Today, when I went to the funeral of a 70-year-old colleague and saw his 15-year-old son kneeling there crying, I couldn't help but think: This is the sin of my parents. When my colleague was 55, 4

Today, when I went to the funeral of a 70-year-old colleague and saw his 15-year-old son kneeling there crying, I couldn't help but think: This is the sin of my parents. When my colleague was 55 years old, his 48-year-old wife suddenly became pregnant with her second child, and his daughter was in college, so everyone said that he did not want a second child, the burden was too heavy. But he insisted on not listening: "I have always regretted not having a son, and now that he has come, this is a gift from Heaven, which just fulfills my dream." They insisted on leaving the second child, and during childbirth, they insisted on giving birth out of superstition, and as a result, because their wives were elderly mothers, they almost lost half their lives, and finally gave birth to a son. Originally, his wife was still two years away from retiring, but because of the arrival of this child, she had to give up her job and take the child at home. Originally, they were ordinary dual-career families, which had reduced their income by half and increased a large amount of expenditure, so it can be said that their lives were immediately stretched. Seeing the family's financial situation, the daughter gave up the graduate school, joined the work early, and stayed in the field. When my colleague retired, his son was only five years old, and he had to work as a security guard to increase his income. When the child was a teenager, he and his wife had physical problems, and now the only child is like a baby, but his son still has to take on some housework when he comes back from school. Two years ago, his wife died, and he and his younger son depended on each other and took care of each other, and the younger son learned to cook, wash, clean up and do housework at a young age. Whenever he was hospitalized, it was also the care of the younger son before and after the siege, due to the drag of the family, this young man did not continue to go to school after graduating from junior high school, but went to the technical school. Now, colleagues are going west again, I really don't know how this 15-year-old child can live independently? Even if this child goes to his sister, he is not living under the roof of others, not only bringing a burden to his sister and brother-in-law, but also his own ideological burden will be heavier!