On December 16, Sheng Hailin, a lost mother in Anhui Province, once again attracted public attention. Eleven years ago, sheng Hailin, then 60 years old, gave birth to twins through test tube technology.
Today, Sheng Hailin's husband is paralyzed by a stroke, and her two twin daughters are also in need of care, and the burden of the family is on Sheng Hailin. She said that she is now seeking happiness in her troubles and pains, because of her age, she and her husband are doomed not to go too far with their two daughters, so she must teach her daughters to be confident and self-reliant.
In 1950, Sheng Hailin was born in a cadre family, she was the eldest in the family, she gave birth to her daughter Tingting when she was thirty years old.
On the sixth day of the first lunar month in 2009, this was an ordinary day, but the trajectory of Sheng Hailin's life changed on this day. Tingting, who was not married, followed her husband to her mother-in-law's house for the New Year, but the two died of carbon monoxide poisoning.
Because Sheng Hailin's husband Lao Wu has been working in other places for many years, Sheng Hailin and her daughter are dependent on each other and have a very good relationship. The bad news of the sudden death of her only daughter once deeply shocked her, and she even had the idea of taking her own life and bought a cemetery where her daughter was buried.
Sheng Hailin died because of her only daughter, she had many ideas, she had begged her relatives and friends to give her a stepchild, and she had also asked friends to help keep an eye on it, and wanted to adopt a child, but there was no result.
Once, Sheng Hailin found that Nanning had cracked a child trafficking case, and the police found more than 60 abducted children. She also called the person concerned in the hope of adopting one, but was refused. She had pleaded that the child should be put in her custody and returned when the child's parents found it.
When Lao Wu heard his wife's words next to him, his heart was very uncomfortable, and he advised her that it was against the law.
Later, Sheng Hailin decided to rely on the power of science to regenerate a child through test tube technology. Although Lao Wu strongly opposed it, he finally agreed with his wife's idea.
After experiencing heavy bleeding during pregnancy and pain all over her body, Sheng Hailin gave birth to twin daughters Zhizhi and Huihui in May 2010.
At this time, Sheng Hailin and his wife have reached retirement age, and if they do not give birth to these two daughters, the two can live a relatively rich life by relying on retirement wages.
With the birth of her child, Sheng Hailin once again embarked on the job, often going to other places to give lectures. Sometimes, the daughters would call her and say they missed her and wanted her home. The eldest daughter would help persuade her sister not to cry, and her mother was out earning money to support them.
In 2016, the family suffered another accident, and the old Wu suffered a stroke and hemiplegia. Sheng Hailin found a nanny to help take care of her husband and children, she is still running for her livelihood, she feels that she is an engine, and she can't do it without her at home.
In addition, Sheng Hailin also has to take time to accompany her children. Once, she followed her child to participate in a parent-child activity organized by the school, and other parents thought she was the child's grandmother and asked her why the child's parents did not come.
Zhizhi once told Sheng Hailin that when he grew up, he wanted to get married as soon as possible, and it was best to marry at the age of twenty, so that his parents could see her marry as soon as possible. These words made Sheng Hailin feel both satisfied and sad.
Sheng Hailin said that she began to return to her family after the age of 70, and she had to take care of herself and live well so that her family could live well.
Today, the two children have turned 10 years old, and Sheng Hailin rarely dreams of her eldest daughter Tingting again. In the past few years, she looked at the faces of Zhizhi and Huihui, and felt that the longer they grew, the more they resembled Tingting and her son-in-law, and she felt as if the two were back to her side.
Some of the materials are synthesized from CCTV, Beijing Television, The Paper, etc
Editor: Lin Yang