Men sometimes make a scene, but women often mistake this work and rest for sincere love.
Men talk about love with their mouths, and women talk about love with their ears, so men are used to sweet words, and women are used to listening to sweet words.
Chen Xiaochun said:
"Once I get married, I will definitely not divorce, no matter what happens, I will find a way to solve it, so that the marriage can last, even if the other party has an affair, I will only put things on the table to think about solving, rather than impulsively divorcing." 」
But after getting married, this phenomenon will be exposed, many people are like Chen Xiaochun, thinking of not going to divorce after marriage, but many people will backfire.
Marriage is never a person fighting alone, but two people together, you want to divorce this person before getting married, but after getting married, you don't divorce each other, maybe the other party will fight with you, the other party may pay all the costs in order to divorce you.
A lot of things aren't that simple, and marriages aren't that easy to maintain.
Therefore, men must tell the truth in marriage, do not tell lies, lie words can not be said, the truth can not be said more, because more words will be lost, in the marriage also need to have more eyes.
Women sometimes do not be too harsh, it is important to be light, and it can be carried clearly. As long as men are not excessive, this day can still go on.
However, a man who says he loves you at a wedding, but does not do the following three things, is actually a scene.
01.
Spend something for you
If a man is not willing to spend something for this woman, he will not give gifts to women during the holiday, and when he sees a woman buying something on double 11 or double 12, the man will not let him buy it, indicating that there is no woman in this man's heart.
Some men always think that women like to chop hands, in fact, women who buy things in double 11 and double 12 often know how to run a family, except for those who buy randomly without going through the brain, in fact, many people are to save money.
So if in such a day, men don't want you to buy things, it means that this man is really very picky, of course, you can't spend money and buy some useless things.
Zhang Ailing said:
"If marriage is for subsistence, then marriage is long-term prostitution."
Some marriages are meant to make ends meet, so such marriages are dispensable.
Some men are also with this woman to maintain the current life, maybe this man will also spend women's money, but also let women buy things for themselves, then, such a marriage is actually not necessary, because men and women after being together have always suffered from women, and women may also have to support their families.
Therefore, women must know that a man who loves you, even if he does not have too much money, he will not treat you badly, because in the mind of a man, you will always be a little princess.
02.
Care about your body
If a man does not care about a woman's body, it means that this man does not love this woman enough, the body is the capital of the revolution, everyone regards their own body as very important, you ask the man, men must also regard their own body as very important.
So if men don't pay attention to your body, it means that you don't pay attention to the fact that you are in your heart.
Qian Zhongshu said:
"Marriage is a walled city, and people outside the city want to go in, and people in the city want to come out."
When there are some conditions in their own bodies, but the other party does not understand themselves, marriage becomes a besieged city, when the heart wants to walk in, at this moment, and the heart wants to go out, all the hopes become discouraged, at this moment it is embarrassing.
Some men tell you how much they love you, but when you give birth, they don't want to give you painless, think that this can save money, let you risk your life, but also let you go to the vaginal birth, will not let you go to the caesarean section, such a man is really worrying, a woman with such a man will also make many men worry about this woman.
So don't listen to what this man is saying, but look at how much the man has given to your body and what he has done for you.
There are also some men who, in order to make themselves happy, do not do safety measures when they have some relationships with women, which will also bring some risks and pain to women's bodies.
If a man is more selfish in this regard, it is not worth the woman to pay, no matter how sweet the man's mouth is, how crazy it is, it is useless.
03.
Change bad habits for you
After marriage, if the man's mouth is very good, but it will not change some bad habits for you, it means that the man's love for you is not sincere.
I remember having a boyfriend in college, and that boyfriend grew 140 pounds, and then he grew to 170 pounds when he got home.
So at that time I let this boyfriend lose weight, the boyfriend listened to my words, this boyfriend lost in two months, there are more than 40 pounds, so this is a kind of love, a person who loves you very much, willing to change bad habits for you, not a casual promise on the mouth, but a promise in action.
Gorky said:
"Marriage is the spiritual union of two people, and the purpose is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world together."
Two people together to overcome some difficulties in life, two people must change some of the bad problems in life, as long as you get rid of some bad habits, your life will get better and better.
Those men who change bad habits for you seem to be for the sake of men themselves, in fact, when men change these problems, they will definitely think of women taking women's words as a thing, so this man is more willing to change.
Some women, when breaking up with men, always say to boys:
Dogs can't change eating, what you promised me, never cashed in.
When a woman says such a thing to a man, it means that the woman has been disheartened, but she can't cover the fire, and no matter how sweet the language is, it will one day be pierced, and when your language is punctured, the woman will feel that you are a trickster, that is, cheating yourself, and is a liar.
Qiong Yao said:
"A failed marriage is a tragedy; ending a tragedy is the beginning of a comedy."
Before getting married, you must polish your eyes, find a man who will be good to you for a lifetime, and never use your ears to fall in love. After getting married, if something happens, you can put up with it, and many things can turn a blind eye.
But no matter how you are, there is a bottom line, if this marriage is a bottomless pit for you, hollowing out your spirit and body, then at this time, you should also end this tragedy and start the next beautiful love.
Sometimes we have to know how to remedy, but sometimes we have to know how to stop loss in time.