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Q: Hello Mr. Zhou, I have been dating my boyfriend for two years, I always feel that he does not love me, very selfish, and I have never been able to make up my mind to enter the palace of marriage with him, I want to ask you, what kind of love is true love, what is the most important thing about true love?
Zhou Guoping: One is that I think true love, there should be one of the most important passions in it, that is, the passion of giving, or the passion of giving. This may sound like moral preaching, but if you think about it, true love is actually like that. If you are really in love with someone, you will not be able to contain the desire to do something for her, want to make her happy, there must be such a strong desire, and it is really unrequited. Love should essentially be giving, a passion of giving, a passion for giving that is not motivated by ideas, not by ethics, not by responsibility, but entirely by feelings. If a person says he loves you, but just wants to possess, just wants you to give, and he doesn't have the passion to give, I think it's probably mainly lust, not love.
What if you don't meet the girl you like, but you are getting older? What drives the world? Is marriage a mandatory question?
Zhou Guoping: There is no standard answer to this question. If you find a girl you like, you probably won't have this problem. Personally, I don't think marriage is what moves the world forward.
In real life, there are two kinds of people. One is to be a rare confused person who is numb on the surface of life, and the other is to be a struggling person after awakening to see the true face of life. You belong to whatever kind of person you are. If you were already relatively simple and living on the surface, you probably wouldn't have to make any choices.
What is the difference between love and friendship, and how to tell whether it is like or love?
Zhou Guoping: Extreme love is easy to say, intoxicated, to die and live, and feel that they cannot be separated for a moment. Strict friendship is better to say, more rational, mutual respect, and keep an appropriate distance from each other. But between these two extremes, and especially in the middle of these two extremes, the lines of love and friendship are indeed blurred, variable, and relative. If you are faced with this situation, I don't think it is necessary to find it out immediately, in fact, it is impossible, you may wish to get along for a while and see. I also think that the ultimate purpose of love is to find someone in this world who can spend this life with, so in the end, to distinguish whether it is love or friendship, you ask yourself this question: Do I want to spend this life with her? The answer lies in it.
Q: Hello Mr. Zhou, the greatest meaning of our life should be to please and bear ourselves, but we often feel shallow about feelings and it is difficult to feel warmth, is this the contradiction between beauty and reality? Or are you not mature and open-minded enough?
Q: If someone you love is in love with someone else, what can we do to relax and live our lives as happily as possible?
Zhou Guoping: I sympathize with you and am very moved. I think life is like this, there must be pain. You don't have to think about how to relieve the pain after you have the pain.
There is no way to relieve the pain in life, and if you go to relieve it, you are actually deceiving yourself, you have to face the pain, and facing the pain can make you profound.
Although you may seem like a loser in real life, you have gained in the spiritual realm, which is not a real failure.
You have to be confident, this confidence is based on your understanding of yourself, not on the choices that others make about you, and the person who does not love you is not necessarily better than you.
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The powerful brain makes us accustomed to rational thinking and controlling emotions, but excessive suppression makes many people start to be anxious and depressed. The better, the more anxious.
Why, the body becomes a machine that only works? Life becomes like a pool of stagnant water? Why are we no longer full of passion and vitality like the ancients?
Perhaps we should go back to the beginning of life and look at the essence of dance - free expression, free dancing body in the field, and regaining that very simple, special essence of vitality.
A flower does not shy, a tree does not have the puzzle of dancing, we have forgotten ourselves for a long time ...
Then follow the modern dance master Gao Yanjinzi to dance, let go of the standard, let go of the stereotype, let go of all the constraints imposed on us, and express freely.
Rejuvenate and energize your body, this is what you want, and this is what modern dance is after.
Only by letting go of the brain can life fully open up. - Tsuko Gao
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Introduction: "Age is a Rumor" is a new collection of essays by writer Zhou Guoping after seven years of absence. The author has realized his life and shared his thoughts and interpretations with readers from different dimensions of spirit, self, life, culture, literature, reading, education and philosophy. More than 70 years of life wisdom has personally conveyed: age is a rumor, just as it does not exist, people live in the present, the current state is young, is young. No matter what age people are, there is only one thing they should do and can do, and that is to live every day.
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