Nothing can be done, only the unthinkable.
In fact, everything is like this, we must dare to think and dare to do, only by doing it can we succeed, and we can never succeed if we do it, after all, everything is acceptable to someone, even if the audience is small, sooner or later one day it can be encountered.
The embarrassed aunt dared to think
Liu Xiuying, 60 years old, divorced, pension 2600 yuan, housing area of 53 square meters, Aunt Liu is a person who dares to think and dare to do, this is not a blind date day, the red lady entered the house but found that there is still a man living in the back room, this operation is really to give the red lady are confused, the days are over, why are you still looking for an object?
Under careful questioning, I learned that this man is no one else, it is Aunt Liu's ex-husband, in order to prove that he has divorced, Aunt Liu quickly took out the divorce certificate, but what people don't understand is that since they are all divorced, why do they still live under the same roof?
The reason was learned that it turned out that Aunt Liu had been divorced from her ex-husband for 12 years, and at that time, the divorce was that her ex-husband drank and drank all day, and the family's affairs were not worried at all, and Aunt Liu became a strong woman, running the family outside the home.
Originally, Aunt Liu did not think about divorce for her son, until once her ex-husband got into a fight with her after drinking, where is this Aunt Liu's opponent ah, after a while she hung up the color, so there were 3 stitches on her head, this time the dead-hearted Aunt Liu plucked up the courage to sue for divorce.
I thought that this parting would no longer have anything to do with her ex-husband, but since her ex-husband was half-dead in 2014, Aunt Liu slowly contacted her ex-husband regardless of her previous suspicions, and also took care of her ex-husband, of course, all this is not for her ex-husband, but for her son.
At first, the son was taking care of the half-dead father, when he was busy, he sent his father to a nursing home, 3 years ago, the son suffered from uremia and was divorced, and now he relies on dialysis to maintain his life, and the burden of taking care of the father The son cannot be picked up, then when the mother, naturally helps the son to bear, after all, she does not want to see her son suffer.
During the epidemic, Aunt Liu picked up her ex-husband from the nursing home, and has not been sent to the nursing home since then, rehabed her ex-husband every day, afraid that her ex-husband would stay at home and be bored, she was a woman who also carried her ex-husband upstairs to go outside to breathe fresh air, which can be said to be benevolent to her ex-husband.
In fact, Aunt Liu did not think of looking for a wife again, she knew that she had two mountains of ex-husband and son pressing on her, and it was more difficult to find a wife.
Only under the influence of friends, Aunt Liu also moved her heart, because these years she is really too bitter, take care of her ex-husband and son will not say, but the family's electric gate or something is broken, she also has to face to ask someone to help, it is too difficult, in the words of Aunt Liu: no matter how strong a woman, she also needs a man, so Aunt Liu contacted the red lady to introduce herself to an object, she also wants to have an arm to lean on.
At this time, the ex-husband sitting on the side also has some words in his heart to say, he was bedridden at the beginning, it was the care of his ex-wife, he could get back up and walk slowly, life can also take care of himself, that is, half of his body is still a little unable to move, can not cook by himself.
At the same time, the ex-husband also knows that Aunt Liu is looking for a wife on a blind date today, he said that he will be heart-to-heart, he can't always think for himself, his ex-wife takes care of himself and does suffer a lot, the waist disc is tired and somewhat prominent, if the ex-wife can find a wife, then he is also willing to live in a nursing home again, and will not cause trouble to the ex-wife.
And Aunt Liu's side of the idea of finding a wife has two points, the first point is that the son must not give up, when the mother's is for the son to live, if the man is willing to take care of her ex-husband, then she is more happy, of course, Aunt Liu said that she can take care of her ex-husband in this way, in the future, in case the man falls first, then he can definitely take care of the man, it is impossible to treat others badly.
The second point is that if the right eye edge, the man can not accept the ex-husband, then she can only give up the ex-husband's head, should be sent to the nursing home to the nursing home, this is also no way to do things.
To say that Aunt Liu's condition to find a wife is indeed a bit difficult for the red bride, but since Aunt Liu has a demand, the red bride can not ignore it, so the red bride introduced the 66-year-old Zhu Wentai, divorced, the economic income is about 5,000 yuan, and the housing area is 60 square meters.
This uncle is very frugal
In fact, Uncle Zhu's monthly pension is only 1,000 yuan, the remaining economic source is that he opened a watch repair shop, and every month when the business is good, there is also an income of four or five thousand, two or three thousand in the off-season, and on average, there is such a comprehensive income.
