For parents, there is nothing more tragic than the loss of a child.
In the movie "Dear", Tian Wenjun's son Xiaopeng was abducted by human traffickers.
He and his wife exhausted all methods, sleepless, day and night to find their son, record videos, distribute leaflets, publish search notices, etc., after many ups and downs, finally found Xiaopeng at the end of the movie.
The film comes from life, and the same event occurred in Guizhou.
There is a woman named Zhang Xuexia in Duyun City, Guizhou Province, whose son Zhizhi was lost at the age of 3, and since then he and her husband have embarked on a difficult road to find a son, just like Tian Wenjun and his wife in the movie.
However, life is different from movies.
After 10 years of his son's disappearance, her husband Song Huainan died of depression, jumped down from the upper floor, and wrote eight big words in his notebook before dying: I only want my son Song Yanzhi.
15 years after her husband's death, Zhang Xuexia suddenly found that her missing son was in her friends list, and what was even more surprising was that her son Zhizhi had been "lying" in her friends list for 4 years.
This is not a story, nor a movie, but what is really happening on the mainland, what is the context of this matter?
Everything starts at the beginning.
Zhang Xuexia was born in Guizhou, looks very beautiful, and looks dignified.
There were many men who chased her as an adult, including a boy named Song Huainan, who liked her very much.
The two became increasingly in love, and later married.
In the first 20 years of her life, like other ordinary girls, Zhang Xuexia lived very smoothly.
Although there are often small setbacks in life, they can also be overcome.
She never imagined that after getting married, her life would change drastically, and the most unfortunate thing under the sky would happen to her.
At first, the two were still very happy.
Her husband is very kind to her, everything is based on her first, and life is like honey, sweet and nourishing.
Not long after the marriage, Zhang Xuexia became pregnant, and both of them were very happy and waited for the birth of the baby with joy.
This is their first child and will be their only child.
They gave the child a good name in advance, called "Song Yanzhi", hoping that their baby would be able to have knowledge and wisdom when he grew up.
In October 1988, the child was born, and his family called him "Zhizhi", zhizhi had thick eyebrows and big eyes, and was very cute.
The arrival of the "new members" made the family very happy, and the couple put all their energy and thoughts on their son.
Sometimes, although I am tired from work, as soon as I see my child, I feel that my fatigue has eased by more than half.
Such happy days lasted for three years, and these three years were the happiest days in Zhang Xuexia and her husband's life.
Then their lives fell into boundless darkness.
Two days before New Year's Day in 1991, the atmosphere on the street was very festive and lively, and everyone was happily looking forward to the arrival of the New Year.
It also snowed in Duyun City, which made the three-year-old Zhizhi very happy, this was the first time he saw snow, and the little guy was very excited.
The fleshy little hand grabbed the window, tiptoed up and looked out, "So pretty! ”
"Yeah, because it's snowing outside!" Does Chi Chi like to watch the snow? Zhang Xuexia looked at her son and asked softly.
"Loved it!" Zhizhi opened his arms and gestured for his mother to hold him.
She picked up her son and patiently said to him:
"Today Mom and Dad are going out, the baby is going to find Grandpa to play, Grandpa takes you to see the snow."
"Good!" Wisely said.
If Zhang Xuexia could predict the development of fate later, even if she did not work and did not earn money, he would never send her child over.
For the next twenty years, she regretted her decision every day.
What happened then?
Zhang Xuexia sent her son to her grandfather and instructed her father to "take good care of Zhizhi." ”
The old man took the child and said to his daughter, "Rest assured, Zhizhi listens to Grandpa's words very much, isn't it Zhizhi?" ”
Grandpa touched Zhizhi's fleshy little face and asked with a smile.
Zhizhi nodded, Zhang Xuexia kissed her son, and reluctantly went to work.
She couldn't have imagined that this would be the last time she would kiss her son's little face and the last time she'd see his smile.
When Zhang Xuexia was at work, she suddenly received a phone call from her father.
As soon as it was connected, I heard my father breathlessly say, "Xuexia, hurry!" fast! Zhizhi is gone, come back! ”
Hearing her father's words, Zhang Xuexia threw away the work in her hand, turned around and ran outside.
How could Zhizhi be gone! Oh my God, her whole world collapsed at that moment.
She hurriedly called her husband, and the two of them rushed to their father's place.
Zhang Xuexia arrived almost at the same time as her husband, and they asked anxiously:
"How could Zhizhi not have disappeared?"
The old man explained: "In the afternoon, the children were playing next to the construction site, Zhizhi and a few children had a good time, I went to the bathroom, two or three minutes of kung fu, out of the baby is gone!" ”
So the old man immediately began to look around, but he did not see the child for several laps, so he quickly called his daughter to let her come back.
As the old man spoke, he began to cry, blaming himself for his grandson's loss.
Zhang Xuexia saw her father like this, and she couldn't bear to get angry again.
The priority was to find her son, so she and her husband went separately to ask the children who were playing with Zhizhi and wanted to know where Zhizhi had ended up.
A child said that he saw a tall uncle approaching Zhizhi and wanted to touch his face, but Zhizhi avoided it, and the uncle picked up Zhizhi and left.
Hearing this, the couple realized that their son might have been abducted, so they immediately called the police and explained the situation to the police station.
Upon report, the police immediately began an investigation.
During the investigation, she and her husband did not give up looking for their son, they printed a large number of search notices, mobilized relatives and friends around them to post on the street, and asked everywhere.
