The ancients often said: "
There are three filial pieties, and no queen is greater
”。 For the inheritance of blood, for the sake of old age to rely on. In ancient times, there was no ambiguity in terms of fertility,
Basically, they are more fertile and have more children and grandchildren to reduce the risk of incense being cut off
。 With the change of the times, today's people are more exquisite
Eugenics and one-child families are also gradually increasing
。
However, no matter how it changes, there is a common understanding from ancient times to the present, that is
The dangers of older childbearing
。 Due to the backward medical conditions in ancient times, therefore
The results of older childbearing are often resigned to fate, life and death follow fate
。 And today, even if medical technology is relatively mature, but
There are still risks associated with giving birth at an advanced age compared to those of the right age
。 However, more than 10 years ago, for his own happiness, the nearly 70-year-old Sheng Hailin ignored everything and risked death to have another child! Because of this incident, she became one of the most famous elderly pregnant women at that time.
The disillusionment of happiness
Speaking of Sheng Hailin,
She was the most enviable object in the eyes of countless relatives and friends
。 She is the president of a hospital in Hefei and has a decent job. He has an only child, who has a good job, is married well, and the family has been happy. Until Sheng Hailin retired in 2005, she was still planning how she would raise her life in the future and live a comfortable life in her dreams with her wife.
And yet it's called"
The sky is unpredictable, and people are blessed with misfortunes
”。 In her beautiful yearning, in 2009,
The 29-year-old daughter and son-in-law died of gas poisoning in the family
。 At that time, it was less than four months before their daughter was newly married, which made Sheng Hailin and his wife miserable. For her,
This is not only the sadness and despair of "white-haired people sending black-haired people", but also the worry about the old people who have no children under their knees and no one to take care of them in the future.
One more child!
To this end,
The elderly Sheng Hailin decided to raise another child, first, to help her get out of the pain as soon as possible, and second, to have a landing in the future
。 However, although she tried to conceive and adopt, she failed due to various factors. At a long time, friends around her are advising her to give up childbearing and enjoy the future time, but Sheng Hailin's desire for children is getting stronger and stronger.
Under her constant search and pleading, the effort paid off, and the fertility center of a hospital in Hefei finally gave this answer that was extremely important to her under her expectations:
Can be born
”。 However, this time the birth is not a birth in the traditional sense,
Instead, IVF is performed
Fulfill your mother's dream again
Under the doctor's 3 months of conditioning, Sheng Hailin's body functions reached its peak, and then in October 2009, Sheng Hailin underwent surgery from doctors.
And became pregnant with twins
。 At the moment of the birth of the child, looking at the twin sisters in front of her, Sheng Hailin cried with joy. She named her eldest daughter Wu Shangzhi and her younger daughter Wu Shanghui. whereas
The operation not only revived her dream of becoming a mother, but also broke the record for childbearing age in the history of Chinese medicine.
The cruelty of reality
However, having her own children is gratifying, but the reality also makes her miserable.
She had already retired and had to pull up her two young daughters again. This not only consumed a lot of energy, but also left her years of savings empty.
To do so, she had to return to work and work hard to support her two daughters.
afterward
Sheng Hailin's wife collapsed due to illness, and the situation at home was worse, and she also changed from taking care of two people to taking care of three people. But for her choices, she did not regret it in the slightest, because they were all worth it for her.
status quo
Now, 11 years have passed.
The elderly Sheng Hailin is more than 70 years old, although he still wants to go out to subsidize his family, he has more than enough heart and insufficient strength
。 But the good news is that the children are very sensible, and they hardly add trouble to the "mother", and several people can be regarded as happy. But
After a hundred years of Sheng Hailin's old age, how will the children live?
This is still an unknown.