Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Happy marriages never come casually, but women run them with their hearts. Many people take happiness for granted in this world, and others should pay you what they deserve. But where in the world is there so much that is natural? More often, happiness needs to be created by one's own actions.
Many women don't understand love, and they don't understand why they are always not good enough, in fact, there are reasons. Women, you have to understand that getting along with men is not so simple, you have to learn a lot of things. These three behaviors will only keep men farther and farther away from you.
Too much to say
Many women still maintain the desire to share when they are in love after marriage, and they can't wait to talk to each other about the little things that happen every day. Women always feel uncomfortable not to share with each other, and even many women feel that a life with a desire to share is happy, in fact, this is just a thought in their hearts.
The reason why many women are happier married is because they understand what men need. What a man needs is definitely not that you keep chanting all kinds of trivial things next to his ear every day, which will only make people feel disgusted and make him think that you are idle.
The desire to share is indeed a manifestation of love, but after marriage, the desire to share should be appropriately reduced, properly expressed, if you want to say everything to each other, and regardless of the occasion regardless of time, want to cause the other party to respond, such a way of handling feelings is obviously inappropriate.
You will find that many men do not like to listen to these trifles all day long, because married life is not a period of love, and everyone is passionate when they are in love, especially when they are in love. And marriage tends to be more prosaic, closer to chai rice oil and salt, men want to go to work to make money, they simply do not have more heart to listen to you chant some things, so women must take a good sense of speech.
Too many tubes
Many women like to discipline their men after marriage, not only to manage men's economy, but also to manage men's time, which actually does not guarantee your love, but will make you lose the man's liking for you.
Women must understand in love that the concentration of love will not be so high forever. So you must give men the appropriate space to create the feeling of love, and don't let the concentration of love get lower and lower.
Men need to have their own independent space, if you manage him here and there like an old mother all day, it will make the man feel suffocated, he will not want to be with you more and more, and your emotional state will be worse and worse.
Sloppy
Women always feel that men do not love themselves is a man's problem, but they have not reflected on whether they are doing well enough in a relationship. Feelings are inherently something that both parties need to manage.
Many women completely disregard their own image after marriage, and they don't like to dress up all day long, you feel that it doesn't matter, but have you ever thought about what it is like to be a man who lives with you?
No man wants to go home and is faced with a scruffy face. Women still have to learn to manage themselves well, not to ask you to be particularly delicate, but to be clean and tidy. Don't think that you are frugal without dressing, it is a virtue to be frugal in life, but you must not be too critical in front of men, if you cut the door to face anything, this will make men lose interest in you.
Uncle Epilogue:
Many women like to find all kinds of excuses for their behavior, but in the end they blame men for changing their hearts, in fact, love originally needs both parties to maintain. If you're sloppy all day, don't think ahead, and care about this and that, who do you think will like you?
Getting married and having children is not your reason for laziness, nor is it an excuse for you not to dress up, no matter what stage of life you are in, as a woman you should try to make yourself live exquisitely, and know the secret of getting along with men, so that you will live younger and younger, the happier you live.