In recent years, from the perspective of demographic structure, the state has liberalized the two-child policy. After that, many families around us have added second treasures, and there is a lot of laughter in the family. However, there is a phenomenon in society now, that is, young couples are generally not very economically strong, raising a child is still relatively easy, for the sake of quality of life, they generally do not choose the second treasure when they are young.
However, some couples in their early forties, or even about fifty years old, their first child has been relatively mature, and they have a very solid economic foundation, and such families have become the main group of children who are now fertile.
Medically speaking, women's ovarian function has gradually deteriorated since the age of 35. If you have a baby at this age, it may be unfavorable to the baby's development, which increases the risk of fetal malformations to a certain extent, and also has a great harm and burden on the pregnant woman itself.
Fetal miscarriage and preterm birth during pregnancy are more likely than those of pregnant women of the right age, and it will be more difficult to recover after childbirth. But everything is not absolute, today we want to talk about the 60-year-old woman, despite the doctor's objections, still gave birth to a pair of lively and healthy twin daughters. So now that the old lady is 70 years old, how is their family living?
The old woman's name is Sheng Hailin, the reason why she chose to be 60 years old, should enjoy her old age, dancing square dance, traveling age to give birth to a baby, in fact, there are her own reasons. It turned out that Sheng Hailin had a daughter before, and at that time, due to family planning reasons, Sheng Hailin only had this one child. The couple poured all their love into their daughter, but they did not expect that an accident took their daughter's life. When sorting out the relics for her daughter, Sheng Hailin, who was originally full of thoughts, had the idea of having another child.
Sheng Hailin was originally a doctor, although she has retired, but years of experience have also told her that she is not suitable for having children at this age. But she still insisted on having another child for herself and her wife, and she sought medical treatment everywhere, but from Shanghai to Nanjing to Hubei, everyone gave her a negative answer. Later, in a hospital in Hefei, the doctors were very sympathetic after listening to Sheng Hailin's experience, and they felt respect for the old man's choice.
For the next three months, Sheng Hailin spent in the hospital. She takes injections and medicines every day, regulates her body, and waits for all aspects of the parameters to adjust to the right value before undergoing IVF. In this process, Sheng Hailin and his wife spent hundreds of thousands of yuan, which is the savings of the two people's lives, but Sheng Hailin has no complaints or regrets. Finally, at the insistence of the husband and wife, coupled with the efforts of the doctor, the 60-year-old Sheng Hailin gave birth to a pair of twin daughters. The couple regarded it as a treasure and decided to raise the child well.
However, after the birth of a child, they face very real problems. Children's food, clothing, housing and transportation are everywhere to ask for money, Sheng Hailin pays attention to the education of children, so early education classes and high-quality kindergartens must be arranged. In order to raise her daughter, Sheng Hailin had to work again with her husband, they gave lectures everywhere to earn money, and there was no one to take care of them at home, which required a nanny and a childcare sister-in-law.
Due to the continuous rotation of the year, Sheng Hailin's husband, who was already more than 60 years old, finally could not support it and collapsed on the podium of a lecture. Since then, his wife has suffered a stroke and hemiplegia, and Sheng Hailin has to raise a pair of twin daughters and take care of his paralyzed wife alone, and her life has become fragmented.
Later, a reporter interviewed Sheng Hailin and asked her if she had another chance to choose again, would she still want to give birth to this pair of daughters? Sheng Hailin shed tears, and moaned for half a minute before saying, it should not be.
She had hoped to have her children by her side in her old age and enjoy the joys of the world, but if her daughter had not died early, her wish would have been granted. However, life is always unsatisfactory, and the premature death of her daughter has dealt a heavy blow to the old couple. It's just that they were irrational at the time, impulsively wanting to have another child, and did not consider the problems that followed. Now I regret it, but I am afraid that it is already too late. I only hope that my daughter's childish laughter can bring some happiness to Sheng Hailin in a field of chicken feathers.