To tell the truth, before the daughter-in-law enters the door, many mothers-in-law work hard and complain, the daughter-in-law enters the house, they have one more enemy, no matter what they do, it seems to be for the daughter-in-law, always like to work against the daughter-in-law.
In fact, if the mother-in-law can treat the daughter-in-law as a family, many contradictions will be solved, but most of the mother-in-law like to play with their hearts, they think they are smart, they do not know, their own approach is likely to anger the daughter-in-law, resulting in a stalemate in the relationship.
Wang Hua comes from a particularly traditional family, before getting married, her mother once taught her that when she arrived at her in-laws' house, she must be filial to her in-laws, and Wang Hua also did what her mother said, but she did not think that her mother-in-law was not satisfied.
Wang Hua bought clothes for his mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law disliked the quality of the clothes and threw them on the ground in front of Wang Hua. When her mother-in-law celebrated her birthday, Wang Hua deliberately let her girlfriend bring specialties from other places, but her mother-in-law said that this was a broken thing and dared to give it to me.
Obviously, Wang Hua was very filial to her in-laws, but her in-laws never thought of her goodness, and often deliberately counted Down Wang Hua in front of outsiders, so that everyone around her thought that Wang Hua was a person who did not respect her in-laws.
How could Wang Hua not understand that he was single-minded in treating the other party, why did the other party always target himself? Once, Wang Hua and her husband were fighting together, but the mother-in-law saw it and said that the young people now really can't stand it, how can they be so shameless.
Seeing that other people's mothers-in-law always regard their daughter-in-law as a treasure, while their own mother-in-law is always picking and choosing, Wang Hua is very unhappy in his heart. She knew that no matter what she did, her mother-in-law would not look good. If this is the case, why should we wronged ourselves? The mother-in-law has always regarded herself as an enemy, so let's fight.
After that, Wang Hua no longer deliberately flattered her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law began to complain, and Wang Hua angrily replied, "How did I treat you before, and how did you treat me, and now I will double my return to you."
After buying a house in the city, Wang Hua and his wife moved to a new house, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were separated, and the contradictions were much less, but the mother-in-law would still go to Wang Hua's home every three to five.
It is reasonable to say that young people are busy at work, and since the mother-in-law has come, she should undertake the task of cooking, but the mother-in-law does not do anything, just watches TV at home, and Wang Hua is very unhappy.
Once Wang Hua's husband was on a business trip, Wang Hua came back from work tired and hungry, saw that her mother-in-law was still leisurely watching TV on the sofa, she gently told her mother-in-law to cook in the future, but her mother-in-law said with a straight face, "Daughter-in-law, I am here to enjoy happiness, why let me cook."
After listening to her mother-in-law's words, Wang Hua was extremely angry, and she angrily replied: "Okay, I order takeaway, you look at it yourself!" Hearing the daughter-in-law say this, the mother-in-law began to accuse the daughter-in-law of not allowing herself to eat, and the two people had a big fight. For several days in a row, Wang Hua ordered takeout to eat by himself, and his mother-in-law had no choice but to make it herself, and then she returned to her hometown in ashes. Since then, the mother-in-law has rarely come to Wang Hua's house, and the relationship between the two people has completely reached a stalemate.
Daughter-in-law is the mother-in-law's belly outside the person, the relationship between the two is good or bad, directly affect the unity of the family, as a mother-in-law should look up to the daughter-in-law, after all, when the daughter-in-law was young, she did not eat her own family's food, and when she became an adult, she had to come to her own home to live. Therefore, if the mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law more kindly, then the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also be more harmonious.