Home and everything are always the simplest wishes of ordinary Chinese. But there is such a group, they also once had a happy and harmonious time with their children, but the weather is unpredictable, due to various reasons and accidents, finally let the white-haired people send the black-haired people, which is regrettable.
Such a group of people is called the group of people who have lost their independence. And Sheng Hailin is such a lost mother. She originally had a lovely daughter, and the daughter also had a happy family. Ben reached the age of retirement and could enjoy her old age without worry, but an accident caused her to lose her daughter forever.
The 60-year-old Sheng Hailin was deeply involved in the pain of losing her beloved daughter and finally chose to risk having another child. At such an advanced age, she gave birth to twins, but now she regrets it, and her life has become a pot of porridge.
The loss of a beloved daughter
Sheng Hailin and his wife are retired employees of state-owned enterprises, the two retire a month after the total of more than 10,000 yuan of pension, the old two of the day is therefore very comfortable, because the two are healthy, the only daughter of the two Tingting has also entered the palace of marriage, their neighbors often express envy for this, saying that they hope that they can be as relaxed as they are when they are old.
The life of the second old is actually very simple, perhaps from the hard days, their daily expenses are almost very small, Sheng Hailin said that saving more money is more secure, on the one hand, people have to go to the hospital more or less when they are old, they have to save some money, on the other hand, the daughter also needs a large amount of expenses after marriage and having children.
But what they did not expect was that before the day of holding their grandson, their daughter died unexpectedly.
Sheng Hailin, who was asleep that day, suddenly received a call from the fire station, saying that their daughter's situation might not be good. Sheng Hailin's heart tightened, and she woke up her old partner and went to the hospital together. But what awaited was the news of her daughter's death.
It turned out that the daughter's home leaked gas at night, and the two sleeping people did not realize the danger, or the neighbor felt that something was wrong before calling the police. It was too late, and both the daughter and son-in-law died of gas poisoning.
This made Sheng Hailin difficult to accept, and she fainted directly in front of the emergency room of the hospital in grief. She couldn't believe that her daughter, who had come to visit her the day before, had now turned into a cold corpse. Obviously, the daughter and son-in-law are good people with good hearts and never done evil, why did they end up like this?
Since then, for a long time, Sheng Hailin has been unable to get out of the shadow of losing her beloved daughter. Whenever she saw the items related to her daughter in the house, she couldn't help but burst into tears. Even though all the relatives took turns persuading her to look forward and make her think that if her daughter was alive, she didn't want her to be so depressed, but she still had a hard time getting out of the pain, after all, it was her only daughter!
The turning point came when a TV show aired. It was a report about a lost mother getting pregnant again, and Sheng Hailin resonated deeply with the mother on TV, so she also began to move the idea of having another child, wanting to let the daughter of heaven live in another way.
Successful conception
Although modern medical technology has matured, it is still a problem for a 60-year-old woman to conceive again. At that time, Sheng Hailin and her husband went to major hospitals for detailed examinations, and the replies they got were not recommended to conceive again, because Sheng Hailin was indeed too old and the risk of conception was unpredictable.
However, Sheng Hailin and his wife have not given up, because Sheng Hailin feels that with the protection of her daughter in the dark, she will be able to do so. Later, they learned that there was a very mature hospital in Shanghai for IVF, so the two of them set off for Shanghai the next day after learning the news.
After the examination as usual, Sheng Hailin anxiously waited for the results. The kung fu paid off, and this time there was really hope. The doctor told her about the risks and prescribed her some medication to take regularly. Sheng Hailin said that she was willing to bear all the risks, so sheng Hailin, who was 60 years old, did IVF.
And Heaven finally took care of their family this time, and IVF succeeded. Sheng Hailin, who risked her life to give birth, ended up with a mother and daughter safe, and it was still a twin. This made Sheng Hailin overjoyed, and she silently thanked her daughter who had passed away in her heart, and was determined to regain her strength and raise her two daughters as adults.
However, this joy did not last long, because Sheng Hailin and his wife found that raising children is a matter of both physical and financial costs, the milk powder money of the two children can account for half of the pension of the second old man in a month, and the children's education expenses and the cost of food and clothing are not a small cost, thinking of this, Sheng Hailin suddenly began to doubt whether his decision to risk having a child at the beginning was correct.
Life is chaotic into a pot of porridge
In fact, parents who have raised children know that the younger the child, the more difficult it is to bring, because they may cry and wet the bed at night, and adults need to constantly get up at night to take care of it, and for Sheng Hailin and his wife who are more than half a hundred years old, this is undoubtedly a difficult thing to deal with.
So they hired a babysitter to share the pressure. Although the days passed more and more tightly, but looking at the innocent eyes and bright smiles of the two children, Sheng Hailin felt that everything was worth it.
Over time, the children also grew up day by day. Sheng Hailin, who thought she could relax a little, heard the bad news from the nanny that her husband had fainted at home. At that time, she was out giving health lectures in the hope of making more money for her children, so she was often away from home.
After hearing the news, Sheng Hailin rushed to the hospital, but was told that her husband was paralyzed. And this also means that there is one more person in the family who needs to be taken care of. It can be said that the burden of life has been pressed on the shoulders of Sheng Hailin.
Picking up and dropping off her daughter, taking care of her husband, and cooking made Sheng Hailin overwhelmed, and her life almost became a pot of porridge. But this is the path you have chosen, and no matter how difficult it is, you have to grit your teeth to get through it. Sheng Hailin, who has experienced many hardships, seems to be more optimistic and strong, she said that every day for the family to be busy, there is a sense of fullness, but also let her forget the past pain, so she will continue to work hard to live and give her daughters a good childhood.
brief summary:
Sheng Hailin, who lost her only daughter at the age of 60, is undoubtedly unfortunate, but she was lucky to give birth to twin daughters later, at least life has a head start.
And her optimistic and strong spirit is also worth learning, just as the so-called life is a pass is difficult to pass, as long as you do not give up hope, there will be a turnaround.