To say that Uncle Zhu in addition to repairing watches, he also has a craft, that is, the use of some waste materials to make some cabinets or something, on the cabinets in his watch repair shop, are all made by himself, talking, Uncle Zhu invited the red lady to go home to see, because his home also made a lot of things.
After returning home, Uncle Zhu continued to show it, this cabinet is made by us, and the ceiling is also made by ourselves, here and there are all made by ourselves, why do we do it ourselves? That is not to save some money, hire someone to do at least a thousand dollars, do 200 yuan yourself to get it done, the materials are still picked up by others do not want, which saves a lot of money.
Logically speaking, Uncle Zhu's monthly income is also considerable, but why does he need to save everywhere? People Uncle Zhu said, now can still do the work, that can not save a little well, and when the ability to work, this time can take out money to spend, this money is real money, as for such savings, is to provide for the elderly without worry, and then find a wife, but also to give people a living security.
Speaking of Uncle Zhu is also a person with a plan, but when it comes to finding a wife, Uncle Zhu said again, then you can no longer find a style like your ex-wife, and you don't want it.
It seems that this Uncle Zhu was hurt by his ex-wife deep enough, and he still can't forget it, in fact, Uncle Zhu and his ex-wife divorced in 2014, the reason for the divorce is because the ex-wife is too selfish, it is simply for the mother's family to give everything they have.
For example, there are useless things in the family, as long as the mother's brother says to want, the ex-wife will give the younger brother unconditionally, once Uncle Zhu planted a greenhouse in the countryside to buy the hose at home, but when it is used, how can not be found, asked the ex-wife also said that he did not know.
Uncle Zhu was angry, on the spot to the ex-wife's brother's home to look for, sure enough, found the hose, in the words of Uncle Zhu, as long as there is something missing in the family, run to the ex-wife's brother's house to ensure that it can be found, the ex-wife's brother's son was kicked by a mosquito, the ex-wife will find himself to think of countermeasures, in short, it is so exaggerated.
For these things, Uncle Zhu and his ex-wife are often quarrelsome, the days have been long, the two have been separated for four or five years, and then one day on Mother's Day, Uncle Zhu thought that his ex-wife was also the mother of the child, he blessed her, and also wanted to invite his ex-wife to go to dinner, which once thought that his ex-wife was like an explosive, and scolded Uncle Zhu without saying a word.
In the end, Uncle Zhu chose to divorce his ex-wife on Mother's Day, he said that no matter who he was, no matter how patient he was, it would always break out when he reached a certain level, and he was really intolerable at that time, so there was no need to endure anymore.
After the divorce, Uncle Zhu was busy taking care of the watch repair shop, so many years he has not looked for it again, seeing that he is so old, he feels that there is no one around him, after all, life is too monotonous and boring, which is why he wants to find a wife to spend his old age together.
For the requirements of finding a wife again, Uncle Zhu said that he did not want to be noisy anymore, he must find a kind heart, at least two people can love each other, when we need it, the wife can pour a cup of tea, and when the wife needs it, we can also help the wife.
In this way, Red Niang felt that what Uncle Zhu needed was exactly someone like Aunt Liu, and she just didn't know if Uncle Zhu, the burden on Aunt Liu's body, could accept it, and as for whether she could accept it, wouldn't she have to meet and talk about it? Therefore, under the arrangement of the Red Lady, Aunt Liu came to Uncle Zhu's home for a blind date.
Oh my God, this is not a pit man
After the two sides met, when Aunt Liu learned that the cabinets and ceilings in Uncle Zhu's home were all made of discarded materials he picked up, Aunt Liu cast a look of approval, bluntly saying that Uncle Zhu was a person who would live a life, and she liked such a person, so Aunt Liu had a good first look at Uncle Zhu.
And Uncle Zhu looked up and down aunt Liu also gave a high evaluation, very good, the edge of the eye passed, a glance is a simple person who will live a life, unlike others dressed up in the flower branches, on the set of clothes worn by Aunt Liu, he took a look at it and knew that she had worn it for at least 3 years, if you don't believe it, you can ask her, this dress is the style of three years ago.
To say that this old man guessed can be really accurate, a time to engage in Aunt Liu is still a little embarrassed, bluntly said that this dress must have 4 years, but Aunt Liu also said, your pants belt are like this is not also tied well, indicating that we are quite right, are saving people who will live a life.
