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The one-child family is already a very large group in the mainland, and a couple with only one child is also very happy. However, there is also a shocking data, that is, there are about 1 million "orphan families" in China, and the vast majority of parents will not think that such a bad luck will befall them.
Behind these figures is the history of the blood and tears of many parents, even parents who have been rare for a long time. Sheng Hailin is one of the sad mothers.
Thirteen years ago, 60-year-old Sheng Hailin once had an only daughter who had reached adulthood, but because of an accident, her daughter left her forever. Sheng Hailin's world suddenly turned gray, she even bought a cemetery in advance, wanted this life, and went to another world to find her daughter.
Fortunately, time is the best medicine, when Sheng Hailin saw many mothers leading their children, the family said and laughed, she sprouted a new hope for life. She decided to have another child and pursue the joy of heaven again.
Having a child at the age of 60, if it had been in the past, would have been called a fantasy. However, the continuous advancement of medical technology has given hope to many elderly mothers like Sheng Hailin who are trying to conceive. Through the technology of IVF, Sheng Hailin gave birth to twin daughters, creating a new record for advanced maternal age in the mainland at that time.
Sheng Hailin gave birth to twin daughters, which caused a great sensation at the time. Some supporters say the arrival of the twin daughters saved the orphaned family, and they let their elderly parents see the dawn of life again. There are also objections that the parents are 60 years old and have given birth to twin daughters, which is irresponsible for the children.
Raising two children requires huge economic strength and physical strength and energy, and if the children are not well raised, the parents are irresponsible.
In the face of too many doubts, Sheng Hailin proved that her choice was correct
▼ Elderly childbirth, Sheng Hailin is not an irresponsible mother, she is a mother who pays attention to science.
Sheng Hailin's decision to have another child is not a manifestation of impulsiveness, she has decided after careful consideration. She is a medical worker, and she has done a lot of preparatory work for the birth of her child, assessing her physical condition and carefully considering her parenting plan after the birth of her child.
▼ Raising children, Sheng Hailin is not bad at all than the young mother.
In the blink of an eye, the child is already a 12-year-old girl, and her mother Sheng Hailin is already a 72-year-old man, can she still bring two children?
We can see from the dynamics that Sheng Hailin often publishes that the two daughters have grown up very well and get along very well with their mothers. In addition to paying attention to the cultivation of children's cultural knowledge, mother Sheng Hailin also spent a lot of energy and money to cultivate children's talents, and the two daughters are versatile.
▼ Preparing 7 million education funds for children, Sheng Hailin is an excellent mother.
When many netizens know that this 60-year-old mother gave birth to twin daughters, the biggest question is: The child is 10 years old, you are 70 years old, you are already an old man with no earning power, what if you don't have money to raise children?
So, after giving birth, Sheng Hailin began to work hard to make money, she lectured around, always running between cities, working harder than young people. When her daughter was 12 years old, she said she had already prepared 7 million yuan in education funds for her daughter. I think that even if she stopped making money, she would have saved a lot more money than most young moms and dads.
Sheng Hailin is a great mother, she used actions to explain that maternal love is a magical power, her story, it sounds very simple, but the effort and price she paid behind her may never be able to do it.
Therefore, advanced maternal age is not something that ordinary people can try at will if they want to, and you need to have these abilities.
Professional medical knowledge to ensure the health of yourself and your children.
Sheng Hailin is a medical professional, so her advanced maternal age is not an ordinary maternal. She has strong medical expertise and her own medical team behind her.
We do not recommend that mothers do advanced maternal age, because the average person will face various dangers in pregnancy at an advanced age, but we lack professional knowledge and a strong medical team to back it up, so the safety of our own and their children's lives is very dangerous.
Have a strong economic strength to ensure that the child's subsequent development will not be disconnected.
In these two years, there will occasionally be news reports on the elderly mothers, Ms. Tian in Shandong, and the mother who gave birth to the dragon and phoenix fetus in Hangzhou, they all have a common feature that their economic strength is relatively strong.
Needless to say, elderly mothers, that is, many young mothers, now they have given up having a second child, a third child, not unwilling to have children, but born and can not afford to raise ah!
Although Sheng Hailin is older, she has strong economic strength, and she is not eating the old money, and her ability to make money is much stronger than that of young people. Therefore, elderly mothers should have confidence that after giving birth to a child, the child's follow-up parenting and education will not be disconnected because there is no money.
Parents should have strong personal mental perseverance to overcome various difficulties in life.
Having a child means having more responsibilities, happy lives are all the same, and unhappy lives have different reasons. No one knows what accidents will occur in life, physical illness, career failure, and various blows in life will be particularly heavy because of the arrival of children.
Raising children and educating children is a long and tortuous road, and mothers of elderly mothers must have a strong heart and a young heart to face the ups and downs in real life in order to bring our children a happy life.
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