to strengthen my body.
Now the pressure of life is too great, often see a lot of young people because of work, stay up late and fall down, do not feel the pain in their hearts.
Last year's tens of millions of Internet celebrities ate and broadcast "Bubble Bobble", "ate" for work for a long time, ignored the most fundamental health, and the high-intensity work made fans love him, and he died suddenly at the age of 29.
So at any time of anything, health is the first priority.
To have health is to have your own confidence and pride.
The health brought about by exercise is the confidence of not having to serve future generations in the old age, and the morale of not having to be blinded.
The famous French philosopher Voltaire put forward that "life lies in movement" has been recognized as an important proposition for the philosophy of sports and the concept of life.
I will take my daughter to exercise for half an hour every night, and I don't want to often have "back pain" when I am young and strong, and I don't want to "let others be slaughtered" when I am old and weak.
Exercising is just as important as making money, especially my 30s, who already has two moms.
People with top self-discipline understand the benefits of exercise. Exercise is the health of the body, the strength of the length of life.
Come on, people who strive to improve the length, breadth, and dimension of life
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