For love, most women are more eager.
Even if you are independent, you will hope that there is someone who can give yourself a warmth.
It is also out of the desire for love, at a certain age, women often want to talk about a relationship, and then, after each other's feelings are stable, they will enter into marriage with each other.
Speaking of which, since you have such an idea, you should practice it, in fact, many women will think so, but they may not really have such behavior, and do something for this.
Because in their hearts, they will long for love, but at the same time, they will also be a little afraid of marriage.
When you are single, you will be a little afraid of getting married, even if one day a person comes to your side, the other party seems to be good to himself, on the eve of marriage, he will still feel particularly afraid.
For such a phenomenon, not only the woman herself, many onlookers probably will not understand what is the reason for this, but will only feel that this is just a very normal thing, and women will be afraid, in fact, there is a reason.
I know myself very well and worry about not handling my feelings well.
No matter how confident a woman looks, in the depths of her heart, more or less, there will be some inconfidence.
In the eyes of others, even if she is very good, she also knows that she actually has many shortcomings, and once she is moved, she will become unable to let go of herself, and she will always be unable to spare others.
And to live with a person, to be with each other, there will always be a lot of stumbling, there will be a lot of problems to deal with, for all this, she really does not have much confidence.
She had little confidence in the relationship between the two people, and neither did she have anything to do with the two families.
When she thinks of marrying a person, she needs to face a lot of people and needs to face a lot of people in the future, in her heart, she will feel very troublesome, afraid of being with each other, she will often be sad because of some things, and the other party will always be very unhappy.
She doesn't want one day, she will always become hysterical because of a small thing, and she doesn't want to be in a relationship, she will never be so free, she will always be very different from herself.
Loving someone, it can be easy, living a life, but that is particularly difficult.
How to love and get along with a person in harmony, she is not clear in her heart, and she also feels that she can't do it at all, and she can't do it well.
Afraid that men will not be good to themselves, it will be very bad after marriage.
When single, most women can often be very rational, but once in love with a person, many women will become very emotional, will be very concerned about men's every move, and will always be affected by men.
Anyway, it will regard love as very important, and it will also regard the men around it as particularly important.
I hope that the other party will be very good to himself, make himself really feel happy, and live a better life.
However, on the one hand, it is the desire for a happy life after marriage, on the other hand, women have already seen too much love, two people are very strong at the beginning, men are very attentive, but later it is just getting weaker and weaker, and less and less serious about women.
If men are not good to themselves, then this relationship, of course, will only be difficult to maintain, even if it is barely maintained, it will only look at each other, consume each other, and there will be no happiness at all.
In such a situation, a woman will also feel very afraid, and she does not want to live like this.
Therefore, in order not to let herself really go to this step, before entering marriage, she will first dissuade herself in various ways.
Simply let yourself not fall in love, don't have hopes for anyone, don't rely on anyone, just live alone. When you are alone, although you will be a little lonely, you will not experience too much sweetness, but at least you will not fall into the abyss.
After marriage need to bear a lot, fear of the unknown.
People are actually like this, accustomed to a way of life, they will be less willing to make changes.
In life, when a woman is accustomed to the state of being single, does not have to bear so much, and can live very freely, then marrying a person, from one person to two people, entering a strange family, and having children in the future, she will of course be afraid.
I will worry about that way of life, I will not be able to adapt to it, I will be afraid that after marriage, I will not be able to do whatever I want, I can't be lazy, and I need to always cook well at home and take on housework.
In addition, she will also be very afraid of having children, worried that there is no one to take with her when she has children, and she needs to be fully responsible, and she is also worried that after having children, her life will become a mess, and there is no way to take care of her career.
She will also worry that there is no way to give her children a good growth environment from an early age, but to make children suffer.
All of it, but anyone who doesn't give her enough love to make her feel worthy, she will want to back down.
At the moment, the woman has become more and more independent, she has long wanted her life, just live like a free nanny, just as a reproductive tool, just silently dedicate everything to herself.
For the future, when she doesn't feel the vitality and sees only hopelessness, then she really doesn't want to change too much.
Women are afraid of marriage and childbearing, which is understandable.
There is and only this life, everyone will worry about the risk, everyone will be afraid of the entrusted non-people.
However, even if you will be afraid, it is best not to draw the ground as a prison, lock your heart, and really do not touch love, nor are you willing to accept anyone close.
Still have to love someone well, or be brave, and when you meet a good person, just be brave and get married.
It is true that many people are not worth it, but there are always people who are worth your desperate bet.
A good man, a good love, that not only will not make life worse, but will only make everything better and better.
There will be such a person, you have to believe, you have to look for it, you have to give yourself a little more courage, to believe in him, to form a family with him, to run to your future together.
Text/Tan Meng
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