Before her friends got married, she thought that the other party would spoil herself very much, spoil herself like a princess, and after she really got married, the other party often just looked down on her.
When married to a person, the self after marriage is always not valued, and a person will feel embarrassed, which is natural. At the same time, you may also want to know why the other person is like this, and what exactly is needed to change this situation.
Choosing to get married, no one is to find some unhappiness for themselves and make themselves more difficult, but hope to get a love, a heartache, a thoughtful, than when alone, can live a better life.
Before getting married, there are always people who will seem particularly anxious, completely disregarding what kind of person the other party is, and rush into marriage. And when we are so sloppy, hoping that our luck is good enough, the other party just has a good character, a sense of responsibility, and know how to cherish feelings, some times, we may not really be able to win.
Marriage, no matter when, the choice is crucial, want to live more comfortably after marriage, before entering the marriage, for their future other half, we must be cautious and choose well.
Some things, really do not need to really reach that step, we can see clearly, when getting along with each other, just to see what kind of person the other party is, for the future, it is often possible to have a prejudgment.
And the other half we are looking for, of course, can not be obviously unable to give their own future, but if a more mature mind, more motivated, really love us, know how to respect us, and be very good to us of the opposite sex.
Living with such a person, he will not do too much out of the ordinary, even if we are more ordinary, he will still care about us and treat us very kindly.
Choosing the right person, many times, our married life is often half successful.
Feelings are a matter of two people, just one person's efforts, it is useless, only if each other are attentive, life will be better.
At the same time, we should not become too dependent on each other because they love us at this moment, no matter what, we must always make ourselves independent enough, whether it is material or spiritual, they are equally independent.
When the freshness has passed, we want to let the other party continue to love ourselves, on the one hand, it is that the other party is indeed a good person, on the other hand, we also want to have some things that are more attractive to each other and make the other party dare not despise.
The independent material basis will make the other party understand that we are selective, which will make the other party not dare to easily look down on us, the spirit of independence, that will always be our charm, will always make the other party always fascinated.
Know how to choose, find a really reliable person, and can always be very self-sufficient, leaving each other can also live very well, generally speaking, our status in the family, will not be low, will only have a lot of right to speak.
Between people, even if they are two people living together, more or less, each other will also decide their attitude and how they treat each other according to their position in their hearts and the actual appearance of the other party.
The more dependent we are, the more we attach everything to the other person, the easier it will be for us to be manipulated.