Brushing up on such a pair of sisters-in-law on the Internet made me laugh so hard that my stomach hurt.
The sister-in-law joked solemnly, leaving her brother speechless, embarrassing her mother, and making her sister-in-law happy.
Once the sister-in-law quarreled with her mother-in-law because of trivial matters, and afterwards she was very worried, and the sister-in-law, who usually had a good relationship with her, may be angry.
Sure enough, the sister-in-law came and looked at her with a serious face: "I just took 300 yuan from my mother's bag, go, go out to eat." ”
My sister-in-law was stunned: "Aren't you mad at me?" I quarreled with your mom like that. ”
The sister-in-law smiled: "Oh, my girlfriend and her mother-in-law quarrel, about me, and I will marry sooner or later, the only person who can accompany my mother in the future is you, my mother is not far-sighted, this is not, I take her 300 yuan, it is a reminder to her, after she argues with you again, I still take it, until she changes her bad temper." ”
If you also have such a sister-in-law, it is difficult to have a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradiction in the family.
This little sister-in-law Sanguanzheng, her sister-in-law is 35 years old, is far married, just came to the in-laws' family some discomfort, homesickness, especially some dialects can not understand, the mother-in-law sometimes does not pay attention to speaking, let her feel that she is a foreigner, with the idea of returning to her mother's home.
The sister-in-law enlightened her: "What foreign surname is not a foreign surname, you and my mother, are married daughters-in-law, she has 2 children, you also have 2 children, and you also have one more sister-in-law, on the number of people, you have the upper hand, my mother is 20 years earlier than you, but also the first time to be a mother-in-law, some words do not know how to say, you don't want to be the same as her." ”
With a word, the sister-in-law broke into a smile and took the sister-in-law's hand and went home.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts are common in life.
From ancient times to the present, scholars in various fields have analyzed the problems very thoroughly from all angles, but they have no solutions.
And this little sister-in-law did not use any profound knowledge, but only used empathetic thinking, and quietly resolved the contradiction.
Neither hurting the mother, but also making the sister-in-law feel extremely comfortable, such emotional intelligence, one word: high!
From an emotional point of view, everyone longs for family harmony, and no one wants to have a conflict with their mother-in-law.
However, because the two generations have different thinking and different growth environments, there will naturally be many contradictions colliding.
Let me give you an example.
The daughter-in-law was eating, and the family's pet dog was circling around, and the daughter-in-law threw the beef on the chopsticks to the dog to eat.
The mother-in-law saw this and said angrily:
"How do you give everything to the dog to eat, how expensive is this beef, I myself am not willing to eat, I am sorry that you are tired at work, I made a special way to eat for you, you are good, go feed the dogs, the dogs are fed, the cornmeal buns are not eaten, you have so much income a month, the family still has such a big dog, how can you live?"
The daughter-in-law is depressed, what is wrong with giving the dog a piece of meat, no matter who eats it, anyway, the meat is for us to eat, is it necessary to be on the line like this?
When I encounter such a thing, I don't know how you feel, but I see the helplessness of my mother-in-law.
This mother-in-law was thrifty and thrifty, and she gave her children all her motherly love, and it was with her support that her son was able to receive higher education and make a home in the city.
She left her hometown to help her son and daughter-in-law with her children, and to clean up the family in an orderly manner, and she didn't have anything to suffer herself, she just wanted her son's family to live well.
The mother-in-law is not stingy, she does not feel pain at all about buying beef for her family, even if she is reluctant to eat it, she must also make her son and daughter-in-law nutritionally balanced.
But what she can't understand is that her daughter-in-law gave beef to the dog to eat, and perhaps in the eyes of pet lovers, there is more dog food than beef, and it is nothing to eat a piece of beef.
This is the collision of values, there is no right and wrong, only the difference in thinking concepts.
The mother-in-law's starting point is correct, and the daughter-in-law's behavior is not wrong, but in the same time and space, both of them will have awkwardness in their hearts and cannot accept each other's thoughts.
At this time, the smart husband will stand up and balance the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the best way is not to be reasonable, but to open up the distance between each other, so that both have a chance to calm down.
When the emotions calm down, this matter is over, everyone is an adult, knows how to control their words, each step back, naturally the sea and the sky.
Just like this little sister-in-law, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were angry, so she stood on the side of her sister-in-law and said to her, "Sister-in-law, do you want to leave?" You elope with you. ”
My sister-in-law was puzzled: "I am angry with your mother, why don't you stand on your mother's side?" ”
The sister-in-law said, "Alas, after all, you are the only one, if I don't help you now, when you have a good relationship, am I not the one who was scolded?" My mom and I have been together for more than 20 years, and now I just want to get along with you more, who made us so close. ”
To tell the truth, I was touched, where there is any mother-in-law contradiction, are caused by inconsistencies in ideas, just like the daughter-in-law's sigh: "The key to a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to have a little sister-in-law with a slippery tone." ”
The sister-in-law's oily and slippery tone is a kind of wisdom that can speak into the heart of the sister-in-law, because her starting point is love.
The two sisters-in-law have a good relationship, which makes the brother jealous.
One night, my brother and sister-in-law were in the room, and my sister-in-law knocked on the door and came in: "Brother, can you come out?" ”
The brother looked at his daughter-in-law and said solemnly, "Your sister-in-law is not an outsider, and if you have anything to say, you will say it to your sister-in-law." ”
Who knows, the little sister-in-law put on a grimace and said, "I have something to say to my sister-in-law, it is not convenient for you to listen." ”
My brother protested, "Hey, who in this family is a foreigner, how do I feel that you are sisters?" ”
The sister-in-law was also not polite: "If it weren't for my mother's face, I would really like to call you a brother-in-law, the only place where you are stronger than my sister-in-law is that you have a good eye, you have found such a beautiful daughter-in-law, and then look at my sister-in-law, what kind of things you are looking for." ”
The sister-in-law laughed and covered her stomach, the brother was angry to chase the sister, the sister turned a corner and went into the sister-in-law's room, the two said that there was laughter and played games, so that the brother also felt helpless.
It seems that the brother always suffers losses, and the mouth can not say that the sister is not enough.
In my opinion, he humbles his sister, and the sister protects the sister-in-law, and every time the sister has the upper hand, the sister-in-law will laugh, why is this not his act of pampering his wife?
Men are the balance point of a family harmony.
Happy families are all similar, and you see those well-connected families in life have a husband who is willing to show weakness.
He seems to suffer losses everywhere, and he is "bullied" by his daughter-in-law to hold his mouth, in fact, he is not too happy in his heart, his wife is in a good mood, of course, he will also have a good mood to communicate with his family.
Even if there are some small contradictions, people in a good mood do not account, haha a smile can be resolved.
Therefore, if you want to have a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men should not always think of changing one person and catering to another person, but find the right way, and the family has a sister to "use" well, so that the relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law is harmonious, and sometimes it can also skillfully resolve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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