Every intersection, every telephone pole, and every alley in Duyun City is plastered with photos of Zhizhi, not even a single corner.
At the train station, the bus station, they had to run several times a day, and despite their futile efforts, they still went every day, afraid that their son would leave the city.
At this time, perhaps Zhizhi is no longer in Guizhou Province.
Surveillance in 1991 was not as popular as it is now, and a child was lost on the street without any video data to view.
Maybe this child will never be found again.
After running around like this for many months, Zhizhi still had no news.
Zhang Xuexia and her husband have lost dozens of pounds, they can't sleep at night, once they close their eyes, they are all the faces of children, they can't fall asleep, and they will dream that Zhizhi is suffering, and then they wake up from the dream.
I couldn't eat it, and both of them were very haggard.
They had seen hope once.
The police station once arrested a prisoner who abducted and sold children, and after being corrected by the children, it was the person who took away the wisdom that day.
However, the man's mouth was very "tight" and he didn't say anything.
Zhang Xuexia had gone to the police station to see him, and as if she had lost her mind, she grabbed this collar and shouted loudly:
"You beast, why did you take someone else's child, you don't have children?" Sooner or later, your child will also be taken away! ”
Then the prisoner finally spoke and told Zhang Xuexia and his wife that they could go to Anxi, Fujian Province, to find out, and as for whether he was not in him, he was just a small pawn of this "organization".
Hearing this, Zhang Xuexia and her husband immediately got into the car and rushed over, but there was no trace of Zhizhi.
Later, they went to nearby Putian, Changle and other places.
Every time they passed a place, they asked people everywhere, held up signs at the train station, but always looked for a needle in a haystack, without any gain.
There are even people who lie to them, saying that they "know where the children are" and asking for a part of the deposit first.
The couple was "eager to find a son" and was convinced, and as a result, they were cheated out of all the travel expenses.
Once, Song Huainan went too far, ran out of money on his body, and had no money to stay in a hotel.
I wanted to find a place to stay for one night without spending money, and then find a way to do it the next day.
As a result, they were chased out by the security guards and slapped several times, and what happened here later bought the bane.
Relatives and friends see that they can't bear it, and they also know that the child is most likely to be unable to find it, so it is recommended that the couple better have another one.
However, the two have never been able to let go of their wisdom, they refuse to give up looking for a son, nor are they willing to have another child in this situation and make him a "substitute".
Later, in order to find a child, the husband and wife quit their jobs, took their savings and began to run around.
They decided to go separately, Zhang Xuexia looked for it closer to home, and her husband ran to other provinces and cities to distribute leaflets.
However, the savings were almost spent, and his son Zhizhi was still not heard.
The couple's heart was extremely bitter, and her husband Song Huainan's heart quietly changed.
He became more and more stressed, crying for half a day every time he thought of his son, and his mood was always in a low state.
Diagnosed with "depression" by doctors.
At this time, Zhang Xuexia's courage was even heavier, and she had to take care of her depressed husband while looking for her son.
Perhaps aware that he had placed a lot of burden on his wife, one afternoon he jumped down from the upper floor.
He also left a suicide note, lamenting that his son had not been found.
He could not find a son in this life, and he felt that life had lost its meaning.
Zhang Xuexia was devastated, losing her beloved son a few years ago, and now losing her husband.
Neighbors all said that Zhang Xuexia was really a poor woman! Everything bad under the sky made her crash.
However, this "unlucky" woman did not give up her life or give up looking for a son.
She rested at home for three years, adjusted her mentality, and re-embarked on the "search for a child".
As soon as she heard that there was a person who looked very similar to her son, she immediately got in the car and rushed over.
However, each time it was disappointment, and after the disappointment, I cried bitterly and continued to look for it the next day.
Twenty years later, the web began to develop.
Zhang Xuexia also slowly learned to post on the Internet, and later appeared on CCTV's family search program, but there was no news of Zhizhi.
Thinking about it, I know that Zhizhi was lost at the age of three, and more than twenty years have passed, and he has long forgotten the matter of 3 years old.
Because before the traffickers mentioned the place "Anxi".
Therefore, Zhang Xuexia will go every year, and every time she goes, she will hope to see Zhizhi here.
Zhang Xuexia's affair was also seen by the local media, and they helped her publish a search notice, which attracted the attention of many people.
Among them was a young man, who was from Guangdong.
One year during the Spring Festival, she was sent a message, first wishing her a happy Lantern Festival, and then saying that she was raised, and her cousin said that he looked like Zhizhi when he was a child.
Will this person be wise?
Zhang Xuexia immediately asked the young man if he had a birthmark and asked him to take a picture.
Seeing the photo, she immediately determined that the young man was her son.
To be more affirmative, she asked the young man if he would like to do a DNA test, and was answered in the affirmative.
Zhang Xuexia's heart was extremely excited, this was the closest she had to Zhizhi.
Soon the results of the appraisal came out, confirming that the young man was Zhizhi.
The mother and son hugged and cried, and then Zhang Xuexia found that she had added her son Zhizhi four years ago.
But because I was too nervous at that time, I got the wrong position of the birthmark.
The mother and son lost their arms and missed the opportunity to recognize each other 4 years ago.
After retrieving her son, Zhang Xuexia led him to her husband's grave.
Tell him: "I have found my son, husband, you can sleep in peace." ”
After 20 years of hard searching, this bitter woman finally found her son.
Bless the mother and son and live a smooth life from then on.
May there be no turning in the world! I hope that every child can grow up healthy and safe in the company of their parents, and I also wish every lost child can go home smoothly!