It is said that women who give birth to children are through the ghost gate, and this sentence is very consistent with Sheng Hailin at that time. At the age of 60, Sheng Hailin risked her own safety to give birth to twin daughters, becoming the oldest mother at that time. When Sheng Hailin first gave birth to a child, she was still very excited, and now 11 years later, Sheng Hailin regrets it.
Sheng Hailin's original family was very happy, she was a retired doctor, and her husband was a veteran. The only daughter had just been married for a year and was still very good, but unfortunately, the daughter and son-in-law died unexpectedly. Sheng Hailin was devastated, she was an elderly mother when she gave birth to this daughter, and she also experienced a lot of hardships, so her daughter has been the pearl in Sheng Hailin's hand since she was a child.
Sheng Hailin is such a daughter, and now unfortunately passed away, and the old two will be lonely and lonely after that. Due to her age, Sheng Hailin originally wanted to adopt a child to ease her grief, but it took a long time to find a suitable candidate. Later, Sheng Hailin wanted to have another child herself. This idea was strongly opposed by the people around her, and Sheng Hailin's age no longer allowed to do IVF.
But Sheng Hailin's heart was already decided, and she used all the methods to successfully pass the IVF pregnancy. Later, he experienced many difficulties, and only at the age of 60 did he risk death and give birth to twin daughters. Sheng Hailin and her husband saw their lovely daughter and rekindled the hope of life. But the two children were born prematurely and needed to be taken care of.
Moreover, after giving birth to a child, the cost of the family slowly increases. Although Sheng Hailin and her husband have a lot of pensions, the children's expenses are quite large now, not to mention later. So the husband and wife can only start working again, Sheng Hailin's husband is old after all, and after a few years, he suffered a stroke and was paralyzed in bed, and Sheng Hailin could only support the family alone.
Now, after 11 years of bittersweet and bittersweet, Sheng Hailin, who is over 70 years old, said in an interview that although these two children are gifts from heaven, they dare not think about their future lives. Sheng Hailin said that if there is a next life, she will not choose to have another child. It seems that Sheng Hailin regrets it now, but there is no regret medicine in the world, and Sheng Hailin is now living so tired, which is also caused by herself.
Netizens have said that "the most pitiful thing is the child", Sheng Hailin's husband has been paralyzed in bed and needs to be taken care of. If Sheng Hailin falls again, the two teenage children will have to take on the heavy responsibility of supporting the family and take care of the two old people. At a young age, they will be forced by life, which is too unfair to them.
Therefore, having children at an advanced age is a big thing, and we must think clearly before doing it. This is not only responsible for oneself, but also for the child. As an adult, don't be too selfish and just think about your own happiness and don't care about your child's future.