In the mutual dismantling of the stage, the two people talked and laughed, the atmosphere is also quite harmonious, but after all, it is said that it is noisy, and serious things must be talked about, when Aunt Liu learned that Uncle Zhu's medical insurance is a community medical insurance, her face showed an ugly expression.
In aunt Liu's view, her life has been bitter enough, community medical insurance can only reimburse 40 percent, in case Uncle Zhu gets sick, he can take care of it, but it is somewhat difficult to pay for this aspect, after all, the reimbursement ratio of community medical insurance and municipal medical insurance is not the same, half of it.
In this regard, Uncle Zhu took the initiative to explain that his body is still very good, even if he is sick in the future, this is not related to Aunt Liu, there is no need for Aunt Liu to be afraid, he still has two girls, they will take money.
Hearing Uncle Zhu say this, Aunt Liu put her heart at ease, and at this time she also plucked up the courage to say that her son suffered from uremia.
I thought that Uncle Zhu would mind more, but Uncle Zhu's performance was really different from others, but he said such a sentence: Oh Mom, such a young age has uremia, aren't you pit people? This god is also too bad for children.
However, Uncle Zhu also admitted that if they come together, Aunt Liu's children are the same as their own children, there is more money, less money is less, and they have to help their children, catch up with the Festival, and give other people's children a thousand yuan to see, that is also normal, people have to live to do a good job of conscience.
Listen, aunt Liu's eyes on the side are a little moist, and then Uncle Zhu comforted Aunt Liu, you want to do this, then we have to care more about you in the future, take care of you, you are not easy, I am a person with too soft heart, sometimes watching TV will cry a nose.
Uncle Zhu's reasonableness made Aunt Liu very moved, and at the same time she also saw the possibility of being with Uncle Zhu, and when her son's affairs were finished, she also explained the affairs of her ex-husband.
So what ex-husband is still living with us, he has cerebral hemorrhage half of the body can not be done, the son can not take care of, so we will take over to take care of, the former husband in the nursing home stay, every New Year's Day to see other elderly people are taken back by the children, the ex-husband alone on the tears of the nursing home, we are soft hearted to take back.
This pick up is not good to send out, a send it, he will cry, before he was a person who did not love to cry, never saw him cry, do not know why he is old and love to cry, we are still soft-hearted, did not force it to go to the nursing home.
According to the reason, this shelving ordinary people is really somewhat unacceptable, but Uncle Zhu's ideological consciousness is super positive, before Aunt Liu's words are finished, Uncle Zhu took over the stubble, you should take care of it, people are sick like this, love to cry, he is afraid that no one wants him.
In Uncle Zhu's view, Aunt Liu's character is very good, all of them are ex-husbands and take care of them, which means that if he has this day in the future, Aunt Liu can also take care of himself, so he is also assured to hand himself over to Aunt Liu, even if Aunt Liu does not take care of her ex-husband, he will also take the initiative to let Aunt Liu take care of it, and it doesn't matter if she takes care of her ex-husband for a night, of course, if you go for a month or two, ten days and twenty days, this can not be accepted.
At the moment, Uncle Zhu also made his attitude clear to Aunt Liu, you can rest assured, I am not like others, as soon as I hear your messy things, I will be scared away, I don't pull this matter, you are too tired over the years, all things are supported by one person, after you sit at home, every day I come back from work to make you laugh.
Since Uncle Zhu said so, what else did Aunt Liu say, it is really not easy to meet someone who can accept everything about himself, in this way, both of them have shown their hearts and the blind date has been successful.
Uncle Zhu was not idle, and immediately took out his mobile phone to take a photo of Aunt Liu, not only that, but also let the red lady take a picture of the two of them, Uncle Zhu said happily, he and Aunt Liu are still quite matched, he is also a person with a wife, tomorrow he will go to show his friends.
After some flirting, Uncle Zhu offered to buy some fruits to go to Aunt Liu's home to recognize the door, by the way to visit her ex-husband brother, as well as Aunt Liu's son, since you want to live together, it is necessary to be decent, get everyone's approval, for which Aunt Liu readily agreed, on the way home, the two held hands like this, it seems to be like a wife who has been many years, there is no sense of strangeness.
I have to say that Uncle Zhu and Aunt Liu are people with a relatively soft heart, these two people are combined into one, it is also considered that the fate has just arrived, so ah, when you are burdened with a heavy burden, do not be discouraged, maybe there is a person who appreciates you not far away, impossible things, will become possible.
What do you think of this blind date? If so, would you accept Aunt Liu? Everyone is welcome to express their opinions and give different voices.