Some people can not be offended, and it is only valuable to make your old age valuable, otherwise it will depreciate in the old age, and even the old age will be worthless.
First, do not offend your own children, the older you get, the more dependent you are on your children, so it is best to live in harmony with your children, and the progress of relations with your children would rather be fruitless than have been. If there is a mistake and the previous achievements of cultivating decades of feelings are abandoned, the future pension will be full of uncertainty.
Having children in old age is absolutely impossible, having children is the first step, followed by raising children well, and it is best to have a good relationship with children. Even if the raising of children cannot prevent the elderly 100%, the better the relationship with the children in their later years, the more they can increase the probability of raising children and preventing the elderly. In addition, we must prepare more and more pension money, do not put all the hopes of the pension on the children, if you have a wife and an old nest on the basis of pension money, it is better, the children know the best gratitude, in case of ungratefulness it still does not matter. The reason why there will be great disappointments in old age is because of great hopes for children, and the time when things backfire is an unprecedented gap.
Second, do not offend your neighbors, if you do not handle the relationship well, you will feel embarrassed every time you meet. The relationship between neighbors is a double-edged sword, and if you use it well, you can achieve more important than distant relatives, and if you use it badly, you will seriously damage your hard-won life.
Imagine this: when you are old enough to need the care of others, your children are not around, and your wife has already left before you, and the relationship with your neighbors is good to achieve mutual care. Whether it is a daily life that requires a neighbor to take a handle or borrow some daily necessities from a neighbor, it is far more convenient than most friends and family.
Third, do not offend your wife, until the old age will not realize: marriage is from two people to multiple people, since entering the stage of children have become independent family is the period of the old two families depending on each other. When you are old, the people who can accompany you, the people who can accompany you for the longest time, who else but your wife?
The few couples stumble in the run-in with the old partner, and the couple who are not suitable for becoming the old partner fall apart in the run-in process, so the old partner who can become each other must be done and cherished. If you offend your wife with anger, the pain will be borne by yourself, and the derived happiness will belong to the schadenfreude crowd. Offending your wife is the beginning of pain, and the continuous pain will make you miserable.
Conclusion: The person who can not be offended the most is actually himself, who cherishes himself and maintains himself, does not have problems himself, and can calmly deal with even if there are big problems in the outside world.
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