Li Ping in "Xiao Min's Family" was taken to the hospital by her daughter Chen Jiajiaqi for emergency treatment, and her ex-husband Chen Zhuo heard the news.
The man rushed to the hospital and greeted his girlfriend Liu Xiaomin, asking, chatting, and anxious about Li Ping's situation.
Liu Xiaomin calmly replied: People are in the ward, but the child is gone
Two lovers, who should be the peak of their feelings, have no heart or mood to take care of each other, after all, "different positions".
At that moment, Chen Zhuo, whose identity was Jiajia's father and Li Ping's ex-husband, seemed that the so-called lover relationship seemed insignificant or even embarrassing.
The eyes of a pair of lovers are related to Li Ping, and have nothing to do with affection
Li Ping miscarried, and her husband rushed over to ask Jia Jiaxing about the guilt, after all, as he said, he was no worse than his father. Looking at this scene, many remarried families are very touched.
Not every couple can go to the whitehead as they wish. There will always be people who have been in love who, for various reasons, have reneged on their original promises and vows, and the two have since walked in the same direction.
Why do people get divorced?
The key is that the other person can't meet their own needs for happiness, and they have lost confidence in the future, so they want to choose again.
Why do people remarry?
Divorce is definitely not a happy thing, but the days always have to go on, some people in order to pursue their higher life, like Li Ping in "Xiao Min's Family", of course, there are women like Xiao Min, divorce is not a relief, remarriage is more to let yourself have a real like-minded person who can accompany, support each other, not so lonely on the line.
Remarriage can be said to be mostly pragmatic, no longer like the beginning of love between men and women, only talk about feelings and love, but the unfortunate key to remarriage lies in whether you clearly know your own needs and each other's needs.
Failure to find the reason for the failure of marriage itself is doomed to repeat the same mistakes
Especially in the process of remarriage, if a woman has too much need for love, or cannot find experience in failure, it is doomed to be a tragic repetition.
The typical representative is Liu Xiaomin's sister's flash marriage and divorce, not only did not get lessons and growth in the last failed marriage, but the mistakes made became more and more serious each time.
Therefore, remarriage is not happy, really not because people are not beautiful enough, do not earn enough, but can never find their own shortcomings and deficiencies, in the same ditch frequent falls.
After remarriage, can your financial situation guarantee your life and your children's life?
The most enviable thing in the whole drama is Chen Jiajia, many netizens are leaving messages asking, "Is Li Ping still missing a daughter?"
She is rich in money, and she will always be the best and most expensive limited edition for her children, so that although her daughter grew up in an incomplete family, she never lived a rich life that ordinary children did not dare to expect.
Li Ping loudly reprimanded her ex-husband, something rushed to her, "I am divorced, I owe her"
Her confidence is not because she is born with a tempered man who can't afford to provoke, but every penny she spends for her daughter is earned by her own personal participation.
Therefore, many remarriages are not happy, not because they do not know how to manage their lives, but because they do not have the ability to make up for it, or to take care of people they feel indebted to.
It is difficult to regard children who are not related to themselves as their own, only if they have the ability to provide for themselves, it is possible to maintain the superficial harmony and stability of the family, but most of them are difficult to do in real life, after all, "Li Ping" is the expectation of more people's hearts, but it is difficult to become a reality.
Originally, the problem of marriage can not be separated, there will be cars, tickets and children, at this moment when both parties have their own flesh and bones, they will involuntarily stand on the opposite side to confront. When consuming for their own children becomes a battle between the two, after all, it will accumulate countless emotions and dissatisfaction. Over time, it is bound to completely collapse at a certain tipping point, or even scatter in one shot or two.
Just because Li Ping herself has her own strength and financial resources, she can be justified in her daughter who is about to go abroad, what she wants to eat, what to buy, and what to use to swipe her own subsidiary card, don't wronged yourself.
Therefore, remarriage, in a certain way, the lack of economic prosperity and independence is also the reason why it is difficult to reconcile their remarriage relationship.
After remarrying, do you still want to have a common child?
Most of the remarried families already have their own children, even if the custody belongs to the ex-wife (husband), whether the two will have their own children after remarriage is probably a problem that has to be considered.
Li Ping, who is in her 40s, has been ovulating for 3 years, and the child she is not easy to conceive, is accidentally miscarried by her daughter Chen Jiajia, remarries a couple, and raises a child again, facing the low conception of advanced maternal age, as well as various hidden dangers with high risks in the fertility process, but also has relative economic pressure.
It is not difficult to get married again, it is difficult to be difficult in these complicated relationships, and it is even more difficult to live the life of two people purely.
Therefore, if you do not understand these things before deciding to remarry, and there is no exact planning arrangement, it is difficult to get happiness in the new marriage relationship, or even worse.
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Text/Relief Emotional Station
(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.